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when it's hungry for my fist, I feed it. this can be as often as several times a day. usually it's a few times a week.

I hope you know how lucky you are that your girlfriend is willing to fist you.

I think, as well, the more you play with your asshole, the more you produce lube-like mucus which helps protect the flesh - very much not skin btw - from small injuries. tearing usually occurs because there's not enough lube and rather than sliding over the surface a toy or whatever sticks and drags the flesh which causes your small tears.

the thing is, once you step outside of medical surgery you're into the realm of the enthusiastic amateur. so a colostomy bag is the least you can expect. I shudder to think what would happen if the one lunatic willing to actually have the surgery met the one lunatic actually willing to get up someone's ass with a scalpel and start slashing... massive infection, sepsis, death. uncontrollable bloodloss, death. shock, heart failure, death. fortunately there is a much easier, safer, vastly more pleasurable way... the way of the fist.

yeah... this sort of nonsense pops up occasionally. from what I can tell, it usually starts out as someone outlining a fantasy that they have - to have their rectum surgically prolapsed - and somehow end up with people thinking that it's a real possibility. it isn't. first of all, no such surgery exists. secondly, no surgeon would do it even if you provided them with a surgical method as it violates the hippocratic oath. so you'd have to take your 'method' to some kind of illegal 'surgeon'... I mean seriously good luck with that. and also, why would you want to? all the things you do to get a nice prolapse are, themselves, pleasurable activities - fisting, stretching etc... - and if you don't enjoy fisting or stretching then you probably wouldn't enjoy a prolapse anyway. the whole thing is bizarre really. but yeah, be careful what you read because I've definitely read total nonsense that, taken at face value, reads like experience but is actually fantasy. there's nothing wrong with fantasy, but just don't expect it to work in reality!

oh man I would love to have a foot-long prolapse... that's the dream. now to make it a reality!

I can't get over that. you mean how long before it starts staying out past curfew to hang out with its dodgy pals, smoking weed in a bus stop... my prolapse... it's... dangerous.

yeah, so the whole 'what causes prolapse' question. I think the main reason there's so much contradictory information out there is that when you google 'what causes prolapse' you get a million links to MEDICAL sites and the like. the answers you find there refer to the medical condition, rectal prolapse. you'll notice that in the list of causative factors they don't list punch fisting. the weakening of ligaments slowly, usually over a lifetime, can result in old people having a rectal prolapse. now if you're talking about FETISH prolapse, which is what this site is dedicated to, then it isn't about weakening your ligaments because it's about getting your asshole destroyed by fists and you physically pushing it out using your muscles - abs, pelvic floor, etc. probably the best guide I've found for fetish prolapse is this one by buskowianka13. check out his twitter for short videos of his amazing prolapse. the guy is basically my hero. anyway, hope that helps

my body says, 'HAMMER THAT HOLE!'

I had always just assumed that those photos of the 'hipster twink' were fake, tbh... would be kinda interesting if they were real but I guess if they were, we'd have way more of this guy. that's what makes me sure it's fake. this guy would be on xvideo or one of those sites. hell, he'd be on here, replying to this post, no? being like, 'hey, that's me, look at more pics and video of my amazing prolapsed rectum!'... but he isn't.

yeah... I try not to think about that too much though. not because that isn't also my fantasy because it totally is. but it's no real help to my current situation. that's like the view from the top of everest. right now I'm on a train to Nepal. I can see the himalayas. but I'm not even at base camp. so I try to focus on the getting to the next step. but yeah. there isn't a time I pop it out that I don't hope for it not to go back in again. I want that hanging prolapse.

yes, I've definitely read about this. brings me to probably the most risky aspect of poppers which is the legal issue. different countries have put prohibition on 'poppers' but they're still available to buy. this is because the folks who make them alter the chemical composition in order to remain technically legal. if you can actually get hold of genuine amyl in the US (I'm not sure you can) then go for that. I live UK and buy mine from an EU site that still sells genuine amyl poppers. there are a few poppers threads on this site and others that should help you to find a good place to buy from. as with anything that skirts the edge of drug legality, it's a bit of a wild west so be extra cautious.

I think if I were to give you any advice it would be to be careful and go slow. Poppers can be a lot of fun, but they are risky. If it's something that you want to explore, I'd say try it with other experienced people around if possible and use lightly, especially at first.

same here... I'm hoping that what I have at the moment is a plateau and that it's building to a huge release. I'm getting pretty fed up with incremental growth. I want it hanging!

ooft. that sounds like a lot of therapy/counselling to wind up more or less where you were before. it always bothers me when people suggest therapy as a solution because so much of your outcome is determined by the therapist that you go to. many people have been badly damaged by 'therapists' and 'cousellors' and in many places a person can offer these services without having been through any kind of proper training. they're making their money without any concern for the fact that they're messing with people's lives and seriously jeopardising their mental health.

umm... such as?

I think it's just a matter of getting used to it. the more they see that you enjoy it, and the more they see that it always goes back in and that you're not walking about shitting yourself all over the place...

what exactly are they worried about? I assume you've told them that it feels good when it pops out... do yous fist eachother or are you the only one being fisted?

was it worth telling her? what was it that made you open up to her about it?

ok. so when you get fisted or you push out your rosebutt or whatever you're doing with your ass, it gets engorged. lots of blood. circulating around. this is why even a tiny nick from a rough fingernail or sharp edge on an object equals LOTS OF BLOOD. if all the blood is going to your asshole, there's less of it to give you a boner. that being said, sometimes you get erect, and in that moment, if you quit what you're doing with your ass and focus on your dick, you can have a decent wank. if you stay with your ass, the boner will go away pretty quickly cos, y'know, blood.

ok, so let me tell you where we're at. there have been a handful of occasions when I have forgotten to put something away. I've never consciously pushed the issue, but there have been opportunities for this to be made into a thing and it never has. not once. so, either she's seen the lube/toy/poppers, whatever... and just ignored it? or what? she's just a fucking blind person and I'm only noticing this now? she's seen shit lying around, for sure. we even had a conversation very early on in our relationship where I mentioned that I might be into her fucking me with a strap on. I rememer this. no follow up. not in 10+ years. she is clearly not interested in this. if this was something that she wanted to explore, she'd have done that by now. this is not some gigantic secret that I'm keeping from her. this is a box in our bedroom, not particularly hidden, not locked or anything... and either she's waited til I'm not around and had a good old rummage around, or she hasn't. if she's looked through it, then I know for sure that she wants nothing to do with any of this shit. and if she just never thought to look then that's the level of curiousity that I'm dealing with... think about that? you know what? maybe you've met this person. but I've not met the person you're talking about here. I've seen my partner experience a lot of different feelings and whatnot, I've never seen her think for a second that she would do this.

I guess it's just always been something that I've done alone. I was doing it before we got together and I've never shared it really with any female partner. it's never really been part of any fanstasy that I've ever had to have a woman fist me? in the fantasy it's always a guy. or multiple guys... plus, unless she's hiding an equally secretive fetish fantasy life (which, if she is, makes her just as bad as me), there is nothing that we've ever said or done that would lead me to believe that this was something she was interested in. and while she occasionally puts up with me talking about football or the like, her willingness to engage in things that she does not already like is limited. I wouldn't say our relationship is unhealthy, but we've got boundaries, or at least I have and I assume she has too... I'm only considering bringing this up now because of this fucking virus. I don't for a second think that telling her would fuck up our relationship or anything, it's more that... right, how do I put this? 1 - she just flat out refuses to do it... we basically pretend like I never brought it up. plausible. but then it's gone. it denies the possibility that we could have at some point arrived at a situation where we tried this or whatever... that possibility, slim though it was, is no longer there. 2 - she agrees to try it... also plausible. she's moderately sexually adventurous I'd say, but all more or less vanilla. no pain. no bondage. ok, light bondage a handful of times, not for years. no s&m of any kind. unless, as I say, she's just elected never to include me in any of it... but yeah, she tries it, she hates it. then what? or she's bad at it. or she's so worried about being bad at it that it's even worse? how to put this, she's not good at being bad at things. we can't play a game that she doesn't think she's good at. why would this be any different? like, I have to live with this person 24/7 at the moment. I really don't want the cloud of awkwardness that this could potentially bring about. but I can't play like I'm used to and I'm not happy with that. and do I keep other secrets? of course I do. who doesn't? I mean really. who doesn't keep secrets?

ok, so I was actually hoping there would be some advice for me to consider. I'm at the end of my tether here. this fucking lockdown means we're stuck in this house together which means I'm not free to play as I would ordinarily do, and there's just no apparent 'in' to any kind of conversation about fisting etc... like we're not even close to talking about it. HELP!

really? I would have thought that the opposite was true... surely they allow air flow so prevent a vacuum build up? we had one of the largest ones for our actual dog, but before I could try it out, my partner gave it to her friend for her dog...

I think a point worth making here, also, is that everyone is different. everyone's asshole is different. what is comfortable and easy to wear for one person, might not be for someone else. plus, I've not tried to sleep with my ass grommet in. but I've not had a problem having it in for a few hours while I go about my day. that being said, the 'perfect fit' tunnels are very highly reviewed so that's a safe bet.