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To answer your question.. I have light Prostate swelling I believe because it’s difficult to Pee for several hrs afterwards but that’s not the huge deal to me. I have had some problems in the past over stretching my sigmoid and had colitis so bad I went to the hospital. I thought something was bad wrong. lately after a good toy session I have pretty bad sigmoid pain and terrible gas pains for 24hrs that is almost making it not worth it. I’m getting very frustrated. I have a wonderful toy selection and a wonderful strapon partner, but for some reason now it’s just causing issues. Anyone else have aftermath problems that arnt related to prostate?

What I did was find an inflatable plug that the hose WAS attached and pushed it up and inserted it into the sigmoid bend and inflated it until it was uncomfortable. I waited a min or two then repeated. After that I’d insert a toy that I was trying to conquer and bounce on it trying to meditate into a dif universe and also using poppers. Within 2-3 months I went from double ended dildo to the biggest mr hankeys El Ray 11” circumference. Once I was there I practiced it atleast every 3-4 days. And literally within a couple weeks of that, it was my warm up toy. I think quality silicone toys matter, I think poppers help, and I think keeping the toy inserted as long as possible (min or two) helps big time. I now take abt 4” wide past my sigmoid to 13-14” or so. That’s here my transverse colon turns unfortunately. So my boss hogg, el ray, etc etc had a few inches showing at the bottom.

The only lube I’ve tried is Klube, FistLube, and Xlube. I’ve used Xlube and Jlube for years without problems. It just seems like whatever that firmer toy did to the sigmoid area on the fucking machine that day gets super agry really easy now. I believe I’ve noticed that if I inject thicker mixed lube (which stays in after playing) it’s more painful. I’m not 100% on that theory, but it does seem feasible that whatever is wrong doenst like some foreign body sticking on it all day. I hate to pause from deep play bc man.. once I got to where I could take 3.5”+ deep it took the pleasure to another planet! Lol. But I do agree my best bet is to just play shallow for several weeks with possibly a different lube. I used coconut oil years ago before discovering Jlube, I’ll give it a go again. I can abstain from playing deep for about 3-4 days and it goes away so I think everything is ok and I try some 2” toys deep and bam there’s the couple days of pain. I did think about a hernia for sure. I tested just using toys without pushing out hard and it still happened. So if it’s hernia related it has strange triggers ya know? Also gas/stool directly causes pain and relief when passing the area. Thanks for yalls thoughts and ideas, I really appreciate it.

I recently had a semi unplanned colonoscopy. I’m mid 30s of age and they removed 4 polyps in my descending colon area. All of which came back negative for cancer, but he wants to see me in 3yrs for another colonoscopy. Here’s my issue! I can feel AND see a little polyp on my rose when I’m loosened up and pushing it out to a small prolapse. I try to keep an eye on it growing but don’t notice much. I didn’t inform him before the procedure as I was embarrassed. After the procedure when I asked where the polyps were I replied that I was pretty sure I had one in my texting area I could feel. His reply was it’s probably a fold or hemorrhoid.. the procedure was over so there wasn’t much I could do. I paid $2500 out of pocket for the procedure so I guess I’ll keep an eye on it for 3yrs and tell myself it’s prob not cancerous since the other ones were not. Any opinions? Thanks I’m advance.

I really appreciate the in depth response! I have been trying to put workouts in place of some of the play sessions to space them out which helps some I’m sure. True about staying out of sigmoid bend area. I’ve played with shorter toys and even been up to wrist fisted/double fisted by the gf and it caused no ill lasting effects. haha!! That’s funny but not funny about the scare tactic deal! I’m quite the worrier so of course I’ve read damn near all the stories about perforations, etc. Makes me feel really lucky, I would die of a heart attack worrying about how medical staff would talk about me. Some of the perforation stories happen with very slender toys also? Not sure how it happens but still scary yes. Again thanks, I guess since I’m having a weird injury/hospital visit/colonoscopy I just wanted to document it and let you guys in on how everything happened.

For those that did not read my previous post I had decent blood from being too rough with a toy in my sigmoid and pretty severe pain for the following weeks. Went to emergency room days after incident and CT scan showed colitis (inflamed large intestine/colon). Given antibiotics and scheduled colonoscopy. I recently had the dreaded colonoscopy and the only thing he said was he removed a few polyps way into my transverse colon. Said nothing abt my recent pain. Currently I’ve eased back into playing some and 8 out of 10 times when I start to go past my sigmoid bend I start getting that same pain again. I’ve been gentle too. It only lasts abt a day or so, but it’s very frustrating and hopeless feeling. I’ve even gone smaller diameter than what use to be my warm up toys a couple months ago and it still happens. Sometimes some blood will come from the deeper area and sometimes not at all, but a solid day of pain most always comes. A couple months ago I could easily start off slowly taking a silicone 3.5” toy 12” deep or so. It’s like a pain/burning feeling an inch above and an inch to the right of my left hip bone. Sort of inline with my belly button but real close to where left hip bone sticks out. I have successfully just stretched width down low not deep with a topped toys gate keeper 140 several times and not had any pain that lasted. Deep down I do know that I need to take several weeks off and then see if anything has changed but playing with my ass is like an addiction and is hard for me to go 2-3 days much less a month. Any advice, ideas, or support would be greatly appreciated.

I am an experienced player who can take 3+ inches past sigmoid and around 5” plugs. One evening I was using my fucking machine with several dif toys around 13”going through sigmoid. I was using the master series anal link plug which is a semi stiff anal bead type toy. I was going fairly fast and deep while pushing out straining hard and when I stopped quite a bit of blood came out. More than I’ve had in the past. No immediate pain or anything so I cleaned up, did a little enema and went on abt my day. Well by the evening time right beside my left hip bone where the sigmoid is I was in horrible pain. I waited it out a couple days and it got so painful I went to the hospital and had a CT scan done as I thought I had perforated my colon. I didn’t explain to them how it started.. They diagnosed me with colitis and said my large intestines were inflamed and prescribed the antibiotics Flagyl and Cipro. Another week goes by and it’s hurting just as bad, severe diarrhea, etc etc. I go back to the ER bc I was convinced they missed something. After another CT scan and drinking the dye they said same thing, inflamed colon/colitis. after 3 weeks it slacked up a decent amount and I’m on week 4-5 and it’s almost gone. The second hospital referred me to a gastroenterologist so I made an appt next week for a colonoscopy. I am very very concerned/afraid to have the procedure done. I’m more afraid of what comments and such will be made to me or about me when he sees how stretched out I am. I’m sure I have a polyp or two and simple things but I’m a little concerned that wherever the blood came from that day he will see scar tissue and wonder how the hell it got there. So I’m not really warning anyone of anything in particular bc the only thing I did dif that day was use that bead toy which was popping and pulling hard on the sigmoid opening when they’d pass through there. It was way smaller in diameter than other toys I use but was stiffer and popping the sigmoid hole hard. Anyway I guess I’m just looking for moral support on getting a colonoscopy and also available to answer questions regarding this issue if anyone has any. Thanks for reading

Man I really really appreciate your advice. Your advice just sort of gave me a level headed confidence to the conversations. I really glad I joined the forum. I’ve always kind of wanted to share my butt play knowledge and show a couple people how advanced I’ve gotten. It’s like I’m a professional at the act but very timid when it comes to talking abt it with her. She’s open minded and loves to please, it’s just a me thing. Thanks for the confidence again.

Question being we’ve gotten way way better at communicating in this subject, but I still have some sort of mental reservation on when/how I ask when I’m craving to be stretched. We will txt and talk abt new ideas and such but then a couple days later I’m like mentally blocked from asking for the services lol. I want her to be as passionate abt fisting as me so it’s like I sit and wait for her to initiate it and when it doesn’t happen I’m sort of let down and pissed. I believe my feelings abt re-asking are like feeling selfish, don’t want it to seem I enjoy it above having sex with her, seem “gay” to her, etc. I’m not sure what it is really.. do y’all play on a weekly/monthly schedule? Or discuss it the day of, etc. just curious. Bc as you prob know it takes a little time cleaning out and preparing to take fists so it can’t be just spur of the moment. Not sure if it’s a good thing or not but I am LITERALLY addicted to stretching my ass.. if it doenst work out with her I sneak off and push my own limits. Thanks in advance. Quote

My deep fisting and toying journey really didn’t start until I was taking Mr Hankeys XXL El Ray most of they way in. I would practice letting it pop into my sigmoid and then push until it met the transverse turn. For some reason that toy was a major turning point for me. It taught me how to relax the sigmoid bend and stretched it pretty good also. Back to elbow deep fisting.. my gf can get abt 1” from her elbow until she reaches the transverse turn. Unfortunately my transverse curve doenst like to be stretched or pushed on much. If she repetitively bangs on it fisting me hard it will bleed a little. Lastly I can remember training and riding a fist toy also when I was learning deep fisting. It helped me get a feel for what her hand woukd feel like. I would use it on my fucking machine at a decent pace. (Btw.. a fucking machine will spoil you and ruin your ass lol). Good luck!

Since y’all’s significant others fist y’all I do have another question. Not sure if I should start a new post or not so please let me know if you recommend I do. Question being we’ve gotten way better at communicating in this subject, but I still have some sort of mental reservation on when/how I ask when I’m craving to be stretched. We will txt and talk abt new ideas and such but then a couple days later I’m like mentally blocked from asking for the services lol. I believe my feelings are like selfish, don’t want it to seem I enjoy it above having sex with her, seem “gay”, etc. I’m not sure what it is really.. do y’all play on a weekly/monthly schedule? Or discuss it the day of, etc. just curious. Bc as you prob know it takes a little time cleaning out and preparing to take fists so it can’t be just spur of the moment. Thanks in advance.

I really appreciate the calming motivation GreatfulBread. I think I just needed some sort of push to talk to her and hear some of y’all’s stories. She has accepted everything so far very well and we even regularly stretch her ass in hopes of fisting. We are at 2.8” diameter plugs or my 4 fingers at knuckles on her so she clearly is a little freaky. I think my main hold up with the pushing/prolapsing thing was that she’s a Nurse Practitioner and I’d wonder if she’d draw the safety line there and say something that’d shoot me down I guess. But reading yalls comments and reminding myself she regularly double fists me elbow deep and well on her way to being fisted herself prolapsing isn’t that much more of a “shocker” per say. Thanks again for the encouragement!

I havnt opened up to anyone besides my gf that I enjoy stretching myself and pushing my limits to say the least. I have dozens of name brand silicone toys up to 5” diameter and take them all. She fist me past sigmoid and double fist me sometimes but I can’t quite get her to push my limits further. Also another thing I hate is I am embarrassed/ashamed to “push out” while she’s fisting me bc she will truly see how loose and decently prolapsed I am. It feels so good to push out but I’m embarrassed or something.