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Should be fine, as has been said it's all about muscle control, just don't try and be tight for him straight after a good session.

I'd give you a good 8 or 9, got a dark brooding look...get your confidence and you'll be lethal to the ladies (that's if it's ladies you want)

Hi, I've not been on here for a while but just wanted to say "wow" at your writing. I hope you get a lot out of being on the board (sounds like you have already!). There are some rather amazing guys who will no doubt be here to advise and support you. Just off to watch that vid now I think I can probably answer one of your questions about meeting guys to give you what you want...the internet is your friend. Find a chat room, chat to people (funny that?!), you'll get about a thousand offers but hang on until you meet someone online who gets you and knows what makes you tick, and above all things follow your gut instinct on meeting them. Take your time chatting to them and getting to know them, you'll soon work out who will run a million miles from any sign of kink and who you are in safe hands with (literally ). I can definitely speak from experience on that score. The other thing with meeting and chatting online is you're pretty free to say whatever it is you want and what you expect/would like/would go for and what is completely out of bounds for you, and it's not necessarily stuff that you'd talk about in person without struggling. It also lays down some fairly handy guidelines before you meet, and since you want a dom you want a dom who understands you and respects you, not just some guy who thinks that being dom is just about aggression. Right best go, good luck, pm me if there's anything else I can help with on the meets thing, I can think of a number of people who'd be into you but none in your country! xx

Pretty good writing. Content pretty good as well.

Pretty good from a writing point of view!

Just the two, taking a break for a while. Husband won't allow me any more yet. Sometimes stray over here though for a quick peek. Feels like a lifetime ago. Sorry if its a repeat or well known, was rushing off to bed and didn't have time to check. x

I would imagine any experience as intense as that would be (which you'll have to imagine because the writer doesn't tell you) would leave you fairly lost for words. Not necessarily I suppose but generally I'd assume if you'd got 2 arms inside you you'd be pretty beyond it. 2 hands made me a gibbering wreck so yes, assuming you could feel it all then I think I'd be right in thinking they'd be incapable of speech. But also true they'd die happy if that was the extent of their happiness and satisfaction in life. What about a male? I don't get the question?

Just found this on my travels. http://deviantclip.com/Media-172028_Two-chicks-trained-to-be-bitches.html Sorry if it's well known or in the wrong place. Got to go to bed before kids wake up! xx

Good for them. How I've felt for a while so for once I'm ahead of the game!

The fistee would most likely be dead I would imagine. I don't think you can translate any of that into real life. For a start any fistee getting that much would be incapable of coherent speech. Secondly I don't think that there are many women who could take any enjoyment from that sort of pain/stretch without some sort of clit stimulation of which there appears to be none. I think the fister in the story is pretty hot though, with a few adjustments I could go for that.

Hmmm... The fisting is great, the women are great, the force is great but spoilt by totally unbelievable writing. I don't think the writing is the point of these stories though so who am I to comment. *If* it were even possible then surely the fistee would be suffering/enjoying a lot more than it shows.

Yeah yeah Deeply. I don't know if it will work the other way round but as a woman I've always found the best way to discuss or bring anything kinky into being is to talk about it whilst you're having really good sex. Even as a fairly open minded woman if a bloke just started a discussion about sex when I wasn't in the right frame of mind then even if I was interested in what he was saying he may well get a reply he wasn't happy with purely because of the timing. So, my advice is to wait until you've both had a couple of drinks and are feeling sexy and horny and are getting into really good sex, then bring it up. Talk dirty about it to her, tell her what would really turn you on and how she could do it to you and what she'd get from it. Oh and be ready for her to just play with the idea for a while before you get any further. Good luck!

Personally from my experience of strong painkillers it might mean you can go further but I think you'll probably have more to do to reach your peak so it's probably not really worth it.

Hello again... Is a bit of a time warp I think! I'm doing well, stay at home Mummy with two babies, well toddlers I suppose! Managing to stay good too which I'm rather proud of! Seems I've finally outgrown my sex drive! Either that or there are too many nights with babies in the bed with us or where I'm just too shattered to care. Either way it's good, very good. This all feels like another life but I do sometimes think of you all, a select few especially. Really glad to hear from you all and hope you're keeping well, happy and of course very very dirty.

Hello, Sorry I don't get on much, how are you all? Still being very very bad I hope? I'm reformed I think (more's the pity some days!). Am a good girl now don't ya know! xx

Hi, The problem really occurs after orgasm, depending on how hard you've been playing before and how good the climax was, and how horny you were/if you want to keep on going. I think it also changes according to whether you're playing alone or in company. Physically after orgasm it might be possible to go bigger but by the very nature of orgasm would you really want to carry on?

[quote name='deeply' date='10 April 2010 - 12:37 AM' timestamp='1270859866' post='175186'] When it comes to telling girls about porn likes / dislikes, as well as sexual likes / dislikes, women are going to be naturally contrary and illogical in any social degree of conversation... [/quote] Oi! I object! Not all women are naturally contrary and illogical, some of us have to work really hard at it!

Oh babe! Wondered where you'd been as not seen you on msn for a while. Not sure what I can say really. Hope you're not feeling too lousy and things heal well. Do you know how it's going to impact future play? Obviously not for a while but when you're healed and ready etc. Not going to ask how you did it but must have been impressive. Have a hug and I'll catch up soon. xx

Word of warning to the wise....she might change her mind pretty quick if you get really rough so if you want to go for it and make her (current) dreams come true then get a safe word first...or do everything you're doing now the week before her period to make it more intense.

You know it is possible for women to just go off it in preference for something else for a while? Maybe she's just not bothered? In which case I'd imagine talking nicely and finding out why then she might be more inclined to partake anyway for your sake.

I think I'd struggle with that and possibly even struggle to accept that with a partner. I could quite happily talk about something but the reality might not be what I want so where does it stop? Sane is relative and safe...depends on the individual. What I consider safe is probably not what some people would consider safe. The first two are probably tightly linked anyway. Each to their own but it's not something I'd ever feel comfortable with.

Agree with the having seen everything I want to see and I've not been around anywhere near as long as half of you guys, I was probably still in school when you all met And tbh it's better in my head than it ever looks anyway! Life keeping me busy, two very beautiful babies (they are I'm not just saying that!) but absolutely exhausting, exhilarating, amazing and terrifying in equal measure. Stupidly huge house for someone who hates cleaning, job (work from home) going ok. Sex life? Gone. Are you ready for this? Wait for it.... Are you sitting down?????? I have had sex TWICE in SEVEN months. And that was just very straight very boring vanilla. I used to have sex more than that in a day!!! For those who don't know me that well I DO have a husband and we DO sleep in the same bed every night!!!! This is now a record for me. I am starting to get the itch though so will have to wait and see who gets to scratch it. Oh well, things change and we change as I'm seeing, glad to see it's not just me actually. x

QUOTE(TBTB @ Apr 17 2009, 10:17 PM) [snapback]132812[/snapback] Thanks Gni. He was on the TV over here the other day. I should have remembered. Funny though; everything over here at the moment seems to be about getting on the TV. Reality (crap) TV etc. We have bishops over here calling Jade a saint; when all she did was appear on 'Big Brother'. World gone mad. My daughters even want to go on the Jeremy Kyle Show. The British version of the Jerry Springer Show. Not that they have a reason to; though I'm sure they could make something up ....... as most of these programme topics must be? Absolute bilge! The modern day equivalent of the Roman Coliseum ..... gratuitous entertainment for the masses ...... good comparison ..... they should all be thrown to the lions! Rant over ........

Well well well! I finally get 2 minutes to come and see everyone and read and catch up and there's absolutely bugger all going on! What's happened? Where is everyone?

Hi... No advice apart from to maybe heed your body's warning. Do you know how much scar tissue you have? <I'll get my coat>