Nyrose

I have lived under the same conditions as you, with this fetish. Most of the taboo was in my own head, and was afraid to share it with my girlfriend at the time. I remember it as a heavy blanket that hung over me, and I felt like I did something wrong. But things change, just be proud of who you are! If you love your girl, and envision a future with her, then I would really recommend you to be honest about this quite early on. This fetish does not disappear over the years, but rather becomes more intense. There will be a distance between you without her knowing why. In addition, this is about a completely normal thing for many people. Too bad it's a taboo for many men, because compared to other fetishes (which may involve harming others, or worse) this is completely innocent play. Just do it, be honest and hope she understands. If she does not understand, it will be very difficult to share a life together in the long run, and then it is better to move on. My relationships before her have been characterized by keeping this a secret, and I have never been able to form a strong enough bond with them. And some of that is, of course, my fault. I can mention that I was 100% open about this to my current wife when we met 7-8 years ago, and I'm incredibly glad I was! She wanted (and liked) to take part in this right from the start. Good luck!

My goal this year must be for my wife to be able to get all the way to her elbow when she fists me (We're getting closer)!

Spankbang.com is a great site. Create a profile and you can download the movies up to 4k too, for free! The search function is a bit poor, but if you find other people's playlists, you can find many great films that you can't find with the search bar

How is the glide on xlube compared to J-lube? I love J-lube, but it's a shame it doesn't work optimally vaginally!

Very happy that I was 100% honest about my sex life when I met her 10 years ago. She thinks it's very exciting to play with me, luckily! If not, we wouldn't have been married, I think. She was the first one I opened up to, but have now been honest about this to several female friends. I feel most people think it seems exciting. Why won't your wife do it for you?

Remember that for each cm you increase in diameter, the anal ring must be stretched 3.14 cm longer. So 1 cm can be a big jump. The hardness of the toy is also an important factor, as the pelvis is often limited to 7-8 cm on a man. So either soft or oval objects do the trick. Never push your body too hard to handle larger toys in a short time, take the time it needs! Even if we are talking about several years. An extreme sport like this can be done relatively safely, but it requires precautions to avoid injuries

I'd say I'm right around level 9 now, after many years of practice and enjoyment! 2 fists in from my wife is relatively easy, and she reaches about the elbow with one fist! I manage medium soft plugs up to 10cm (my pelvis limited the diameter with hard objects). No prolapse, as I don't train for it either!

See everythingbut has released a new movie, has anyone seen it? I think this channel has been mostly miserable for the last few years, but what they released now was actually good! They should have dropped the "acting" in many of the films on everythingbutt, and rather focused on testing the limits of the girls (a bit in the same way as legal porn does in some of the series). Think it had a bit of a huge hit!

I think there are more women than we think who like this. The problem is often that we men don't dare to tell our girlfriends/wives, or ladies they meet about this. Unfortunately, I kept my anal stretching a secret through several relationships for many years. When I met the lady who is now my wife, I just took the chance and told her about the fetish, and she found it very exciting. She gets incredibly wet from fisting me I hope it becomes easier for straight men to come out with this, because I'm sure there are many girls/ladies who think this is a great thing!

Thanks for reply! I don't think I'm disappointed no matter what I choose, but think I'm going for 75% soft. Have seen video from Argendana with this in XXL and 75%soft, and looks like it works pretty well. Sehorse has many lumps and such, so it can be a little too much if it is too hard. Had it not been so expensive then I would have ordered 2, one for me and one to my wife: D

Hello. I would like to order the seahorse toy. I think I'll go for size L. I am very unsure whether to choose "Med Firm" or "75% Soft". I think basically soft is good, but am afraid that it will be so soft that it is difficult to use? Do any of you have experience with this, and have any tips on what I should go for?

Wtf? It was down for several days... Apparently works now. But anyway, it's been a while since new content came out. Hope she continues!

I can't find her channel on pornhub anymore, and haven't seen anything new on other places for a while. Anyone know anything?? Her movies are truly the best I've seen, the real deal!

Of course I meant Pornhub Anyway, have wondered how it is possible to achieve this!

I think my favorite talent is Nikoletta Joy. I find a lot of good films, but what she makes I always come back to. Especially this movie : https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph6330ab9edbbab I must have seen it 100 times. One of the best I've seen, in my opinion

Hello. There are probably quite a few threads that are quite similar to this one. But I'm starting a new one to get a slightly more customized answer. My wife and I are in our 30s, and I've been doing anal play all my life. In the last 10 years, it has been developed to be more extreme, with double fisting and relatively deep fisting. When you watch films from hotkinkyjo, you see that it goes quite deep, and I'm roughly at this level. But I come across quite a few videos on youtube where the lady's whole arm goes into a man (fistingqueens). My question is how is this really possible? Because I feel that it really is not possible to get deeper than 30 cm. Can any of you take objects/arms that deep (past the elbow)? I am very interested to hear how you achieved this. I have always listened to my body and taken it slowly, but maybe there must be some pain to be able to develop this? Share your experiences!

Totally agree with you! Have followed most anal porn sites in the last 10 years, also analvids. I think "big sites" make more boring porn than before (with some exceptions). More people, pissing and chaotic tendons are not necessarily more exciting! I fully respect that some people like piss videos, but I think there is too much of this on analvids.com. I miss the porn that was made a few years ago by these sites, such as Tarra White production for example. And there is no lack of talent, MANY beautiful girls with talent these days, but these big sites need to make more porn that I recognize from reality, with laughter and limit testing. I think Kink.com has also gone from having incredibly good content to being a bit too boring. Fortunately, "home made" porn has become incredibly good in recent years, largely due to better cameras and platforms

Amazing !

I hope all goes well with her! And I'm happy for her I naturally also hope that she continues to make porn. I think it can work fine for her as long as she sets her own boundaries first. There is quite a bit of taboo around porn stars having children, unfortunately. In any case, I think that it can work well to continue with this even if she has a family. It is actually a Norwegian porn star (monica milf) who has a family and still makes films. After an inerju with her and the family, I felt that it really is fine to have a nice life even if mother or father is doing this! Siswet is fantastic, and I hope she has a great future!

That girl makes you happy to look at. Incredible talent. It would have been fun to see her with her hair a little trimmed in between her legs, although I think it's nice that she is exactly how SHE wants I have nothing against hair, but it's sometimes a bit difficult to see everything that happening to her butthole

My wife and I make some homemade porn that we watch together and occasionally share. We get horny by showing ourselves off, but are afraid to publish films and photos that could reveal us. I think it's very brave (and good) of couples or singles who live to the fullest on pornhub. (fuck the taboo). This is also the best porn you can find online. Real people, real feelings, real joy and completely of their own volition! Something that porn producers never manage to create.

This post should be pinned. I am very interested in information about this risk to our fetish. I appreciate what you share HerrWolfe! I find it difficult to find proper information about actual people who have had problems later in life, where anal sex itself is the cause. All my life I have been obsessed with anal sex on myself and others, and I have been afraid of hurting myself. Many older people have problems down there, but the question is whether it would have happened without or with this activity. I myself am in my 30s, and have spent around 20 years getting to where I am now. A wonderful journey that I hope continues, with only the goal of enjoyment. I haven't had any major problems with this yet. Oddly enough, after 20 years stretching up to 9cm in diameter, I have just as strong pinch muscles and even better control than my girlfriend who has only tried regular anal sex. If it was the case that I could choose another fetish, I would have done it. But that's not how life is. On the other hand, I am happy that I have got a fetish that is accepted and completely legal. So it's about openness around the topic from people on, for example, this forum. I hope more people share their experience with this activity on this post. Problems, injuries, positive things, negative things, honest opinions, etc.

Kink.com has produced some movies of the everythingbutt series since I posted this thread. But to be honest, I'm quite disappointed with the content they come up with. Nice girls, but I think it seems even more staged than ever before, if you ask me. (I know it's obviously staged, but it seems more real before) I miss the time when there were a little more extreme anal/fisting scenes than there are now! I'm just saying, more fisting, more deep insertions and more really hard fucking. Anyone agree with me?

Nikoletta Joy YES! That clip of her there is fantastic. She makes incredibly good porn, I never get tired of these clips. Hope she continues to make content.

A bit late reply. After I wrote this post, we have experimented a lot with anal sex. And I have to say that the problems I had have gotten a lot better and now it feels better and better. My girl fists me more often and is becoming more and more self-confident and sure of where my boundaries lie. We have talked about taking the next step at the sex club, where she is my domina and double fists me in front of other people. She likes it when I stretch her anus, so we work slowly and safely to open up her ring We have our whole lives ahead of us, so we feel no rush.