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What sucks is that I'm not even that old (I'm only 29), and I'm actually underweight (5'11" and 125lbs), so age and heaviness aren't the issue. I definitely think it's a matter of not working out enough - even though I am on my feet all day for work, and have to do some heavy lifting there (I'm a coffee roaster), I haven't developed much muscle tone. I guess that's a result of me being so skinny, which itself stems from having a naturally very fast metabolism. I eat a well balanced diet and use a fitness app to track calories to make sure I'm eating enough, so I think doing some weight training is probably the answer here. Thanks for the advice!

Hi! I often find that during stretching sessions, my body will start getting tired before my hole does. For example, my legs will start to get pretty worn out after squatting or bouncing on a toy for too long, or my arms will tire if I'm fisting or ramming something in and out of myself for an extended period of time. Does anybody else have this problem? I would like to improve my physical stamina to make play sessions last longer, so if anyone has recommendations for warmups, stretches or other exercises I would be grateful. Thanks!

I use dice like that for skill checks, but I wouldn't recommend inserting one in your ass. The sharp angles could cause damage, and any loose, unflared object like that could get stuck. Not a good combo. That being said if you had an XL Bad Dragon toy you could use that die to make a check (athletics maybe? consult with your dm.) to see if you can take it.

Yeah holy shit, that's absolutely massive.

I was 21 when I got my whole fist in.

Seconding this- especially if you have concerns about blood pressure you should absolutely make sure to have an experienced partner with you! Or at the very least someone who can help if things go south.

My fiance and I had a fairly similar experience, she found a bottle of lube I accidentally left out 4 years into our relationship. She was definitely less pissed once I explained what was really going on and that I wasn't like, cheating on her or anything, but she was still pretty mad I kept something from her for so long. We haven't really had a chance to actually play together at all since then (we moved in with my parents so I could finish my degree), but we're at least able to talk about it a little more. I'm still learning to be better about opening up that stuff, which is hard since I've kept it a secret for most of my life, but things are certainly improving and I am looking forward to moving back into our own place so we can have a little more freedom to play. This is sort of off-topic, but I'm curious about how your boyfriend's injury has impacted playtime. Do you have to be more careful to not overextend if he's already partially prolapsed?

Usually once I'm pretty stretched out and stuffed I have a hard time maintaining an erection. I love the feeling of being totally soft while fisting myself though, it's so intense in a way that I can't describe.

No actual time or date set, it was just an idea I wanted to toss out.

Think about it this way: If you talk to her about it, she will likely be pretty mad that you kept something like this from her for so many years, but it would certainly be better than if she caught you or found one of your toys or lube or whatever. Sure, you're taking a risk that she'd maybe be grossed out or not interested, but on the other hand, she might be willing to give it a try. And as far as her being bad at it goes, just be encouraging and try to get her into it. Hell, if you talk about how good it feels you she might even take some interest in trying anal herself. It might not be the dudes in your fantasy (ps maybe you should also have a conversation about being bi/at least bicurious with your wife, seems like something you shouldn't keep covered up), but it's at least an improvement.

Honestly, if you've been together for 10 years, she will be probably be more upset that you have kept something from her for so long than she would be offput by the fact that youre into fisting. Have you guys been having sex much/more than usual since the quarantine started? I mean, odds are she's going a little stir crazy too. Maybe start with stuff you both already do and work from there.

I didn't know that when I originally made that suggestion, but I have since heard about those security issues! Maybe there's a less vulnerable platform?

Lol holy shit, where do you even get a toy like that.

It doesn't look that unusual to me! What have you been doing to develop your prolapse?

Honestly, now that everybody is stuck in their houses, if we scheduled a zoom meeting and designated a leader to instruct everyone on what to do next (like in an online yoga class or something) this could actually work pretty easily! It would just be a matter of finding a time that works for the most people, which might be challenging since we're spread across multiple timezones.

So, so, how much have you talked about some of the other stuff in your original post? Like does she know you're bisexual and also kinda nonbinary/bigender? These are important things that are all related - if you're able to be honest about how you identify sexually (which should should be!) and you find someone who is amenable to that then having a conversation about ass play will definitely be easier. In any case, I think you should wait until after you at least have sex once, but too long after - that will be a great way to start a more in-depth conversation about your sexual interests. Too soon (especially as early as the first date) and you might just come off as a creep - Kinks aren't typically a first date topic in my experience. But shortly after you two actually start developing a sexual relationship seems like the right time to me.

If anybody has access to this one I would really appreciate it! https://thisvid.com/videos/prolapse-whore-bathtub-enema/

Popped into this board specifically looking to see if anyone had posted this girl yet. Thank you for identifying!

Do not do this!!!! Even a small crack in a glass can send you to the hospital. Filling up a glass jar like that with hot water will cause the glass to weaken, and the pressure caused by trying to insert it can cause it to break which would be an absolute disaster.

Well, semantics aside, I hope somebody figures out who she is and if there are more vids of her out there!

Vixenxmoon. One of my favorites. Her MV store is here: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001075493/VixenxMoon/Store/Videos/

That's Onixyaa Camgirl. She's retired now, but she used to also go by HotCelline.

Recently I've been fisting myself a lot more often, and I've noticed that my prolapse is starting to pop out a teeny bit after I fist myself hard for a while. So my goal is to just keep working on my prolapse until it's fully out!

Has anyone here developed a prolapse without a pump? I feel like it's possible but just takes a lot more time and effort.

Well, first off, sorry to hear about the breakup! But also congratulations on keeping the doggie. I love dogs. Though I do understand the challenge of finding some time to yourself when you have a dog, especially a puppy that wants lots of attention. Honestly, it's probably just going to take some time for him to get used to the new situation if you've only recently split up with your partner. Setting rules for space with a dog can be a long process - pick an area of the house that you think is going to be a good place for your dog to be comfortable with/somewhere they can be for a long period of time (this is also helpful with training them to be alone while you're at work or out with friends/dates/etc), and confine them to that area using either a door or maybe one of those portable baby gates. Start by leaving him there for short periods of time, like while you're in the shower, and then as the dog gets more accustomed to being by himself you can start extending that time. Crate training can help too, though not all dogs respond as well to the crate as others. Good luck, and welcome back!