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  1. Hey Nyrose, what you're describing was something I had to overcome myself and accept about myself. As much as we say that it is normal, quite frankly it's something we've hidden from others for such a long time that it's hard to unwire it once you do find someone who accepts this activity. It definitely took awhile to break down the walls for me but what helped me out was speaking with my wife and having her ask for it so it didn't feel like it was all coming from me. In my case, the feelings was rooted to this abnormal feeling you're talking about, and I was having a hard time relaxing because I was afraid that this wasn't something she truly accepted about me. Hope this helps
  2. Out of curiosity, why do you not want to enter the sigmoid colon? I think most folks' rectum is about the 6-8 inch range. While not everyone considers this, but I think deep play is when you enter the descending colon.
  3. Has anyone ever tried inflating themselves with air? or another way to think of it, an air enema? I've been wondering if that could be a more 'clean' way for doing some stretching but I was also wondering if it could help for deeper insertions. I'm currently trying to take the slink but I seem to hit a wall, 2-3 inches from the widest part. Anyone ever tried this as a form of training?
  4. I think Darthvin is saying that it doesn't fall out, rather he gets the sensation to push it out after his sessions. @Darthvin, I have this issue too and I have tried wearing a smaller one for it to be a little more comfortable but my body treats it like a foreign object and wants to evacuate anything and everything.
  5. looks like you need to follow them in order to see it. I'm logged in but it says that their tweets are protected.
  6. was anyone able to download the videos and could reup? or if anyone has links to mirrors?
  7. I've been down this avenue a few times and to be honest, it gets easier every time. With my first relationship, I was terrified of saying it and I thought it would be best if I took her out for icecream and stuff. After I was sweating bullets, she broke the ice and asked if there was something on my mind. I told her I needed to tell her something but I wasn't sure I was ready. She was pretty understanding and waited until I decided to lay it all out and tell her what I was into. She laughed at first because she thought I was going to say I had a crippling addiction to drugs or alcohol. After her laughing fit she said that doesn't bother her at all. The relationship lasted quite awhile but ultimately we broke up. The next few relationships, I broke the news on our 4th or 5th date. They varied from me just sitting them down after a home cooked meal and telling them about it or just me beginning a conversation about what turns them on. I've only had one person who asked "Does that make you gay or are you bi" She was heavily religious but in the end she turned around. With my fiancee, I told her flat out on like our 3rd date and said "I totally understand if you don't get it but it's what feels good to me" She loved that I wasn't trying to hide anything and honestly, it helped build our relationship because I don't feel like I have to hold back now. Hope my anecdotes help you out and gives you some perspective. I find it helpful to be honest and upfront without sounding ashamed to work best.
  8. I'm going to add my own data point to this conversation. While I respect other people's choices of using poppers or drugs while they play, I have never used drugs or had alcohol while playing but I was able to stretch myself out to ~3.5in in diameter over the course of a year. As everyone will say, we are all built differently but I was able to play inconsistently for about once a month, twice if I was lucky. To Bigtoys420, buying good toys made with good materials is part of it. I have also found that my butt is more accommodating if I stretch it out slowly with an inflatable plug, taking it in and out fully until I am comfortable with the size then I add a pump; rinse and repeat until I hit ~2.6in diameter. That is when I move on over to some of the larger plugs. One thing I learned about my body was the best position to be in and the direction I am pushing the toy. I find that pushing a large toy angled slightly towards the back helps. This was generally when I attempted to take in larger harder toys, the most recent one being an 80mm in diameter glass plug.
  9. Do you see any impact on taking larger diameter or longer toys? Something I have been wondering about is if it will limit my max diameter or ability to take longer toys because now there is an added pressure where I want to push it out
  10. Hi everyone, long time lurker and read a few past topics with similar questions but never got the answer from more than one individual. Recently, I’ve been thinking about getting a pump and attempting this after having stretched out to 3.5in diameter but had a few questions before taking the next step. For those of you who have a prolapse or trying to achieve one, how has it affected your play time and daily life? do you feel you can still stretch to the same diameter and depth? Or do you feel that sometimes the prolapse gets in the way or you’ve changed how you play? similarly, how has it affected you in the bathroom? I get constipated from time to time from my lactose intolerance and am sort of afraid of it popping out while I’m pushing and it causing a mess. I’ve read the guide and the pros and cons but I would like to hear from a variety of people and their journey.
  11. Count me in as well. I would also be interested in their other videos as well if your friend can upload them. I don't use a telegram chat but I frequent this site often enough and can be reached via private message.
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