Analfister97

Literally just go clean my bum or she comes with me and helps, she's a nurse and honestly doesn't give a fuck

I've wondered the same thing about stretching vs muscle building too but I see heaps of progress with stretching so I just keep it up, honestly the biggest three better my girlfriend and i both think. Go with the flow for a bit and see how you feel, I haven't had any issues with it, if I feel like stretching my ass or being fisted I just do it and don't think about it. Being ashamed of it is hard, I still feel it sometimes but it's calmed down alot, my girlfriend loves fisting me and stretching my ass which helped me build some more confidence with it, now she usually just goes straight for my ass cause she loves making me cum and most of the time I didn't her too and we are both really conditioned to cumming that way

I go through stages with it personally, but I've never had issues sometimes I'll only stretch once a week sometimes 4-7 times at least and a few times a day. If anything I noticed when I stretch more often I have made more progress, within a week I went up an insane amount when I stretched minimum 10inch circ 19 times that week or sometimes my girlfriend would double fist me whilst I also have a hand up my ass. I honestly find the feeling addictive. I get a really bad craving for it and just chase the feeling of getting light headed from being stretched so much. As long as there is no bloody or feeling really sore I don't see why you would need to worry about stretching heaps. When I have been sore I stop and then a day later I feel better. I'm fairly lucky though as I'm still only 22 and can take a oxballs pig hole XXL with a doc Johnson bombshell ultra girthy plug straight up the centre of it and 4 fingers and finally get the light headed feeling. I'm drug free doing it so that's just how it makes me feel. But even after doing that I don't feel any pain or discomfort and happily will have my girlfriend fist me that same evening and still always make progress.

I didn't tell my girlfriend till 6-7months in and we started fisting her and then she played with my ass and I just kept saying more and we went from there, now we both regularly fist each other a few times a week and have great fun together and she wasn't overly sexually experienced and a very shy person and reserved person