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try MEO. in addition to the crazy metal plugs, they also do... I think it's called an 'ass grommet' or something. anyway, it's softer to the touch and not cold like the metal, but it's firm enough to stay in shape once it's in. comes with a plug to fit. I have one and it's really comfortable and easy to wear for long periods if that's your thing, probably worth looking into it.

hmm. I'm pretty bad at talking about things. my partner and I have been together for 10 years plus and we've never had the conversation about what I'm really into. on the one hand, it's always been something that I have done alone, so that makes it hard to open it up to her. on the other hand, with this fucking virus shit she's home all the time now. so I've now got like zero privacy. part of me thinks it would be cool to have her fist me, but she's done literally no anal of any kind in her life so even if she was 'open to it' she's starting at the beginning and I'm where I am so is it even worth opening the can of beans, risking the rejection and/or massive awkwardness just so she can try it once, be bad at it/hate it and then we're back where we are now...? it's not like she's close-minded or anything... in fact probably anything but, it's there's just so much capacity for it to go wrong. plus when something has been a secret for this long... and there have been times when we could have had this conversation... but it seems like either she knows literally nothing or she knows something but has no desire to initiate the conversation... fuck. HELP!

ffs... workshops? so jealous. and of course they all wanted a prolapse... it's the best!

ok, so before I could give you advice on how to remedy your situation, it would be useful to know a few things... 1) how old is your dog now? 2) how old was your dog when you got him/her? 3) how long did your dog live with the two of you before the breakup/change of circumstance? 4) do you work from home/what do you do when you have to be out of the house, and how does your dog react to that? so, one of the hardest things, especially for first time dog owners, is teaching your dog to be alone. but it's very important. if your neighbours are an issue (we had a puppy in a shared building, so trust me, I know how stressful it can be) the best thing to do is to speak to them. let them know times when you're going to be working on separation and that during those times your dog will be howling. if possible, even arrange those times around their schedule so they're not at home while you're doing it. and then it's a matter of building up the amount of time your dog can be alone. crate training can be very useful, but once you start it's important to persevere with it. at first, your dog might not like it. ours didn't. but now, seven years later, we still have the crate (we never close the gate) because she uses it as intended - it's her space where she can sleep or just chill out. so the rewards in the short term - being able to leave your dog alone; easier housetraining - plus the long term benefits make it a win-win. but as I say, you have to stick with it through the initial period of resistance that most dogs go through. that being said, everyone's situation is different. however, dogs that develop severe separation anxiety are not happy dogs. they're not even really happy when they're with you because the anxiety of being apart never really goes away. and an anxious dog can be a destructive dog when alone and an aggressive dog when out in the world. so it's an issue that really needs to be dealt with early if at all possible.

it doesnt get in the way, but I think you do change how you play... but that's the case with anything. there's always variation... you just do what feels good. for me it feels really good to be starting to prolapse. it's taken a really long time and a lot of effort but it's been worth it so far.

I find this interesting. I also enjoy poppers but I've been careful to avoid daily use. That's not to say that there haven't been times when I've used poppers several days in a row but it's rare that I would do this. also though, I think there's a difference between a light use of poppers, where it might be a quick sniff to get that buzz or other times where I'll use the poppers more intensely and really lose myself to it. I try to do the latter no more than once a week because that way the tolerance is kept in check and also it doesn't feel like it's too much that way... y'know? different brands hit you in different ways as well. I find the first time you hit one that you've not had before sometimes the hit is massive. on days when I'm not using poppers I don't find that I miss them and I can definitely do all the things without them that I would do with them... it's just different. I think that way, when I use the poppers it means I enjoy that part of it, rather than needing to feel that in order to be able to do anything. you should maybe try easiing away from the every time, but you know, it's your call. to me it's a win-win.

yeah. that's a pretty small dildo. 3.5cm is way smaller than a fist. also, question, when you say you can't fist at all... do you mean that you can't fist yourself or have you got another person who is trying to fist you? you probably need to do a lot more anal stretching. I don't think I could take a fist until I could also take 3.5" plug. there are good toys out there that can help with this. look into toys that have multiple bumps of increasing girth. remember to have fun. take your time, but also, put the time in. lots of hours of riding fat butt plugs and bigger dildos etc.

I would definitely agree that you are still young - I get that it's probably not what you want to hear - but it's true. now, that being said, there are things that you can be doing that I've found helpful in growing a rosebutt into a full prolapse. bear in mind, I'm not yet where I want to be, but I'm getting there and focusing on enjoying the journey. do you fist yourself? if not, I'd recommend getting into that. for a start, you don't need any equipment besides your own fist which is great for situations where it's not possible to have access to a whole set of toys etc. and then, it comes down to what you do with your fist. the best thing, for me, about self fisting is that you're in control of both elements and you can feel your way around and just experiment without the pressure of having another person there... in terms of technique, for growing a prolapse I'd recommend pushing your rose out at the same time as pushing your fist in and then, after you've had your fist in for a while, try sucking your rose back up while taking your fist out. an intentional prolapse, like you're talking about, requires muscle control that people don't naturally have. so it's good to work on it. it'll help you feel around and discover what you need to do to really push it out. hope this was helpful.