We never really planned it in the beginning. We were at the Presidio SF in the early 90's when we met. After building a strong friendship, which is the most important part to me, not knowing was the most important part of it all. We had strong communication so nothing was of limits. We had been out on the town going to various cubs of Lombard, Tenderloin, Castro mainly for cultural experience as that both happen to be our thing being open minded and wanting to learn. Back then SF use to be the shit for night life. Places like the Mother Lode, Mitchel Bros's and various all nude no liquor, partial no liquor, clubs. I've heard it sucks now. So we were at Mitchell Bros and we watched a live stage show of two women going at each other with strapons, pegging the shit out of each other and it was so fucking hot! Now, I've always wanted to dominate a man, but never the right one appeared to me. I new him and trusted this one and on the drive home, so turned on by the show I simply asked in a mater of fact way, how it turned me on and that I wanted to try it. We had no idea what the fuck we were doing.We went to a local shop and got a harness and strapon together, which in itself was a great experience. Being both from medical backgrounds we new or guessed, hygiene and the idea of enemas and cleaning out was a given.
At first it was like typing with all thumbs. I had no idea and he was excited and terrified at the same time. I actually used a couple fingers and just took the time to get him comfortable which was the hardest part of all. This is 1993 when there was absolutely no info available. We just stumbled through it and had a fucking blast! After about 2-3 weeks from what I remember I slipped my fist in his ass for the first time. I was scared for him and he was terrified cause he clamped down and didn't think I would be able to get my hand out!
Here we are 27 years later and well, you be the judge!
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