Erections with anal play?

[allapologies]

Hello board, first time poster. I was just curious, during anal play, fisting or fucking, if you are erect while doing so? Now, I only fuck myself with a decent sized dildo, no extreme dilation. When I first started, I would be erect the whole time, then I noticed I would be erect in the beginning, then it would subside. Now, I usually am rather flacid the entire time, though it feels better than it ever has! Has anyone else experienced this? I noticed in pornos (specifically shemale) that the performers usually are flacid as well, but sometimes are hard without any stimulation to their penis. Just thought the wise board could shed some light on the subject.

[anllover]

sometimes hard sometimes not.

[bronto]

If I'm horny for penetration I'm always flacid. The best orgasims I've had are flacid. It's a whole different way of sex. Apples and Oranges. You can't mix em. Get hard and ejaculate After you've orgasimed anally. That's the way to do it.

[lycrafan]

Me, i'm hopeless flacid during anal play, even some time afterwards.
my significant other is hard during anal play nearly all the time

Lyc

[tooalone2beproud]

it varies with me. during foreplay i'm pretty much always hard. when i'm being fucked i'm usually hard too, but when i get into more serious play i typically go flaccid. it's really pretty easy to explain with me...when my ass is the focus of attention, that's what i'm concentrating on, not my penis. plus i get off a lot harder with my ass than cock anyways, so why worry about being hard?

[anllover]

...when my ass is the focus of attention, that's what i'm concentrating on, not my penis....

pretty much my exact thoughts...

[bigdil]

I experience the same. I think it has to do with relaxing the muscles around the anus. When these are relaxed during a big penetration the penis becomes flaccid.

[gapinganal]

ja, dass pooey.

[Punch]

On 6/4/2009 at 3:14 PM, bigdil said:

I experience the same. I think it has to do with relaxing the muscles around the anus. When these are relaxed during a big penetration the penis becomes flaccid.

Conceptually, exactly how it was explained to me. Seems it turns on at the mid-forearm point somewhere. I interrupt it to being so focused on the happenings in that nether-in that mentally, how could there be?

[natricuzc]

Always hard, but now with help of Sildenafil…

[Glasg0wR0se]

ok. so when you get fisted or you push out your rosebutt or whatever you're doing with your ass, it gets engorged. lots of blood. circulating around. this is why even a tiny nick from a rough fingernail or sharp edge on an object equals LOTS OF BLOOD.

if all the blood is going to your asshole, there's less of it to give you a boner. that being said, sometimes you get erect, and in that moment, if you quit what you're doing with your ass and focus on your dick, you can have a decent wank. if you stay with your ass, the boner will go away pretty quickly cos, y'know, blood.

[cuckmouse]

4 hours ago, Glasg0wR0se said:

ok. so when you get fisted or you push out your rosebutt or whatever you're doing with your ass, it gets engorged. lots of blood. circulating around. this is why even a tiny nick from a rough fingernail or sharp edge on an object equals LOTS OF BLOOD.

if all the blood is going to your asshole, there's less of it to give you a boner. that being said, sometimes you get erect, and in that moment, if you quit what you're doing with your ass and focus on your dick, you can have a decent wank. if you stay with your ass, the boner will go away pretty quickly cos, y'know, blood.

Agreed. Good post

[Rosebutt]

I’m always alternating between stretching and stuffing my hole and stroking my cock so it’s never really an issue for me.

[elirian]

Usually once I'm pretty stretched out and stuffed I have a hard time maintaining an erection. I love the feeling of being totally soft while fisting myself though, it's so intense in a way that I can't describe.

[yesplease]

it can definitely be an intense feeling...   and mostly I go soft when I'm working my hole with my big toys no matter how excited I am.   I have many times had my biggest toys in (Tantus Tex plug,  and DJ BunkerBuster), stroked back to full hard on and had great orgasms....  it's not the "normal" pulsing, shooting orgasm though..... my muscles aren't able to contract like that when stretched so wide, so it's more of a constant crazy feeling with cum just pouring out instead of pulsing out.   I've also at times been super excited like that and cum while being almost completely soft... that is a strange but very good feeling   

 

[Rosebutt]

On 4/13/2020 at 8:02 PM, yesplease said:

it can definitely be an intense feeling...   and mostly I go soft when I'm working my hole with my big toys no matter how excited I am.   I have many times had my biggest toys in (Tantus Tex plug,  and DJ BunkerBuster), stroked back to full hard on and had great orgasms....  it's not the "normal" pulsing, shooting orgasm though..... my muscles aren't able to contract like that when stretched so wide, so it's more of a constant crazy feeling with cum just pouring out instead of pulsing out.   I've also at times been super excited like that and cum while being almost completely soft... that is a strange but very good feeling   

 

I LOVE cumming soft. Doesn’t happen often but when it does...

[TinyNutsTim]

On 4/22/2020 at 7:49 AM, Rosebutt said:

I LOVE cumming soft. Doesn’t happen often but when it does...

As with me, a very different feeling. I actually prefer it and it is much easier after my little balls were ruined. Also don't get those annoying morning erections any more, either. And if I want it hard, I just band it until it's rock hard and purple.

[BBWsissywhore]

I barely get fully hard anymore at all anyway, after being lock in chastity for so long, its shrunk to tiny proportions anyway.

When I'm involved in anal action I never get hard, I cum much harder and feel far more forefilled getting fucked or stretching out my hole, the orgasms are so much more intense. I may not actually ejaculate cum either, but dribble huge amounts of pre-cum constantly. 

After play, it takes a while to be able to get hard/ semi hard to be able to wank and actually ejaculate, which I enjoy, but not as much as the sensations  and orgasms from ansl play and prostate stimulation.

[Tractor]

On 4/30/2020 at 4:24 AM, TinyNutsTim said:

As with me, a very different feeling. I actually prefer it and it is much easier after my little balls were ruined. Also don't get those annoying morning erections any more, either. And if I want it hard, I just band it until it's rock hard and purple.

Just curious, was it a medical procedure or a kink activity that was intended?  I don't know why, just curious about it.

[Tractor]

I can often get raging hard on initial insertion of large toy, but often goes away, I personally love soft squirting orgasm from hard prostate stim, I've yet to cum from only stretching though.

Its often hard for me to pee, even if I feel like I need to after a good p spot session though, I assume that's pretty normal. Similar things occurred when I tried sounding a couple times.

[Rosebutt]

49 minutes ago, Tractor said:

Just curious, was it a medical procedure or a kink activity that was intended?  I don't know why, just curious about it.

I believe Tim did it on purpose.