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I am still working my depth too, as my internals are stubborn, and as I learn to relax more and more, it becomes possible, but also enjoyable. Lots of breathing, and lying on my back. My best depth record was to take a Slink S completely in (base included). Received the M version few days ago... can't wait to be in the mood. took me years to reach that (small) level, but until I got the right tool for the the job, things got a LOT more pleasurable. I mean, from time to time I was able to pop a dildo into the sigmoid, but it was rather painfull and/or not pleasurable. I am discovering the pleasure of it. To me, there are sensations, and feeling the 2nd and third door relaxing, allowing passage feels good... on the contrary, when the mood is not here and that I can't seem to relax these parts, passage is uncomfortable at best. and yes belly bulge is possible, definitely. Is it pleasurable ? when I saw it with me, it was not, but who knows, maybe when I'll be well trained it will be another story... but I suspect this is just visual fun.

I think that up to a comfortable diameter, this can be considered. But then some diameters are just too dangerous to important nerves running near the sacrum (a bit higher actually, but don't remember exactly which vertebra.) for 24/7 or even several hours consideration, if pressed to hard for too long some nerves can be permanently damaged. Which diameter varies with each and every one, but 5~6 cm in diameter seems pretty safe to anyone, unless you'e a midget... But then you have to also deal with feces, never the greatest moments... Please, choose plugs that are extremely confortable to your ass cheeks, to hard of a material (like metal), can bruise you pretty bad, gradually.

Lol, odd, indeed it is. And what ? French revolution ? Dang ! Never heard it. Too bad my grandma's dead, could have heard it. Thanks anyway.

I don't really get the meaning... I mean if you'e give or you buy a cake, this is for eating it, right ? ... Wait, what kind of cake are we talking about here ? The brownish kind ?

Mr Hankys toys you say ? Now I'm curious... But watching Siswet... I'm definittely not there yet, if ever... Your idol ? I can relate, but hat's a funny thing to say... imagine "street poles" (dunno what it's called) : "Hi, we're making a pole, who's your idol ? 1st person : Oh, Madonna ! 2nd person : Me ? Lady Gaga 3rd : For me Clint Eastwood is my idol, so genius ! 4rth : Me ? Siswet19 - and who is that ? what does she do ? - she's a dutch camgirl who shoves gigantic toys up her ass" I'd love to see the face of the interviewer... Edit : Yeah, they seem to have some good stuff too, notably their taintacle and sigmaloid

Agreed, worth every hard earned penny, the bests I've ever had, and I've had a lot ! I almost exclusively use theirs now. But I prefer the Blunt shape over the Egg plugs, weirdly enough, feel more comfortable.

Nice vid, I had an anal baloon a long time ago, crap quality, But I could insert into the sigmoid. Now ou days, I guess it can be more valuable, as the one I had, adapted its form to spouse the anatomy, even tight corners, so not really working those tight spots. I'll have to investigate...

Sounds fun, 6 to 7.5, stretching wise.. As I thought, I'm small fry compared to the majority here

We've got a saying in France : "Tu peux pas avoir le beurre, l'argent du beurre, et le cul de la crémière", which should translate into something like this : "You can't have the butter, the butter money, and the ass of the creamer" Point being, either be ready to face potential consequences, or jus be ready to put extra efforts either by wearing something on your face, or spending time editing your vids by bluring your face. Oh ! I remember now the English expression : "you can't have it both ways"

It may very well not be BS. When I started, as I felt the NEED to push after or while a session, I did develop a rose without me really noticing out of the toilets, and once noticed, I could sometimes keep it out and walking with it for a bit... After that period of intense training, followed several years with almost no backdoor activity, and during this time, I noticed once that I did not have any prolapse anymore on the toilets, I did not notice it until I think about it... It's like when I started, I loved having geisha balls (4cm/1.57" wide) for the whole day, and the first ball regularly ended up into the sigmoid with ease and no particular intentions of it, while I was and still am struggling to get into that part actively, for ex, a 4cm wide toy is still too much to get into the sigmoid... So, why the hostility ? I don't get it

You're welcome I am still hoping to find such a girl one day, you are very lucky (or skilled, or both, don't know), don't miss the opportunity.

Aren't you able to find a good compromise ? a 24/7 slave is a huge commitment on both sides, and while the fantasy is appealing, the reality of it is another thing entirely. I personally would never commit to such a thing as I love my freedom too much. If she wants to obey you, and you want her to still experience her life, you could still teach her things, but regularly order her to live a week, a month, of regular life, that if she trusts you, she has to do it. Because no matter how intelligent you are at 20, you still know nothing about life, you may think you do, but you don't. You can reassure her that you will teach her what she wants (gradually), but it will take time for her to prove it, and that sexual games are just a part of it not the whole thing, and that you too somehow have to adjust gradually. This the first lesson of life : patience. Foundations have to be laid carefully or the edifice will crumble. This is assuming you want her to be your decadent toy, but also grow a woman of great strength able to face the harshness of life, maybe even your equal.

Two regrets, the first is to have been too focused on performance when I began, sure I made spectacular progress, but my body not having the rest it really needed, made it more painful than it had to. The first regret led to the second which was I mostly got bored, because the ratio efforts/pain/pleasure was more led by efforts and pain in my mind, so fare less training, but still more perf driven than pleasure... vicious circle. Now that I am back at it, slow pace, regular, and more pleasure driven, I actually do make progress in a delicious way

The biggest of the set is already the size you seek. You also have it alone : https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GXNPD0K/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&psc=1 But I would advise against those : we don't know what material it is made of. Save up for high grade silicon, expansive... true, but much more durable, comfortable, and safer. You will save money in the long run. But if you're really in for this one, please use two layers of condom on top of it, for your own sake. Now regarding this specific shape... you may never find it, unfortunately Two shops/manufacturers that I know of which only do silicone toys : US based : SquarePegToys EU based : 1atoys

You say you have dominance over her, but have clearly stated to her that if something is wrong she can decide to stop the game ? As long as she loves it, and you both respect each other will, it's fine IMO. If she loves anal, teach her our kink, it should be fun You may also teach her more than sex, with sexual games of course ^^. Teach her how to push her limits in life, by pushing her anal limits, teach her when to step back by teaching her the right moment to stop a game. How to turn the pain and constant challenge of life into pleasure, by teaching her that transposed into the sexual domain. Plenty of life lessons and behaviors can be taught through sex. But it is easy for one self to loose himself into it. Both of you have fun.

Sorry it won't answer your question, but if you'e talking about the round metal plugs with a hole in them, well I faced a slight problem : the metal flange was bruising my ass cheeks when wearing it regularly overnight. It is like the Chinese torture of the water drop on the head, the repetition will make it unbearable. I would advice to not go so often with these and replacing it with a comfortable plug to give your cheeks the time to heal. Now about your question, yup, your body pushing very often will make you prolapse. As for the "soon", depends of your body.

Hi, to expand the last J-lube recipe, cause I like it thick, and long lasting : mix a distilled water and jlube, get a quite thick texture add glycerin, mix it, it will likely be very thick, Now add slippery by re-adding distilled water Once the slippery target is reached, add a bit of xanthan gum, it is a thickener, add it bit by bit then keep adjusting each ingredient till you like it For me, this has been the ultimate lube. The glycerin helps to keep the lube moisturized, while the xanthan gum thickens the lube, allowing it to stay on the toy surface. Adding j-lube instead of xanthan gum to thicken the solution, tends to dry the lube more quickly, which is not great. Please note that glycerin may lead to yeast infection, I had not suffer it, but I never mix a lot of lube at a time, plus I wash after play. Xanthan gum shorten even more the life of the lube. But really, mixing with clean material (rub material with 90° alcohol) goes a long way. You can even boil the distilled water if you like and let it cool in a sealed container. For an ambient temperature of around 20°C (68°F) and an hygrometry of 60%, it can safely be kept for a week in a clean (sanitized) "sauce squeezer" at ambiant temperature.

Yup, let it heal, allow your body to rest. One thing to note, is that there are some important nerve ending near your spine, going too big and/for too string can irreversibly damage them to point of incontinence. True this is extreme, but more possible than you imagine. The good time to expel the plug is when you feel some "hotspots" near the spine and/or tail bone. It can be after 15mn or as well after few hours, depends of your body. just rest for an hour or two, and repeat. when you feel the near spine area tired, just stop. The sooner you pay attention to it and stop, the sooner you will be able to get back at it without ill effect. Resting is what strengthen your body after an effort. Use plugs, find the size that is comfortable for you, like you can still feel it, but is comfortable enough that you can keep for at least an hour with little effort, this one will be your main one, the one that you cans use almost every day. One day you can use a bigger size with several 15mn sessions, the day after resting, with just an hour session of the main (or none, it's fine too), repeating this regimen for a week, during which the session time with the bigger toy might increase, or not, the goal is to last, not to burn. 2-3 hours every day seems a bit excessive IMO if it is without serious breaks.

Hi all, After reading various posts on this forum and materials on the net, I wanted to share my small experience and tips that worked for me regarding depth play (for which I am still a beginner). My colon is very bendy, almost no straight toys can go past the junction, yet. As a brief context : I started to play with my ass when I was 17, and have been essentialy plying with stretch, staying in the rectum as the closer to the "recto-sigmoido junction", the more it hurted. I sometimes tried to go past it with a dong dildo (3cm diaameter / ~1.25inch), but never made it. it's only been for something between 5 and 10 years that I can regularly pass small things like a douche nozzle past the junction. I noticed few things over the years : since almost the beginning, when I leaved toys like geisha balls (linked with a cord, nothing preventing it to be sucked up, 4cm in diameter / ~1.5") or anal beads*, for a whole day/night, things went past the junction by themselves with time, no problem . trying to actively go past the junction is much, much more difficult getting rigid thing over there is even more difficult/painful/and also dangerous regular training makes things easier, if you only have commitment to this through small periods of time (as I do), you have to be extra careful to not rush things, as it does not work. having your external and internal sphincters open tend to contract the muscles of your junction Today, I am training in order to get a 4cm/~1.5" diameter very bendy toy (the Worm, from SquarePegToys). This is where I'm at. Now, in my opinion, what are the best tools ? Remember that you have to teach your body to relax and the junction while the internal/external sphincters are open. The best tools have this in common : they're made of silicon, and not all are equal, don't be cheap about it, really, you will save money in the long run while offering you the best experience possible. A nice bendy silicone douche, i advise a small diameter like 2cm/~0.75", and around 25cm/~10" long A very soft colon snake of around 3cm/~1.25" diameter, 25cm/~10" long, with a round or taped head, small bumpy dots on it are optional, but will teach you the pleasure you can feel at the junction. the Slink (S version) from SquarePeg, the Squirm works too, but the slink being a plug, it is more effective as you can just leave it there I do promote SquarePegToys only because their blend of silicon and toys are sooooooo great ! I am in the (long) process to replace almost everything I have with their toys, they are that good (if you happen to know another company with their quality, please share Now, for the tips that worked for me, there are the usual ones, and one I red here that motivated that post (thank you RosebuttNinja, http://www.rosebuttboard.com/index.php?/topic/110577-depth-issues/&do=findComment&comment=2956696 ): Relax, there is no rush ! Patience Relax Patience and so on... when douching, don't use too much water, unless you love enemas, water will make your colon more fragile. No need to fill your descending colon with water, it would get rid of your intestinal flora, bashing your immune system for a while. after douching, rest for an hour or two, chances are, if you'e not used to it in the sigmoid, that water remains, soon enough you feel the need to to piss by the ass. Eventually wash a bit again. In the good days, and the more you are trained, the less you will need to re-wash, the less resting time you will need. be comfortably set on your back, and you butt slightly elevated. Squatting is possible, but far less comfortable by actually unconsciously contracting muscles you want to get relaxed. Squatting is for later in the journey or for rectum play once inserted, if after one or two minute, you feel like your ass is wanting to expel the toy (like more than a bit), just expel it and rest like an hour or two, respecting your body will allow it to start again, and progress far more effectively than raw forcing it. once in the sigmoid, you may feel discomfort a bit further past the junction, this is probably that the toy is pushing in a direction like if it wanted to rip your belly to exit, slightly press your hand on the belly to redirect it inward, toward the left For the last advice, I applied it today, once I had the Slink completely in, and felt the described discomfort, and as soon as I did press the hand as said, I felt like a pop, and a sudden relief. This is a valuable new input for my journey into depth. Please, if you have any valuable tips, i'm all for it [*]: for the anal beads, I tied a small cord to it in order to get it back, without having to pay a visit to doctors...