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I experience the same. I think it has to do with relaxing the muscles around the anus. When these are relaxed during a big penetration the penis becomes flaccid.

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I can have a VERY hard errection during foreplay, fingerplay and use of small to moderate sized dildos, but soften noticebly during fisting and use of large dildos and plugs.

In addition to what the other posters have said, check out this site for some anatomical pictures: http://www.winternet.com/~redright/ffanatomy/ffanatomy.htm They will help you understand why it is difficult going deep. I can take a double ended jelly dildo, that is about 5 cm in diameter about 35 - 40 cm into me. Getting past the Sigmoid colon is difficult, but rewarding In the body the bend where the descending colon meets the sigmoid colon can be very difficult to negociate. I have never got past it, and I think that others have problems there too. A long, not too thick flexible dildo is the ideal tool to start. Clean yourself out thoroughly first with a deep enema (colonic irrigation). Use plenty of lube and move the dildo in and out as well as rotating it.

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Nice one! Thanks for posting it on Rapidshare!

The biggest problem for most people is finding a playmate, that is why they play solo, even if they are in a fast relationship. As for myself, I am a hetrosexual male and have had a bunch of girlfriends over the years. I have suggested, and even tried anal play with nearly all of these girlfriends. They either refuse, or do it "just to please me". I have had only one girlfriend who is genuinely enthusiastic about anal play, both giving and recieving. That is my experience.

What position are you using? How large a plug or dildo are you able to take? What sort of lube are you using?

Has anyone tried the "Feeldoe" www.feeldoe.com If so does it work with a woman "wearing" it for penetating a man?

QUOTE(arschfotze666 @ Sep 26 2007, 01:27 PM) [snapback]54261[/snapback] YEAH!back to the classical hoaxes! Why do think the pictures of Marta Pfeffer are hoaxed?

My guess (and it is only a guess) is that he filled his bladder with some liquid via a catheter and simply pee'd it out. Evidence: 1: The ejaculate looked too thin to be sperm. 2: The ejaculate came in spurts, just like peeing. 3: When he relaxed his hold on his penis it dropped like a stone - he was flaccid, and true orgasm and ejaculation occur when errect. It was a fun trick, but I have no idea how exciting it is sexually. Has anyone here played with filling their bladder with water via a catheter? The idea doesn't appeal to me, but people ARE different.

I remember a comedy sketch about a company that upon hearing of you death would rush to your house, clear away all porn and sex toys as well as tidying and washing the house so you relatives think that you are an all round good bloke (or woman...). Maybe there is a genuine need for this sort of a company?

Thanks a bunch! That is the hottest I have seen for ages! Lets hope someone finds part two so we find out what happens to the man with the BIG plug in his arse. By the way Madame Sarks has her own nettsite: http://www.madamesarka.com/

A- I don't liv in Germany so I can't help you there. B- I've been engaged in anal play for decades and have never had haemorrhoids. About 12 years ago I developed an anal fissure that I was operated for. Ironically this was during a period when I wasn't doing any anal play so It must have been due to "natural" causes.

QUOTE(Saga Darvulia @ Aug 29 2007, 05:10 PM) [snapback]48982[/snapback] Oh, and this is a hypothetical question, since it could lead to other problems, but how would -constantly- (24/7) wearing a plug affect the colon? Wearing a plug 24/7 is a fantasy that many of us have imagined. It probably wouldn't affect the colon at all - assuming you are referring to a plug of small to moderate size. Side affects I can see are: - Lots of mucous - Anal muscles becoming streached out and weak - Sleep problems (?) - Anus and rectum becoming overstimulated due to constant contact. The last one is worth mentioning because most of the nerves "down there" are concentrated arund the anus. I would imagine stimulating ithe anus all day, everyday would reduce the sensitivity there. If you are less sensitive then what is the point of anal play? How were you going to hold the plug in? Try a weekend, the reality is not as good as the fantasy...

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I was playing with my arse, both with fingers and objects before I ever started masturbating. It just felt so GOOD, although as I grew up I was realised that it was not exactly a mainstream sexual activity among hetrosexual men so I kept quiet about it. I have been discreet about my anal play, but have never been ashamed about it. I have asked all of my more long term girlfriends to play with my arse, som refused, some did.

A coupe of points here: You say that you are "Dripping" The rectum normally produces mucuous (spit) to ease the passage of "waste". Anal activities such as we on Rosebuttboard like doing make the rectum increase the production of mucous. This can continue for a day (or even two days) after a heavy session. If you are doing heavy anal sessions daily then your rectum is producing mucous constantly at an increased rate. this explains the dripping, it is your own mucous, not lube. One thing you could do is to cut down on your anal play, let it go three or four days between each session. I know that is easy to say and difficult to do because anal play is SO FUN!. Another thing to do is to clean your rectum out with an anal douch before you play. You don't need to go in for wholesale colonic irrigation here, just get your rectum nice and clean with warm water. Insert an anal plug that is of small to moderate size and leave it there for 30 - 60 minutes. The plug will provoke the production of mucous. The combination of water from the douch and your own mucuous will make it good and slippery back there, and you can try playing without lube whilst using small to moderate sized toys. Take it easy the first few times, as you can get sore if you normally use large amounts of lube. Stick to daily play in this manner with small to moderate sized toys without lube, and blow out once a week with a good (well lubed) streach. Enjoy!

Here in Europe there is a hand cleaner called "Swarfega", made by DEB. It is sold in places that sell car parts and the like and is VERY good at removing oil and grease from hands. I have also used it to clean my overalls by rubbing it into the worst areas before turning the overalls inside out and putting them into the washing machine.

Ultradude: It was past girlfriends who asked such questions. My present girlfriend is a real pearl! As far as anal goes she has fantasised about HEAVY anal for 20 years before meeting me and finally being able to realise her fantasies.

I've had my share of girlfriends who have said "... and you want me to put my hand WHERE?!!!" It isn't easy being hetrosexual and enjoying anal play, as the next question is usually "...are you sure that you are not gay?" At present I am a lucky, lucky man. I have a girlfriend (who I don't live with) who really enjoys anal play, both giving and recieving. Her "capacity" is smaller than mine, and she isn't interested in streaching hers, but gives me all she can give, which at times is almost more than I can take!

Why do I have a massive gaping hole? Because anal play is FUN!

I have "lost" ping pong balls, and golf balls, but they have always appeared at the next bowel movement. A dildo about 18 x 3 cm (5" x 1 1/2") once got stuck, but I managed to remove it myself, though I must admit that I was one attempt away from ringing a girlfriend to help....

QUOTE(hornyporny @ Jul 12 2007, 03:33 PM) [snapback]37448[/snapback] http://www.cynsa.com/butt/april/smgunxray.jpg muahahahaaaaaa The revolver x-ray simply has to be a fake.... or does anyone here have any experience...?

Here is an internet site we should all be aware of: http://www.well.com/user/cynsa/newbutt.html#figs It has, (among other things) x-rays of objects stuck in unfortunate peoples rectums. The one thing I can't quite understand is how an object can get stuck in the RECTUM. That an object pushed beyond the rectum, and into the lower reaches of the small intestine can get stuck is something I can understand. An object in the rectum should come out of its own accord, or...? Here are som anatomical diagrams in case you need them: http://www.winternet.com/~redright/ffanatomy/ffanatomy.htm