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As someone in a somewhat similar situation I totally feel your pain. Here are some added tips: For lube I sometimes use hair conditioner. That works really well and doesn't leave a smell/might even help with the smell on your fingers. Before showering, go to the toilet and try to empty as much as possible. If you can, try sneaking fruit or vegetables into the bathroom; they make great makeshift toys as well and you can throw them out when done. (remember to wash them well before playing) There's a lot of pervertable items around the house. Be creative

It could also be that you're overittigating your colon. I know back when I used enemas, they would zap my energy and really I would only get fully clean about 40% of the time... So I stopped using them. Found that if I time my bowel movements adequately; then warm up with a dildo that goes past the second sphincter (and clean the dildo a few times if necessary), I can be sure enough that there's no accidents. (I also listen to my body; if there's excessive grumbling it might not work well anyway lol) Another thing enemas do, especially right after you've expelled the liquid is dry out the tissue. That could also be part of your burning sensation.

I know I've seen the first one but can't remember where, lol i know that's not very helpful sorry. Amazon has one that's very similar but only at 2.8" diameter. the 2. one is a WAD. Here's a link: https://www.vast.de/en/toys/plugs/2073/wad-ornament-of-oblivion-plug-black-xl but it can also be found on amazon the 3. looks kinda like a cyclops from Master Series but less shiny (different material) more rounded and shorter, so I'm at a loss as to where that one comes from

I use towels for short term storage. If I need to put the toys away for a longer period in storage, (btw I hate when I have to do that lol; I start missing the toys almost instantly) I wrap them in clingfilm. You can get the packing clingfilm from a hardware store with a convenient handle. It's quick and keeps them apart nicely

anyone else tried the jojoba oil? I just received my bottle in the mail. Excited to see what it does... One more question though; does it interact with any toys?

Hi all, I've been making good progress lately as I've increased the amount of stretching sessions per week. so much so that I've now mastered all my toys, even some that have been laying around for a long time because my eyes were a bigger than my hole lol. I also got a nice bonus from work so I figured, this would be a good time to get a new toy as the larger ones do get expensive quickly. Having said that, I can't decide between two toys and this is where I'm asking advice from the community please. My biggest toy that I can take (not yet mastered but getting there quickly) is the Bomber from Lovejoy. 3.3" in diameter and 10.5" in circumference (according to their specifications) It has some give but not a ton. the other toy that I can now use more and more is the Pipedream King Cock Chubby. It's slightly smaller at 3" diameter and 9.5" circumference but has almost zero give. The two toys that I'm eyeing next are the Mare Maker 115 from Topped Toys and Mr Hankey's Boss Hogg LG/XL. They are almost the same pricewise (once shipping is included) so that's not a deciding factor. Obviously one is more of a dildo, the other is more of a plug so they don't really compare as far as shape goes either. That's why I'm asking the community. Have you tried either? What are your experiences with them? Which one would you suggest as the next one? Or would you have another toy in mind as the next step up? Thanks for your input

I would if I could... it's behind a paywall

I tried it but find that it leaks out when it gets warm which in turn leaves fat stains in the underwear, even pants sometimes. I suppose you could use a feminine pad to guard against stains but I like to sleep in the nude so that's not a great option... any ideas?

I find that sometimes after a longer period of not playing (say you're on a two week vacation, plus planning for travels and resting when you come back; so in total maybe 3 or 4 weeks of a break), there seems to be more of a progress. I worked on a particular toy for quite some time a while back, but I just couldn't make any real progress. Then after a longer break (and maybe 1 warm up session with toys that are just below my limit) I started a session and felt really good. I tried the big toy again and suddenly I just opened up and swallowed the toy. Ever since then I can take the toy on a regular basis. not sure why, maybe the muscles tense up after a long period of playing often but then relax again when on a break?

I like to use it in the shower. you don't really need lube because the soap acts like a lube when it's wet. Basically when you're in the shower (say after a nice play session, or just a regular shower when you feel a little naughty lol) you take the soap in your hands and make it nice and foamy. Then you can either stick it in and leave it there for a while or push it in and out. Or, you take a washcloth and rub the soap all over it until it's completely saturated in soap and then you stick the washcloth in. After a while you will feel an intense urge to push which sticks around for a while even after the soap is no longer in your hole. If the feeling gets too intense you can always take an enema bulb and wash yourself out. Afterwards you will feel thoroughly used btw, not all soaps are created equal so if this one doesn't do anything, get another one and try that. I recommend the classic dove bar.

eh; it's not gonna hurt so you might wanna give it a try. It's a very intense but interesting feeling. And like some said here... afterwards you feel like you had a good session even if you didn't actually have one.

It's not just the glycerin. A lot of soaps are alkaline in nature (a pH of +7). This too causes irritation as the skin is slightly acidic (pH between 4.5 and 5.5). Unfortunately there are a lot of soaps on the market and they all have different pH's so it's hard to tell which ones cause more irritation. (even in relatively unscented ones) Also, a word of caution, some soaps aren't really soaps but pressed detergents (I'm looking at you Ivory bar.) might be wise to stay away from those.

I'm with you. The clear Bad Dragon lube is awesome and I use it mostly with toys. Also, if I need to inject some lube or generally need to use more of it I found that Xanthan gum with water works great. I got some fist powder a while ago and when I checked the ingredients... guess what the main ingredient is. Yup Xanthan gum. So once I've used it up I'm going back to the much cheaper Xanthan gum. Only downside is, it doesn't last unless you add some glycerin (which I'm not a huge fan of so I just mix it when needed and discard the rest. It's cheap enough to do that lol)

I bought something like that; it was advertised as endoscope but the problem is that the camera can't focus on anything while it is inside you. leaving you with a fuzzy orange/pink screen lol. With a speculum you can see a little more but once you leave the opened part it's lights out unfortunately. I don't know how a real endoscope delivers the images but the cheap stuff you can buy online doesn't really work unfortunately