Forced anal prolapse and erectile dysfunction from huge anal toys?

[biggapes]

Hi all,

So I've been into stretching my ass for about 10 years now and I'm 24 now. In the last 3 years I've been playing more heavily and been using really large toys. The monster egg plug is one of my favourite toys to ride on. At first when I heard about anal prolapses I was quite scared of getting one and was quite hesitant to carry on stretching, but the more I see them in videos and pics, and the more I play with my own ass, the more I love them and part of me wants a big prolapse.

Currently I can push out quite a decent prolapse if I hold my ass open and push really hard, but I don't fully prolapse and it doesn't stay our by itself. Part of me really wants to work up to a bigger prolapse and I still continue to use large toys regularly.

I bought an anal pump last week and only used it once with my mistress and it was quite fun and I really enjoyed the sensations. I really do want to pump my ass more and get more of my prolapse out of me. I posted a pic of my ass and pump on Reddit yesterday and I got these comments from another Redditor:

"Nice, just don't make this a habit with the pump, inducing prolapse deliberately results in pudendal nerve damage and will hurt your ability to maintain an erection permanently. Some regard it as a lifestyle choice, but it's something that really isn't talked about enough in the extreme anal scene. Informed consent, my dude."

I then asked for a source in my reply to this comment:

"This is a combination of my personal experience and the experience of several anal enthusiasts that I stay in contact with. I would have chalked this up to age myself, but I'm on testosterone therapy and my libido is at the same level as it was when I was 18. I decided to get Viagra to be sure that I could at least get a full erection, and I I could, but then I realized I couldn't cum from penetrating anyone."

I couldn't find much info online about anal stretching and prolapsing leading to erectile dysfunction, but I guess that's partly due to how niche this kink is. I'd really hate to lose the ability to maintain an erection and I don't think I currently have any issues with that. My mistress edged me for 30 minutes straight the other night while I had the Square Pegg Monster plug in me and I was rock hard the whole time.

Does anyone here have any comments to make here about anal stretching and prolapsing affecting their erections at all? I'd like to hear more stories from people actively engaging in this kink. Does anyone also have more details on this 'pudendal nerve' too?

 

[Rosebutt]

I’ve been crushing my hole for years and have no issues with this nerve you’re referring to. There’s another member here who constantly talks about it. Perhaps he’d be a better source of info?

[087john]

I'm sure it's possible to have some effect on impotence from stretching but it will depend on your own body and what you're doing to it. I know that if I'm getting fisted hard or fucked with big toys by someone else then I find it hard to keep an erection, whereas if I'm doing it myself I can stay hard the whole time. 

I put this down to me having more control and knowing when to go hard and when to take small breaks if I'm playing solo, don't get me wrong, I prefer it when someone else is doing it but if I wanted to cum I find it easier if I'm controlling the fucking. 

In regards to pumping the received wisdom is never high enough pressure to be painful and only for 10-20 maximum before having a break. I've not had erection problems from pumping but I have bruised my rose by doing it to hard for too long

[Darthvin]

I'd say that type of nerve damage could occur during any ass sessions, but it is rare. As rosebutt said there's a guy in here that often reminds posters of his unfortunate experiences. His was by using solid object, getting one stuck and panicking and litteraly pulling it out his arse with a digger (I made that last bit up but you get the idea) you hit alsorts of nerve during anal play, just like electro play. It's unfortunate luck of the draw if you fuck something up I'd say. Keep pumping and playing, just don't overdo it. 

[biggapes]

On 1/30/2022 at 11:33 AM, Darthvin said:

I'd say that type of nerve damage could occur during any ass sessions, but it is rare. As rosebutt said there's a guy in here that often reminds posters of his unfortunate experiences. His was by using solid object, getting one stuck and panicking and litteraly pulling it out his arse with a digger (I made that last bit up but you get the idea) you hit alsorts of nerve during anal play, just like electro play. It's unfortunate luck of the draw if you fuck something up I'd say. Keep pumping and playing, just don't overdo it. 

Interesting, sounds like he just had an unlucky accident after going too fast too soon past his limits. Do you know that users name on here so I could take a look?

[biggapes]

On 1/29/2022 at 11:39 PM, 087john said:

I'm sure it's possible to have some effect on impotence from stretching but it will depend on your own body and what you're doing to it. I know that if I'm getting fisted hard or fucked with big toys by someone else then I find it hard to keep an erection, whereas if I'm doing it myself I can stay hard the whole time. 

I put this down to me having more control and knowing when to go hard and when to take small breaks if I'm playing solo, don't get me wrong, I prefer it when someone else is doing it but if I wanted to cum I find it easier if I'm controlling the fucking. 

In regards to pumping the received wisdom is never high enough pressure to be painful and only for 10-20 maximum before having a break. I've not had erection problems from pumping but I have bruised my rose by doing it to hard for too long

Yeah, it sounds more like one of those things where everyones body is different and everyone could react differently to extreme stretching.

 

I kinda know what you mean, I do sometimes lose erections when playing with big toys, but I think that's more so due to the fact that I am 100% focused on my ass and not my dick. Whereas when I'm with a girl or masturbating by myself, my dick is involved and I'm able to get hard when needed.

 

I'm still new to the world of pumping so am still learning, but it feels great and I love the way it makes my ass look after!

[stretchedout]

On 2/1/2022 at 8:39 AM, biggapes said:

Interesting, sounds like he just had an unlucky accident after going too fast too soon past his limits. Do you know that users name on here so I could take a look?

It was me - a large electro plug that I got in and couldn't get out, and then had 15 mins before family was returning! It has been 18 months now and the sensation has not come back. Slowly learning how to get hard again though- takes ages but can get it up with 10-15 mins of gentle stimulation and concentration. So, yeah, just be careful. I've been reading through this forum and there are now several people warning of similar accidents. Just be careful with large solid plugs when you are at your limit or leaving things in for too long. There are several nerves that travel through the arse/prostate region that connect your genitals to the brain and maybe even the vagus nerve, and they don't grow back if you cut them.

Still enjoy stretching, but until getting the toys out or watching some porn the thought does not occur to do it. From 100mph to 7.5mph - it isn't just mental, definitely some nerves play a larger part than we realize at first. (Not looking for sympathy or blaming the toy manufacturer, just saying 1 minute of over-doing it is not worth not feeling horny ever again so take care!)

[TinyNutsTim]

Very simple. As long as I can orgasm I really don't care that my cock doesn't get hard.

[Rosebutt]

1 hour ago, TinyNutsTim said:

Very simple. As long as I can orgasm I really don't care that my cock doesn't get hard.

I know that that’s you’re kink and if it blows your hair back, that’s great but I’d HATE if I couldn’t get hard. My wife would as well

[TinyNutsTim]

On 5/27/2022 at 4:33 AM, Rosebutt said:

I know that that’s you’re kink and if it blows your hair back, that’s great but I’d HATE if I couldn’t get hard. My wife would as well

Not to say I absolutely can't, it just takes a little preparation. Pump and then band to stay hard. I only use it to do anal with my wife because her pussy is so huge. The only other penetration is oral, and she will not take a hard cock there. Unless it's very, very tiny.

[ColonVoodoo]

When I approach the 9-10 cm plugs I do find it harder to get and keep an erection- I usually never cum with anything that big in my for that same reason. I'm sure you could get nerve damage, but I'd imagine it would have to be from either blunt force trauma or maybe prolonged pressure on the nerves like stretchedout had. I don't know about pumping.

I try to think of ass play like a work-out routine. Warm up, stretch slow and save the heavy stuff for last  Haven't had any problems other than minor bleeds.

[rectifier]

I would rather say this can come from watching way too much anal porn. Had this myself. Needed to stop watching it and the erections were better

[Darthvin]

I've never had an erection while playing anal (litterally never). Probably a tad off topic. I've had multiple prostrate orgasms flaccid though. I only like erections for penetrative sex with partner anyhow and hate to cum (another story covered elsewhere) I only enjoy an erection if my partner makes me aroused, otherwise I find it a pain. I know there's lots of nerves in there, such a weird design we are! I always hit nerves which affect my legs.