ColonVoodoo

Get down on all fours, put your head and shoulders down and your ass up. Now relax your stomach muscles, use a thin long dildo to fuck yourself in this position and concentrate on relaxing your abdomen and anal sphincter, wiggle the dildo a bit and pull it out slowly while still relaxing. You should feel your ass gaping naturally and sucking in air, thus preparing for juicy prolapse farts that you can push out. Some people, like HKJ, have learned to control these muscles very well and can suck in air in any position almost, but ass up, face down, makes it alot easier.

Don't worry too much about numbers, no one here knows the shape and size of your hands. Just have a bowl of lube on the sink and go to town, standing up, elbow against a wall behind you and start working your fist in. Use as much lube as you can possibly slather on yourself without dripping too much, and keep re-applying as you rub it off or it dries. If you wan't to stretch the lube, applying something like crisco or any oilbased lube before, and then going in with j-lube helps. As long as you're not feeling pain when stretching like this, it's the way to go if you ask me. If you're having issues with flexibility, try either hand. I have a hard time getting my right hand in, but my left side is much more pliable. Definitely managed that too, many years before 3",and also for me an experience imprinted on me ^^ It's tedious going beyond "that limit" with dildos, gotta start real slim and work up slow. I'm probably at 15" and started around 12" too. Has taken me about a year of frequent deep probing with a double ended dildo around 1.5-1.7 Ø. Buying and using a "slink" type dildo with a pointy tip has helped. It opens up in parts where usually nothing reaches.

Yes, it usually comes from small cuts and scrapes inflicted on the rectum and colon during play. It's not dangerous in and of itself, but it's sign to slow down a bit, take longer breaks in between play. I find that warming up properly before play, and applying a thin layer of protecting lotion (only exterior skin ofc...) after hard play also helps with healing up faster. You could also consider gloves and condoms, that helps a lot, it's usually just hard skin, a fingernail not properly trimmed and filed, or a speck of dirt on a toy that causes these bleeds. They can end up causing infections so they're not to be taken lightly. You should be worried if there's persisting and increasing pain and if the blood comes out much darker red than normal, that could be a sign of a rupture or an abces and you should go to the ER. If you start getting a fever, shaking and increasing dizzyness, don't be afraid to call 911, as it can be fatal sepsis. But don't be alarmed, sepsis is very rare. Just remeber to listen to your body. I fucking hate that saying, but it applies perfectly to these activities.

I love the hair! Or, it's not so much the hair I love though, it's more when women just doesn't give a shit. Many men are into hairy crotches though I think, not as popular as it once was ofcourse, but I think it's bigger than the prolapse fanbase... She combines the two things with what looks like decent succes. I don't know, there's also something extra vulgar about it that makes me like her even more. Combined with her looks and "acting skills" it makes for some very hot porn indeed! I would go so far as to call her a porn-artist

Same here... I have tried to date men several times to get it on with someone, but everytime it gets close to a meeting I shrivel up and it feels wrong to me. I'm sure I could have a good time with a dude (or tranny), but hook-up culture is so freaking brutal lol. I would call myself pansexual, but so far, it remains fantasy.

Is that a thing? I've had the sensation pop up here and there after rough play, but not like a continual sensation. Is that what you mean? I don't do serious prolapse training though, so that might be why I don't have it the same way...

Get a dildo that is conic in shape, like a buttplug, but longer. That way, you can ride on it for regular fun times and put your weight on it to stretch once in a while. I got to 9+ with Xavier https://www.gaymegastore.eu/dark-crystal-dc02-xavier-dildo/ It's around 7-8 cm at the head, so it feels nice popping it in and out and then going gradually deeper. Took me bit over half a year going from that 7-8 range to 9. I rarely go that big anymore though. I have I have 2 plugs around 9, that get's some use, but the one I have at 9,7 I rarely do.

I would say that my hole has felt like this since I started stretching the bend with various toys. I suspect that some tissue/muscles around the sigmoid loosens and is prolapsing down into the lower colon. It has been like this for couple of years for me. When I am really loose, it all just slides down around my hand and wrist when I fist myself standing up. I don't have an active wish to prolapse completely (I do like the sensations though..) because I'm too lazy/unfocused to do the kegels and other work required for it to be safe. However, it seems to me, that tugging at the sigmoid only gets you so far. To loosen the tissue in the lower colon I think you need something like the Seahorse or just a horse dildo, something with a wide ridge that you can work for longer periods without getting sore.

Used to do some psychedelics and stims at times, not only to ass play though. That would be some long sessions. These days I only do a bit of poppers. Don't want to push stuff too far.

I find that I can take bigger toys with longer breaks in between these days. The 3-4 times a week grind can be good for a while, but personally, my skin can't take that much stretching. The muscles are fine though. I'm thinking of investing in some cream or oil for skin elasticity - recommendations are welcome

Afaik viagra causes vasodilation of the area around the scrotum (so not only penis) and increases blood pressure. So yeah, it would make sense that a prolapse would be bigger too. Have only taken viagra and played anally once, but it definitely felt like everything around the region was sort of dilated a bit more than usual.

I do videos on occasion. I used to just delete them after jerking off to them - recently I kept one though. It's in an encrypted folder on my HD, don't want to take any chances - even though there's no face showing. I'm a bit paranoid so I don't see myself building up a library lol. But you never know, might keep a handful... Especially if I can get ones with my GF fisting me...

What he said... And stop if it hurts. And if you like it when it hurts - just go slow still so you don't ruin anything.

If it's really an addiction like you say, you need something to substitute for it. Get into a netflix series, smoke some weed, watch porn, work out or run, listen to energetic music, dance to said music, there are many activities you can do instead. I reckon you can tell which activities are better or worse for ya - point is, it's easier to keep from your addiction if you allow yourself to get a dopamine hit from something else in the meantime. I know the feeling of being addicted to the anal play, but trust me, you're better off if you learn to handle yourself. If you absolutely can't help yourself - maybe stay out of the sigmoid bend as it seems that is where you hurt yourself and that it needs to heal for a longer period of time. Edit: You could also try a scare tactic and read some anal horror stories, I'm sure they're out there somewhere.

I got to around 4 inches 3-4 years ago. With proper warm up, I can grind on plugs of that size. The last couple of years I haven't really gone much beyond 3.7-3.8 very often though, I feel like the warm required to play without pain at 4 inches is too much work. Right now I'm all about the depth play. And since I got romantically involved with someone lately who's even turned on by playing with me, obviously my goal is to get her comfortable with deep fisting and double fisting - nothing beats that No prolapse goals - my ass won't do that. It's not like I didn't try. Might give ye olde soap bar a try at some point though. People in here seem to be diggin it...

Whoa dude... That sucks... I hope you figure something out together or that you can maybe go your own ways. That doesn't sound like a healthy marriage to me. I mean, if you're as old as your profile says, then there's no reason to think that you have to settle with that...

Here's some dating advice I'd give anyone getting into dating. Date with the intention of having fun - don't be actively looking for a new relationship or partner, that will come naturally if you work on opening yourself up. I recently started a relationship with a friend that I had known for 4 years. In all of those years I've maybe been on something like 20-30 dates (tinder e.g.), and not even the fun ones led to anything serious (or unserious for that matter...) but it helped me stay open as a person and I had fun most of the time, so it wasn't a total waste of time. I've been romantic with her since mid June. I told her about the anal fun maybe about 3-4 weeks ago, and she just fisted me 4 days ago for the first time. I feel we might have gone a bit fast, but we had been friends before, so it felt natural to open up to it a bit faster. Build trust and go from there, there's no right or wrong timeline as long as things are moving in the right direction. I started off with telling her that I liked anal play on me, not the extent of my play. I only told her that on the day where we first played, and she ended up fisting me for a bit. She's only the third person I ever played seriously with but I found her to be MUCH better than the previous ones. And I think the reason for it was that I was much more vocal about what she should do, guided her through every step. It's important that your partner feels safe playing with you too, and that means having to guide alot in the beginning, even though it might seem a bit awkward at times. It's reasonable to think that, the better the guidance, the better the play is going to be eventually.

I got the Boss Hog M recently, specifically to start stretching around the sigmoid area. Find a toy that is just about the depth that you can go and which widens at that point, it has helped me get a lot loser, I can almost take it to the base at this point. I find that different angles also work different - work the area and have patience. It's my first silicone toy too, and boy have I wasted a lot of money on PVC and vinyl crap, I'm all silicone from here on out, it's SO worth the money IMO - it has more give, but it will still push back.

That makes sense... Man, I miss tripping and ass play too though haha. I basically stopped because I felt like I had pushed the doors of perception open to a point where I felt like my psyche was going to suffer ill effects if I continued doing them. So my warning was more about the mental aspect of things, rather than the physical. Although I would say, that the horny heights and adrenaline that you can get from playing while on psychedelics could have a numbing effect, I've certainly had that, but without any incidents fortunately... Anywho - to each their own - be safe

They definitely come in those sizes. Can't quite tell you where to look, maybe middle eastern markets/the bazaar - but I stumbled upon one at the grocers so big that I broke it trying to fit it in me. And I cap out at about 11 cm...

I wouldn't recommend that anyone do psychedelics just to induce the pushing sensation - combining drugs with anal play in general is a risky venture . That being said, I'm by no means an angel myself, and I have done my fair share of play while under the influence. Can you provide some some sort of insight as to why you think that particular neurotransmitter is involved with control of the sphincter? I'm not disagreeing with you, I've had a similar sensations, but wrote it off to the fact that I was under the influence and that everything was already sort of "dilated" if you catch my drift...

Like any sane person would! I'm mostly in it for the depth and stretch play. Sometimes I hit a nice angle and the prostate gets involved, but it's not the "star" of the show (pun intended...)

When I approach the 9-10 cm plugs I do find it harder to get and keep an erection- I usually never cum with anything that big in my for that same reason. I'm sure you could get nerve damage, but I'd imagine it would have to be from either blunt force trauma or maybe prolonged pressure on the nerves like stretchedout had. I don't know about pumping. I try to think of ass play like a work-out routine. Warm up, stretch slow and save the heavy stuff for last Haven't had any problems other than minor bleeds.

I've bought the Boss Hog (M) for this purpose alone. 30 cm is right around where the sigmoid colon narrows (or bends around) and to stretch and straighten that part takes time and patience, don't hurt yourself in the proces, but try to enjoy it instead