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Does anyone else remember "deepdildolesson"? He used to post on xTube (i think), his hole was impressive even by today's standards. Does anyone know if he's still posting stuff somewhere? If not, let me just say thanks for the videos, legendary stuff :3

Your evacuation is less effective because you have the same amount of darts in a bigger blowgun There've been some posts here about people claiming they have bigger "loads" after play. That's probably because when you stretch out your "blowgun" it takes more "darts" to fill it up the a point where your nerves can feel that it's loaded and ready to blow. It's one of the small changes people rarely talk about and that beginner players don't think about <.<

Pushing while playing, "birthing", anything that drags your lips out. Something as simple as pushing a little bit on the pull out portion of a dildo ride. The dragging outwards movement points them in the right direction, and the pushing engorges them. Repeating the dragging out and pushing is the key IMO. Maybe using heavy/big plugs helps give you some more of that downwards pressure and drag. I've seen people that pump say that pump cylinders with an inner rod help develop lips, and those without the rod helps drag more stuff out, better for prolapse development. It's kind of simple i think, but as RB just said, everyone's a little bit different. Also, i wouldn't recommend fully inserting anything nor pumping, unless you are super careful and experienced. Repetition and patience is the key

Pop/click sounds while pushing might be joints/vertebrae popping because of the pressure (joint gas release). I think i've experienced something similar when bracing for weightlifting. I'm not saying that's what happened with you, but that is one possible explanation. As Rosebutt already said, listen to your body and take pain seriously. If you ever experience something new you don't understand, maybe treat it like you would treat pain and take x amount of time off and pay attention to your body until you're sure everything is ok. I realize most people are going to throw caution to the wind and just have fun as long as they feel good, but i'll give the boring advice anyway. A stitch in time is better than stitches in your behind

ElyX just had an insertion accident and has it real tough right now. He's a "pro" and still had something go wrong. I don't want to be the fun police, but i urge everyone to think twice before "fully" inserting anything. (Sorry if this post is too much of a downer, but i think it's really important to remind people that accidents can happen and that the consequences can be dire.)

Hello fellow fellows and fellowettes. I just bought a bottle of J-Lube at a local store, but noticed when i came home that under the flat screw cap there is no sealing of any kind. No seal outside the whole bottle either. I'm a bit of a paranoid germophobe, so i'm wondering, has the bottle i bought been tampered with or do they come like that? Btw, this is my first go at powdered "professional" lube. I'm considering giving X-Lube a try, but i have to order it from abroad. Is it worth the hassle?

Seems consensus is: Probe for lips. Probe-less for rose/prolapse.

https://toppedtoys.com/en-is/collections/the-grip/products/the-grip-134 It is listed as being 1 cm bigger than your max. It's totally doable unless you are injure easily or have scar tissue. Even when being super careful i think you'll take it within a few weeks of careful play Ref: I went from 6 cm diameter on a hard Doc Johnson toy to 6.9 cm diameter on a TT Gapekeeper, with maybe 5-10 minutes of slow prying. With a healthy hole and careful play you can leap in numbers, unless you're already on soft silicone toys.

If a section of your rectum is equally loose all the way around, the part closest to your hole is going to peek out first/more (because the rectum has a bend from going down with gravity to meet a hole that is tilted slightly horizontally.) Small variations in individual anatomic proportions and the pose when you play and push are going to play a part as well. Might have something to do with the tension from the puborectal sling holding the "rear" side more in place while the opposite side is is free to move more, maybe. Or maybe whatever is holding the rectum in place further up is unaffected and keeps more tension because most people do more stretching than depth play. A few guesses. Maybe depthplay while keeping legs in a squat position might help

Welcome to the forum @kislorodus. Don't mind the... gapekeeping

That's the perfect relationship, but gets boring when flying solo

It could actually be regular ol' hems. They're often (but not always) painful, particularly if they're hard, if they're really small then maybe there won't be that much pain. It's called thrombo-something or whatever, which means that blood has kind of coagulated where there's a weakness and failure in the structure of your blood vessel (hemorrhoid). The way i understand it, two contributing factors are drinking too little (thicker blood) or inactive circulation which makes blood cells heap up, particularly where there's a weakness in the blood vessel. Tips from experience (aside from prescription treatment): 1) Increase water intake, drink regularly throughout the day and make sure you get at least 8 tall glasses a day. Gulp down 1 as soon as you wake up, stay on it. 2) Increase physical activity, aka keep your circulation going. I recommend just adding more walking with whatever intensity you feel comfortable with. Staying warm, taking warm baths etc. Be aware of sitting too long, change up whatever position your standing/laying/sitting in. And maybe ease up on resistance training for a while, you don't want to increase pressure in your veins when you're trying to heal. 3) Counter-intuitively, buttplug wearing often helps (it used to be the #1 prescribed treatment). It eases the pressure in your sphincter, thus easing pain from the muscle squeezing the H. Freer/Increased blood flow also promotes healing, pointing back to the two previous points. And if you stretch your anal "structure", you also cause some damage to your veins that sometimes need time to catch up and heal. I think a lot of stretchers have hems all the time that don't bother them, because of the constant symptom-relief of being all loosey goosey down there, and deflating the hems by using toys that squeeze them empty etc. I think some guys get more hems and discomfort when they stop playing. If you are uncertain about what's up or worried you should always see a doctor.

The download button on the site says 553 gb, the file in my download log says 417 kb. I shouldn't have missed that, but thanks for pointing that out. I literally thought "i'm too careful, everyone says it's okay, i'll let my guard down just this once". I went to settings on the computer and saw that the firewall was disabled, i re-activated it and now things seem normal, but i don't know what else might be wrong. Seems unlikely it was only a pop-up thing, that seems like a waste of malware. I'm going to do a lot of reading on security and find some antivirus-software. Any other tips are very welcome, and thanks for the pointers

Update: all browsers now open new tabs with some random bullshit sites. I guess this is some kind of malware, and i'm sure it came from that zip-file thing that's the only new or unusual thing i've done on this computer and it started like at most 5 minutes after trying to open the file. Anybody have any advice on what to do?

How does one open the zipfile? I followed the instructions, nothing happened and now my computer is weird