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Same here, started with enemas, fingers, the usual and when I hit the internet in my teens found all the anal porn, stretching, fisting, enemas and from then I just kept on going and found rosebutts and prolapse. Basically I'd read or see something that'd make me randy and inspired to experiment, soon I'd be pounding my ass and stroakin' away. Time and size progress, money is acquired, toys bought, yada yada. Eventually I was stretched enough to fist my ass and go pretty big. I went with what felt good and enjoyably wrecked my hole in the process and every now and again the wife snaps on some gloves, slips on a strap-on and helps out. I do it because I'm a horny mofo and it feels fantastic!

Like DuckyShine, I second lube, lube is critical and will save you soreness early while playing. I like to use hydrogenated vegetable shortening i.e. Crisco personally but be aware it is oil based so can damage latex. Next is Bad Dragon Clear Cum Lube, super slick sorta syrupy. I also agree on not using nubing lubes or creams while stretching pain is a demarcation of imminent damage that should be heeded. Now after play I like to use a bit of Bag Balm or Preparation H if I'm a tad tender, the Bag Balm is like a skin ointment made of basically Vaseline and lanolin, either one works perfectly for that after play tenderness. Hope this helps.

Oh, that is a cool line up they have, balls with retrieval straps, veggies, wide neck plugs, not a huge line up but interesting. Some I am seriously considering, the set with the squash and courgette is seriously tempting. Thanks for sharing!

I plug, fuck, stretch and/or fist my ass almost daily and worst I have ever got was a bit of a tender ass, I have never had that happen. Sounds like maybe a panic attack? Not sure but, if it shook you up that much I'd talk to the doctor. Like I said worst I have ever had was some tenderness from a really long and/or rough session and a day or 2 break and some preparation H suppositories if needed right that. When in doubt see the doctor friend.

That is basically my technique as well, duckbill/cone shape to go deeper and warm up and a balled fist to ream the opening wider. On the not getting as deep with a balled fist that's pretty normal, just like the anus the inner sphincters gotta be gradually stretched open and there's the additional part that you are also training the bend to straiten so, it's gonna take time, patience and practice to get the balled fist deeper. So considering it sounds like you wanna do both, do that! In fact, as a suggestion, try insertion with cone hand and ball the hand on withdaw, feels awesome. Just remember the usual rules of engagement, plenty of lube and listen to your body.

Hmm, I do like the looks of it, may have to give it a go, it is a tad pricy though. Still a nice find to try.

So, that sounds like a less is more situation. It's a bit thinner than Vaseline, a bit like Preparation H in consistency so when I have used it for dry hands I use an amount about the size of a US quarter coin, and when used for after care I use about the same on 2 fingers inside and out. Also you want to work it in well and don't hesitate to wipe off the excess if it's a bit to much. I hope this helps you out with the issue.

Bit of both really, riding a fat dildo or my newest a TitanMen Intimidator, a depth and width challenge, is always good fun and I can self fist as well. I usually play solo but I don't mind when my wife gets involved either. She prefers to use (slightly) smaller toys, usually a dildo for pegging, and her fist, mostly she goes with fingers and fist because in her words "I can feel what's going on with fingers but toys not so much" I don't mind because she gets places with those fingers.

Eh, it depends really. If I'm solo I can go a full round limp just fullly focused on my ass or rock hard if I'm just going hog on my ass and want more stimulation. If my partner is involved it is almost always hard no matter what, I think this is because it is a massive turn on for me but, that's me so ymmv friends!

I hope you like it! I know I have, I use it after playing lately, just finger in a big ole glob and wipe up the excess. I also like to use it around my hole when I plug to keep things lubed and Moist. Let us lovely perverts know how you like it!

Depends on the enema and amount you use. If you use a douche bulb and plain water, you are pretty fine, even a bit deeper, if you don't use a large (like above a pint) volume you're likely ok, but do take breaks to let yourself regroup. Now if you like me, like high volume deep enemas or fun additives like soap (not detergent) or glycerin in your enema, no more than once a week and I go longer. Done to much, on high volume/additives, it can cause issues like colitis and laxative dependence. Tl;Dr Don't go deep or use high volume/additives to much and you'll be OK just give yourself a break sometimes.

Yeah, it's for sure an experience and it will make you swollen and drooly. If you were using bar soap, next time I'd suggest using the whole bar as a plug/dildo. Push the whole bar in and out basically fucking your hole with it. Doing this makes the sensations more intense and will suds up everything. I like to finger my hole after soaping it up, the irresistible urge to push let's me get up real deep, and feels so good to push against those fingers, your hole just sorta dilates open with all the pushing. Afterwards even if it was a short short soaping it feels like I've been absolutely wrecked. Swollen, open, drooly, and even a little sensitive. Personally I use plain Ivory bar soap, same as for soap suds enema solutions. It's just soap, no perfumes, detergents, moisturizer, just soap. You can get a pack of 3 bars for like $3-4 usd. If you don't have Ivory avaliable then any similar soap like like it is the way to go. Stuff like dish soap is detergent or has perfume and can make you sick. I do recommend a rinse out after playing soap just because it can have a bit of a laxative effect. I do add that this isn't something I do very often but it is fun when I do.

Yeah a bar of Ivory is occasionally a fun aside in my anal adventures, slides in real nice, almost lubricates the passage. I like the way it gets more intense until you just can't not push if you hold it in awhile. Working it in and out will also make it grow in intensity that way. I like the Ivory classic bars because they're soap and not detergent and don't have any perfumes or nasty stuff. I keep it around for soap suds enemas too and it works well there, every once I a while though, I just gotta cram the bar in. It's fairly cheap, about $4 for a 3 so not bad cost wise.

So, I have done the soap thing and it's. . .interesting. So I know of a few fun ways to do this, soap sticks or soap suppositories, a bar of soap and a soapy enema. My soaps of choice are Dr. Boener's castile soap for liquid and classic Ivory bars. Avoid any with detergents good avoiding perumes too. Depending on what you like is how to go here. I enjoy all 3 myself, soap sticks are really fun and also a great option to start a bm too. To make them you warm up a bar and slice it into pieces. Wet and smooth the edges and hold till you can't, also fun to move in and out. I also just like to shove the whole bar in there for the same effect. And that effect is a bit of a burn intensifying as you move it or hold it and a lasting urge to push and push hard. Now if I am in the mood I will use either one for enemas but prefer the castile soap. It makes you squeeky clean inside and you will have the burning and urge to push while expelling and for a good while after, the amount of soap in the enema will make it more or less intense, beware though more soap will cause more cramps. That is how I personally have done soap, either way I recommend a rinse after and as mentioned you will feel well used after.

So, for me it's in the combination of the lanolin and petrolatum used in the Bag Balm. The lanolin acts as a skin relaxant, and to a degree muscle relaxant, it tends to leave a mild warm sensation and combined with the petrolatum leaves everything soft, supple, and moisturized. The relaxing effect of the lanolin is a similar feeling to the clove oil used in Slam Dunk, if you've ever tried that particular creme lube, it's not super pronounced everything just feels less tensed and more stretchy, same for the lanolin.

Recently had my hemorhoids flare up after trying a new lube and decided to use an out of the box treatment, then I thought I would share my findings as it has turned out to be a multi-use item. So, a short bit of history on this subject. . . About 2 years back a bout with pneumonia and with it's associated caughing and the antibiotics to get that under control giving me a case of bad diarrhea, I developed a case of hemorrhoids, in short my asshole was not a pretty rosebutt but an absolute war zone. At that point I reached for the Preparation H and also did some mild stretching, and it helped greatly and they went away, all was well. Ever since certain things can make them act up, from a bad coughing fit, the pneumonia made my asthma worse, to much pushing on the toilet or while playing but, a new issue arose recently that I hadn't expected, some lubes brining on the rhoids. I found this out the hard way at one point with some generic lube from the pharmacy, best guess is either the glycerine or what ever preservative they used made stuff unhappy back there. Did the same as before, went away again and avoided that lube and was WAY more careful until recently but enough history. So lets fast forward a bit. . . I order some lube and grab a new one from our (mine and the wife's) usual, J Jelly. Why do I think it was the J Jelly? Well I have a feeling the glycerine and preservative in it caused some extra pushing and likely just iritated everything a bit, I also read similar things about iritation from others AFTER I used it. This all made the rhoids come back with FORCE! And my hole was also kinda chapped too. Which brings us to. . . Vermont Bag Balm! An awesome little green can. So, the Preparation H was working but, not as well as I had wanted and though they were starting to go away, they were still annoying and the usual wasn't having the longevity for the itch, it was time to think outside the box. Through some searching here I ran across some posts from some members talking about Bag Balm as a good way to help hemorrhoids and generally keep your rosebutt moisturized and happy and even as lube, the biggest proponent being Bigtoys420. They said they use it for all the above so I decided to give it a try myself and give a bit of a report back on my findings to all you fine folks. So here is my chronicle. . . First day of use was a pleasant suprise, the Bag Balm has the cosistancy of Vasaline and smells of lanolin, both of which I find nice traits. When spread on the outside it feels soft and supple and leaves a nice moist feeling but not greasey. A nice glob stuffed inside is a very nice feeling, slick but not oily or slimy, a it leaves your insides feeling soft like the outside, the lanolin leaves a pleasant warm sensation. So far the rhoids have become less swollen and no longer itch. My hole feels much better and not as raw. As a lube it presents the qualities of Vasoline, slick but has some drag to it, the lanolin seems to have a mild relaxing quality. Definately promising, longer lasting than the Prep H. No stretching beyond sloping in the Bag Balm. Second day of use, overnight was great, no mess, woke up with no issues, soreness itching, etc. Added a bit to the inside and out, same warm sensation, same moist and supple feel. Lasted the full work day without reaplication, no itching or soreness. Also used as lube for plug to stretch with a smaller than normal plug ( this is suposed to help also and has been helpful in the past), works well so far as that too and feels great. After plug and more of the Bag Balm swelling of the rhoids has gone down further, itching is longer an issue and my rose looks to be healed up and no longer chapped at all. Third day of use and well, this has worked better than Prep H ever has, woke up to a pleasantly moisturized rose with no itch and very minor swelling of the rhoids, added a small amount for good measure, inside and out. It has shown to thus far be both a great lubricant and hemorrhoid treatment and a great way tokeep my rose moist and happy. Later I plugged as before and used my fingers to do some stretching as well, swelling has continued to diminish, no ill effects, and my rose feels and looks very nice. This has also turned out to be a good lube that feels very nice in use as such. I feel like the Bag Balm has had a possitive over-all effect so far on my rose both inside and out. Fourth and fifth days of use, my rose feels great no chapped feeling, the hemorroids are no longer an issue, I can feel them with my fingers but, they are tiny and almost gone and there has been no more swelling, itch, or irritation. Didn't stretch either evening I let my hole be other than putting in the Bag Balm and making sure it's all healing up. My hole feels great, better than it has in a while, it relived the rhoids and even feels nice. I think this will become a new ritual, maintain my rose with some Bag Balm. So, as far as I am concerned the Bag Balm has been a great addition to the box of tricks, it makes good hemorrhoid cream and a great aftercare item for a well worked rose and also a good maintainance item to keep it all moisturized and supple inside and out. As a lube it has the properties of vaseline which is gonna be a personal prefeance, I like the feeling thicker cream lubes so I like it, it stays slick for a good while and the lanolin has a bit of a relaxing effect on the skin, it almost works in the way Slam Dunk does. All in all I'd say that it is something all anal stretchers should have in their arsenal, thanks to Bigtoys420 for the idea it worked great. PS Don't know if I posted this in the right place but if not please move it.

I find some Preparation H or other hemorrhoid treatment works great after playing, especially on those extra rough or long sessions, I prefer to use the suppositories myself. Also a nice hot shower or bath will help relax the body as a whole. That is usually all I need to help any lingering ache post play. That said pain is usually a warning sign that, you're going to big to fast, need more lube or both. I have done both, it will hurt and you may even bleed. Go slower and use heaps of lube on/in yourself and the toy/fist/cock. Same if with a partner, and remember you can NEVER use to much lube for anal!

I don't have any set in stone goals, mostly just do what seems fun and feels good mostly. My width is basically maxed at 3" diameter, with a bit before my narrow hips become the limit, best guess is 3.5" maybe and I can self fist. My rosebutt is basically what I want at this point, fat puffy lips with amazing sensitivity. Next up for solo is some depth play, I want a slink or similar toy to see how deep I can go. I'm an enema enthusiast so some of those hoses appeal for depth and enema play, but will take some work up to. My wife seems to be wanting to participate again, she pegs me, plugs me, and has fisted me. I'd like to try for her double fisting me and going for elbow deep, maybe some speculum play and inflatables. Also teach her to wield her strap-on with confidence, she's getting there she just needs a slightly shorter dildo for a bit. She did say she'd be down with interesting plug and dildo insertion. So, tl;Dr, width is almost maxed and my rosebutt is what I want so, depth and getting my partner more in on the fun with my hole, have her attempt double fisting and elbow depth. Nothing to grand. . .

I will say that for me, it depends. Generally there isn't much prep if I go solo, I play in the shower then as I'm already nude, I give a quick rinse and lube up. Some of the time I start before my shower with a rinse and plug wearing that's about it for planing. Now, if I'm playing with the wife, I like to be as close to squeaky clean as I can because any feces will kill the mood for her. In this case I wash out before with a deep enema a few hours before and a pre rinse about an hour before. I also do a round of warm up first, start with some pre lube and plug wearing for a few hours ahead, so she can do as she wishes to my ass.

Yeah, stooge hits a good point, a good set of plugs was a factor for me, the jump at 2.5-3" Dia was intense! It was also when I could finally take my fully doubled up fist. Graduated toys are a great addition. Position was a key for me as well, it's taken practice to get certain ones right to get inside my ass. More than body I'd take the leap and say wrist position is a key factor in getting it in. It is easier for the ladies to self fist, I wouldn't say it's impossible for a guy to go from the front though, I can. But I'd say build is a factor there, I have fairly long arms for starters and fairly flexible wrists, certainly a results may vary situation.

As often as I can, I give some rest and lighter play but, my fist and large toys are in there at every opertune moment. Hell I'm gonna go swap to my larger plug in a bit for that reason, I wanna punch fuck my hole in the shower! And this is in prep for my wife being horny to peg and stretch me next evening.

A few pointers to get ya going, it's good you have experience already so some of this may be redundant info but, here goes. 1) Use good lube! And use it LIBERALLY! I like either gel lubes like Astroglide Gel or cream lubes like Boy Butter or more recently Slam Dunk. Also in this sphere is gloves, I like them some times and other times I just go bare handed, really up to what you prefer. 2) Warm up, fingers, plugs, toys as the usual. A note on fingers, crop those nails close so you don't scrape up your inards. When using fingers as you add more make your fingers into a cone or duck bill shape. 3) Of course don't force it take your time with it, the knuckles are the hardest part but, once you get them in you'll want to give yourself a second to acclimate. Also pushing out like your moving your bowls on insertion will help relax your hole. Also it may not happen first try, my hands are kinda small for a guy, if you have larger hands it may take some time, unless you're hole is well used/trained. Keep working at it, you will soon. 4) Position was a key for me, my favorite solo position is the squat, gives me good access to everything and a good wrist angle. If my partner is up to violate me, I like being on my back so I can watch her. The Tl;Dr use good lube and a bunch of it, think about gloves but, ymmv, warm up and take your time, push out a bit to relax the hole, position is a factor. The only variables on how long it takes you to get it in is how well used your asshole is and how big you hand is. Have fun popping you hand in there, you'll be punch fucking yourself soon enough!

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As an enema lover as well as rosebutt enjoyer I can understand the frustration here. For me if I'm not going to deep I use an 8oz bulb syringe to clean out just the lower part, I don't hold more than a few minutes and repeat one more time. If I am going for a full flush and want it done quick I use a mild salt water solution with a couple of table spoons full of sea salt mixed with 2qts of plain water. This won't cause any unusual cramps but the salt will keep the colon from absorbing to much of the water and allows a full evacuation. So this is where I gotta ask a few questions on how you do your clean out, first thing is what is your procedure, how do you do your enema? Next is do you use any additives, soap glycerin, epsom salt, sea salt, what kind of soap? And also the volume, how big are your enemas? How many do you take? I hope this helps and for more conversation on this as enemas were sorta my gateway to anal play.