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QUOTE(gipsy @ Dec 15 2009, 05:06 PM) [snapback]158223[/snapback] It is a gape because she wants it like it, if she push the flesh out it will result a prolapse, easy to do with abdomen muscles. Exactly this. For fuck's sake some of you need to get a grip especially you deeply. Has is it occured to you that maybe the answer is the simplest bloody obvious one - she chose to gape not rosebutt in that scene?? It's not fucking rocket science is it. Look at the Chris and Fretton videos, some serious fisting going on there and just gaping no rosebutt, how is this any difference??

That's probably because it's your ass. It's natural there's a load of shit up there . Use either a full enema or just a quick flush of the first bit of your rectum.

Yeah first time LOL.

Sadly that's not the case, the first photo is also just her going to the wrist - look at the tattoos, especally the large chain tattoo, and also the large horizontal "carrot-like" tattoo that's just above her elbow in the second photo, and also in the top left corner of the first photo. [/sherlock]

QUOTE(lycrafan @ Mar 30 2009, 02:34 PM) [snapback]130620[/snapback] instead i'm getting fisted in depth and width by my significant other and some of our common fisting friends: Awwww, sweet. QUOTE AND: Always use LOTS of LUBE, there could'nt be too much lube!, And play CAREFULLY, every pain is a real point to stop and to continue more cautious! (Less pressure, slower) A colon rupture which could happen if you ignore the pain is a real dangerous thing, can even end deadly!!!! In fact, i have NO PAIN AT ALL by playing in depth or with, if there is more than a little twitch, i say STOP!!! Lyc Useful post in general, this is going along exactly with what I was saying above - although as you say it is just your personal experience. Your advice about lube + care + lack of pain is good. Edit: would just like to reiterate that advice backed with common sense: although experiences may vary, for whoever you are, go by your own judgement of what feels right, and take care - play smart.

This topic could do with a lot more input, as from the outside at least heavy anal play does LOOK to be damaging to one's anus - although I suspect this is partly due to how such things are portrayed, i.e. media showing gapes at the moment of gaping etc, rather than showing the anus returning to normal a short while later. A certain amount of common sense / amateur physiology can be applied (correct me if I'm wrong here). The anal sphincter is a muscle (the only type of muscle with no ends). It can contract and relax like any other muscle, and it can be stretched like any other muscle. Logic suggests that just like stretching conventional muscles e.g. legs, that gentle regular stretching will leave this muscle more elastic and more able to be stretched but without compromising the muscles strength, i.e. it will be able to contract as normal. Just like if you do the touch-your-toes stretch, your hamstrings will be more flexible and more elastic and easier to stretch in the future, but will be just as strong. Thus when you see someone gaping, it's like seeing me getting my palms on the floor touching my toes - it shows the stretch but it doesn't show the gradual process to get there NOR the muscle returning to normal nor the muscle strength. Obviously for both anus and legs this assumes GENTLE stretching i.e. plenty of warming up and care taken. Excessive / too abrupt stretching would result in possible tears / tissue damage. As for prolapsing, I don't know, it doesn't interest me much.

QUOTEOr you could just try and bed whoever you like and see what they think when they get there? Part of the natural way of things, yes. But having realised the role of my....tastes....I'm trying to clarify it, and find a way to communicate to others... As for stretching/dilation, as well as fairly obvious, that for me is one aspect of things, not the whole (hole) nor the main aspect even. I would say, in my tastes anyway, giving anal fisting is the pinnacle, the centre, the fulcrum, and around that: vaginal fisting, large toys, gaping, taking anal fisting, stretching, rimming, taking toys, giving toys and cock at once.... Basically like, "here we are, let's get naked, get our bits right out....we've got three holes, one cock, four hands, two mouths, loads of toys and loads of lube - let's see what we can do, how far we can go, what fun we can have!"* * - Just need to summarise this in a tasteful catchphrase

QUOTEYou could always say "speleology" or "spelunking" Hah, that's the sort of term, that if it was established and recognised as referring to someone into, well, orifices and penetrations and pushing things in that way, would actually be a really good term, i.e. it sums up a genre without too graphic. QUOTEand i think 's&m' is such an umbrella term that it can be used without embarrassment by anyone and their granny- any term for what we enjoy would never gain such social acceptance because our particular fetish is relatively narrow and is always bound to offend someone in some way Yes I think you're right there. It is an umbrella term because it is broad, and does not automatically come with the assumption that you're into S&M of a particular extremity. So it's easy to use to give a general impression without revealing too much about oneself. Whilst our fetish, it already has a certain level of extremity AND a certain specificness to it... I suppose people who are into watersports or scat or animals or whatever are in the same boat. I mean, watersports, IMO, it's less extreme that full blown anal fisting, but there's no real way to hint at the genre without revealing fully you like being drenched in piss. Hmmm.

Yes it is possible. A bit of saliva and a lot of relaxation can go a long way. Common sense really.

Thanks for the replies... QUOTEevery description given in a particolar jargon tends to be known around after a while so happened for golden shower or kaviar or second channel or rear door etc... True... Although over time those jargon terms will be become pretty blatant even to people not into them... Is there any conventional jargon yet for our fetish?? Apart from the very obvious terms, that is. QUOTEmy motto for my assplay brethen would be: mind the GAP(e): Great Anal Penetrations (or whatever the fantasy bids for those letters ) Hmmm, lol, the initials alone are subtle enough, probably too subtle... QUOTEbackdoor (or anus) stimulation's I think that is simultaenously too blatant (i.e. it says too clearly I like ass), and too vague (i.e. anus stimulation could just be anal sex or a little fingering or whatever, and "our fetish" includes more than that, yes??). At least tho it implies it goes both ways (giving and taking). QUOTEunless i'm very naive, i think this is the main forum or website for people like us and so i propose that we are all 'RBBs', kinda like S&M but better obviously! not an ideal solution but suitably cryptic? That's good thinking, but I don't think RBB is sufficiently widely known to be recognised easily enough. I only heard about it last year. The thing is, S&M is a good term for their fetish, it implies a lot of possibility without having to say too much about yourself and what you like. I can imagine saying to a mate down the pub "Oh yeah I don't mind a bit of S&M, it's kinda fun" without feeling too embarrassed, and equally saying it to a girlfriend and knowing that if she's into it too then we could get nice and kinky with it. What I want is a similar term for our stuff... (Yes I am being quite fussy about this but I've seen some of you guys are smart enough about the fetish scene to ponder on these matters ).

Tangerine, yeah that's the one, the epitome of subtlety I might get it on a t-shirt. Or possibly not... I do think with "kinky penetrations", that likely implies anal in it....hopefully the plural implies many orifices will be involved QUOTE"sex that pushes the limits" - not bad, there is definitely an element of limit pushing there. But that could equally describe many other things. Limit-pushing could be the limits of pain or the limits of what sort of animals or the limits of complicated roleplay.... QUOTEI've always just described it as liking a bit of kink, or just really dirty sex. - again that's quite vague, okay it captures that one is (or was) kinkier and into more fetish stuff, but that's still such a broad range and it's quite possible to be into one area of that and completely disinterested in another area.... It's not easy is it?? I'm after a description where someone with similar tastes would know what you mean, but where you wouldn't be revealing too much to the layman.

How would one describe the fetish we share on here - the sort of genre of fetish that includes fisting, anal fisting, gaping, large toys, giving/taking anal pleasure - without specifically describing it?? I.e. a succinct way of describing it so that someone else with similar tastes would understand that sort of tastes one was referring to, but without being so blatant that everyone could know the gory details?? The sort of thing you could tell a mate "oh I like a bit of xxxx" without having to reveal that what you really like is 69ing a chick when you've both got your hands up each others ass... "fetish" is too vague, includes everything from bestiality to roleplay. "kinky sex" is too vague for the same reason. "body exploration" could be right, but could also include modification and stuff. anything with "anal" "fisting" "huge toys" "gaping" etc etc is far too obvious and blatant. Actually maybe "kinky penetrations" is the best I can think of, but even that is a bit too blatant... Ideas please.

Excellent thread link there dude. However the Rapidshare links are giving me this: QUOTE(Rapidshare WTF??)Error This file is suspected to contain illegal content and has been blocked. After the file has been blocked for 7 days it will automatically be deleted, if the block is not removed by RapidShare. For this reason, a download of this file is currently not possible. Illegal content?? Doesn't sound good, especially if they're blocking it on the basis of being extreme sex rather than an "illegal" video rip...

Quick question: anyone know of a freeware video editing program that can very easily combine several video clips and save them as one clip in the same format?? (Basically all the sic-flics style clips where there's 4 samples of the same scene, I want to combine those into one sample of the scene....but there is a lot in that style (hundreds) so I want to be able to do it really quickly - ideally drag and drop the 4 videos, click "combine" or similar, and then "save as...")

QUOTE(anllover @ Jul 19 2008, 02:59 PM) [snapback]102504[/snapback] free samples are totally legal here so keep up the good work Vore. Quick question....or maybe not so quick. What's the score with longer videos posted on Rapidshare - do they tend to be ripped from commercial DVDs etc? How is that regarded?