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Same here, started with enemas, fingers, the usual and when I hit the internet in my teens found all the anal porn, stretching, fisting, enemas and from then I just kept on going and found rosebutts and prolapse. Basically I'd read or see something that'd make me randy and inspired to experiment, soon I'd be pounding my ass and stroakin' away. Time and size progress, money is acquired, toys bought, yada yada. Eventually I was stretched enough to fist my ass and go pretty big. I went with what felt good and enjoyably wrecked my hole in the process and every now and again the wife snaps on some gloves, slips on a strap-on and helps out. I do it because I'm a horny mofo and it feels fantastic!

Like DuckyShine, I second lube, lube is critical and will save you soreness early while playing. I like to use hydrogenated vegetable shortening i.e. Crisco personally but be aware it is oil based so can damage latex. Next is Bad Dragon Clear Cum Lube, super slick sorta syrupy. I also agree on not using nubing lubes or creams while stretching pain is a demarcation of imminent damage that should be heeded. Now after play I like to use a bit of Bag Balm or Preparation H if I'm a tad tender, the Bag Balm is like a skin ointment made of basically Vaseline and lanolin, either one works perfectly for that after play tenderness. Hope this helps.

Oh, that is a cool line up they have, balls with retrieval straps, veggies, wide neck plugs, not a huge line up but interesting. Some I am seriously considering, the set with the squash and courgette is seriously tempting. Thanks for sharing!

I plug, fuck, stretch and/or fist my ass almost daily and worst I have ever got was a bit of a tender ass, I have never had that happen. Sounds like maybe a panic attack? Not sure but, if it shook you up that much I'd talk to the doctor. Like I said worst I have ever had was some tenderness from a really long and/or rough session and a day or 2 break and some preparation H suppositories if needed right that. When in doubt see the doctor friend.

That is basically my technique as well, duckbill/cone shape to go deeper and warm up and a balled fist to ream the opening wider. On the not getting as deep with a balled fist that's pretty normal, just like the anus the inner sphincters gotta be gradually stretched open and there's the additional part that you are also training the bend to straiten so, it's gonna take time, patience and practice to get the balled fist deeper. So considering it sounds like you wanna do both, do that! In fact, as a suggestion, try insertion with cone hand and ball the hand on withdaw, feels awesome. Just remember the usual rules of engagement, plenty of lube and listen to your body.

Hmm, I do like the looks of it, may have to give it a go, it is a tad pricy though. Still a nice find to try.

So, that sounds like a less is more situation. It's a bit thinner than Vaseline, a bit like Preparation H in consistency so when I have used it for dry hands I use an amount about the size of a US quarter coin, and when used for after care I use about the same on 2 fingers inside and out. Also you want to work it in well and don't hesitate to wipe off the excess if it's a bit to much. I hope this helps you out with the issue.

Bit of both really, riding a fat dildo or my newest a TitanMen Intimidator, a depth and width challenge, is always good fun and I can self fist as well. I usually play solo but I don't mind when my wife gets involved either. She prefers to use (slightly) smaller toys, usually a dildo for pegging, and her fist, mostly she goes with fingers and fist because in her words "I can feel what's going on with fingers but toys not so much" I don't mind because she gets places with those fingers.

Eh, it depends really. If I'm solo I can go a full round limp just fullly focused on my ass or rock hard if I'm just going hog on my ass and want more stimulation. If my partner is involved it is almost always hard no matter what, I think this is because it is a massive turn on for me but, that's me so ymmv friends!

I hope you like it! I know I have, I use it after playing lately, just finger in a big ole glob and wipe up the excess. I also like to use it around my hole when I plug to keep things lubed and Moist. Let us lovely perverts know how you like it!

Depends on the enema and amount you use. If you use a douche bulb and plain water, you are pretty fine, even a bit deeper, if you don't use a large (like above a pint) volume you're likely ok, but do take breaks to let yourself regroup. Now if you like me, like high volume deep enemas or fun additives like soap (not detergent) or glycerin in your enema, no more than once a week and I go longer. Done to much, on high volume/additives, it can cause issues like colitis and laxative dependence. Tl;Dr Don't go deep or use high volume/additives to much and you'll be OK just give yourself a break sometimes.

Yeah, it's for sure an experience and it will make you swollen and drooly. If you were using bar soap, next time I'd suggest using the whole bar as a plug/dildo. Push the whole bar in and out basically fucking your hole with it. Doing this makes the sensations more intense and will suds up everything. I like to finger my hole after soaping it up, the irresistible urge to push let's me get up real deep, and feels so good to push against those fingers, your hole just sorta dilates open with all the pushing. Afterwards even if it was a short short soaping it feels like I've been absolutely wrecked. Swollen, open, drooly, and even a little sensitive. Personally I use plain Ivory bar soap, same as for soap suds enema solutions. It's just soap, no perfumes, detergents, moisturizer, just soap. You can get a pack of 3 bars for like $3-4 usd. If you don't have Ivory avaliable then any similar soap like like it is the way to go. Stuff like dish soap is detergent or has perfume and can make you sick. I do recommend a rinse out after playing soap just because it can have a bit of a laxative effect. I do add that this isn't something I do very often but it is fun when I do.

Yeah a bar of Ivory is occasionally a fun aside in my anal adventures, slides in real nice, almost lubricates the passage. I like the way it gets more intense until you just can't not push if you hold it in awhile. Working it in and out will also make it grow in intensity that way. I like the Ivory classic bars because they're soap and not detergent and don't have any perfumes or nasty stuff. I keep it around for soap suds enemas too and it works well there, every once I a while though, I just gotta cram the bar in. It's fairly cheap, about $4 for a 3 so not bad cost wise.

So, I have done the soap thing and it's. . .interesting. So I know of a few fun ways to do this, soap sticks or soap suppositories, a bar of soap and a soapy enema. My soaps of choice are Dr. Boener's castile soap for liquid and classic Ivory bars. Avoid any with detergents good avoiding perumes too. Depending on what you like is how to go here. I enjoy all 3 myself, soap sticks are really fun and also a great option to start a bm too. To make them you warm up a bar and slice it into pieces. Wet and smooth the edges and hold till you can't, also fun to move in and out. I also just like to shove the whole bar in there for the same effect. And that effect is a bit of a burn intensifying as you move it or hold it and a lasting urge to push and push hard. Now if I am in the mood I will use either one for enemas but prefer the castile soap. It makes you squeeky clean inside and you will have the burning and urge to push while expelling and for a good while after, the amount of soap in the enema will make it more or less intense, beware though more soap will cause more cramps. That is how I personally have done soap, either way I recommend a rinse after and as mentioned you will feel well used after.

So, for me it's in the combination of the lanolin and petrolatum used in the Bag Balm. The lanolin acts as a skin relaxant, and to a degree muscle relaxant, it tends to leave a mild warm sensation and combined with the petrolatum leaves everything soft, supple, and moisturized. The relaxing effect of the lanolin is a similar feeling to the clove oil used in Slam Dunk, if you've ever tried that particular creme lube, it's not super pronounced everything just feels less tensed and more stretchy, same for the lanolin.