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I know it is a sub-set definition but the first thing that comes to mind for me is 'Stretching'. I also have a large gauge genital piercing and I call that stretching as well (more painful btw). This way its ambiguous enough in mixed company to discuss. If they say stretching what? Put thumb to forefinger and that explains it without words. (at least that's my style)

a couple of things. In porn they usually have 10plus minutes of Vaginal sex first. I would think the natural lube from that passes through the membrane in between the 2. Second - if you douche with water and hold it for a few minutes the tissue hydrates with that water and makes it more slippery. Drinking water helps too. But if it feels pasty and sticky in there you need something or its going to tear.

Like many people here, I have been stretching for a very long time. I have worked up to 15 inch circumference at rare times but cannot do it every day. The biggest thing getting in my way has been drinking. After 2 beers, but usually more, I get more cautious and maybe its me but things feel more painful if I have anything to drink. I have been drinking a lot recently and my hole has shrunk and I can fit 11 inches circumference at most now. I just ordered a new baby probus from my favorite toy maker http://www.squarepegtoys.com/ and in order to get back on a healthier track I will stop drinking soon. Has anyone else experienced this? I found that being sober, an energy drink or every now and then a little marijuana makes for a fun time. But due to my employer drug testing its not too often ( with the M). So has anyone else found that alcohol makes it harder? It would seem that it would lessen sensitivty but not for me.