Jump to content

Dry Anal


asturia
 Share

Recommended Posts

Is it possible to have anal sex without any lube? With a girl who is used to a lot of anal sex, and is accustomed to relaxing and stretching her asshole, is it possible to have anal with her without using any lube, or only using a very small amount?

At first I thought not, but on watching a lot of porn, many dont seem to be using any lube apart from a little spit and pussy juice. You can actually see that the cock and asshole are very dry, they do not look shiny or slippery like they should if they were lubricated (in fisting movie, you can see the lube, it is very obvious because of the shiny/wet look).

Also having seen some of the way loose assoholes on some of the girls on this site, it doesnt look like they would even need any lube for anal sex, with thier holes so gaped from fisting.

And yes, I do realise that to start out with anal play, lube is essential, without it you will just cause tears, a lot of pain and discomfort, But I am talking about more experienced players here, I am sure that some of you have experience with this.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Never trust porn to give you advice.
Before scenes pornstars lube up their asses and stretch it with dildos or buttplugs so that even after 10 minutes of foreplay during the scene they're still slippery enough for what look to the viewer instant dry penetration.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

There can be no dry sex, neither anal nor vaginal. Cause it HURTS! And I'm not just talking about your girl, I'm talking about you and your little friend. The good news is: mother nature provides all the lube you'll need IF you're both horny. Leaving aside spitand pussy-juice, there's also precum, sweat and that muccus you get on the inside of her ass.

Precum gets you in. Tell her to lie on her side, cuddle her from behind and rub your hard dick against her butthole. Precum will start to leak from the tip of your cock and you can spread it nicely. Here's a trick: wrap the both of you up in a thick cover. It will be warm and help her to relax and you'll get sweaty. Kiss, caress and tell her whatever naughty stuff she wants to hear. If she really wants it, she'll relax (let go/allow her anus to open) and you can get in.

My first anal sex was just like this smile.gif

Sweat is good if you actually want to move your cock back and forth. It should provide you with just enough lubrication to allow you to move in a comfortable manner, yet doesn't take away that exciting feeling of "dry" anal sex. And yes, there is a huge difference between getting lubed up (even with spit) first or just using precum and sweat.

Fucking like this will allow for a slow, but very intense and passionate form of lovemaking.

Anal muccus however, lets you take it to 11. This takes some time and I can't give you a recipe to get it, but my experinence is that if you take it easy at first, her ass will react. It will react to that dick inside by producing muccus and relaxing, in order to get rid of it. This stuff really lubricates well, so make sure she doesn't anal-douche before.

Now is the right moment to give it to her hard and fast! With all that precum, sweat and muccus, plus the relaxiation and hornyness she'll get from that passionate cuddle-sex before, you can really pound that ass. She might be in some (mild!) pain afterwards (raw), but at that moment, if she really wants it, she won't care.

As far as I understand you, you want that dry feeling? Maybe even want her to feel uncomfortable? Talk to her about it and if she agrees to give it a try, simply go faster through the steps.

Have fun cool.gif
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Good advices Soundboy notworthy.gif Yes the body produces its own lube in the colon to ease the movements of the fecal matters and I remember some well trained girls who ask for anal play with no lube or who didn't care about it. wink.gif (^ ^)
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I echo Tang's comments and wise words from SOUNDBOY. Just take it easy and both relax and the juices start flowing and things start relaxing and what starts off very tentative and sensitive usually ends up a throbbing "harder - deeper!" "fuck me" sort of ass fuck. Thats the way it is with me anyways .......... smile.gif "Pass the KY" sort of fucks it all up ............. for me anyways ...... cool.gif
Link to comment
Share on other sites

a couple of things. In porn they usually have 10plus minutes of Vaginal sex first. I would think the natural lube from that passes through the membrane in between the 2.

Second - if you douche with water and hold it for a few minutes the tissue hydrates with that water and makes it more slippery. Drinking water helps too. But if it feels pasty and sticky in there you need something or its going to tear.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

It's perfectly possible and very enjoyable BUT only when it's bareback. I wouldn't recommend it with a condom as they can catch and that's a not very nice feeling. Same reason as with toys really I suppose.

Not that I'm saying you should go bareback!



Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 months later...
I suggest insert a whole soap for 15 min before... this clean it up perfectly for the whole session... and lube inside too.... but it is not to be done every day of course... you absorbe soap too.....
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...
QUOTE(kinky1968 @ Jan 12 2009, 08:58 AM) [snapback]122848[/snapback]

Not completely true, I had a crazy bitch who liked to be fucked up the ass dry, and hard.... often too.


I have a couple of those in my happy circle of friends - wouldn't call them crazy, "lovely" sounds much better friends.gif Seems like practice makes perfect, you just have to let them guide the inititial penetration (ie. ride you), after that it's smooth sailing biggrin.gif
Link to comment
Share on other sites

QUOTE(apa0 @ Jan 22 2009, 09:04 PM) [snapback]123661[/snapback]

First: I would think the natural lube from that passes through the membrane in between the 2.

Second: Drinking water helps too.


I would exclude the first and doubt the second...

cheers

cb
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 1 month later...
I would tend to say that porn models are often pre lubed off set with a silicone based lube, and keep in mind that the scenes are often spliced together to exclude lubing and other drama. if you are looking for a way to play lube free, try a bit of baking soda or arm and hammer toothpaste inserted and worked around with a dildo post enema, this I have found works quite well as it irritates the mucosal lining and causes the rectum to secrete more mucous which acts as a lubricant. it does intensify the sensation, so careful how much you use try a half tsp to start. having been using these methods for several years now I enjoy using much more, but start with small amounts. I have found personally that ding this more than twice a week can be a bit hard on the lining and cause micro tears, so I would suggest not too often.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 5 months later...
For my part, it was the case with my ex-gf. After a good pussy pounding, her juice was often enough to have a good anal fuck. Not very long since the lack of lube appears quick but for 5 or 10 minutes she doesn't feel unconfortable. But we practiced anal sex a lot. That may be the reason.
Link to comment
Share on other sites

 Share

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use Privacy Policy We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.