Significant other + anal activities POLL!

[bigdil]

I've had my share of girlfriends who have said "... and you want me to put my hand WHERE?!!!" It isn't easy being hetrosexual and enjoying anal play, as the next question is usually "...are you sure that you are not gay?"

At present I am a lucky, lucky man. I have a girlfriend (who I don't live with) who really enjoys anal play, both giving and recieving. Her "capacity" is smaller than mine, and she isn't interested in streaching hers, but gives me all she can give, which at times is almost more than I can take!

[ultradude]

Minx: It really sucks when there's such a disparity in a relationship, on any issue not just sex. Sex though tends to be, as they say, like oxygen - only important if you're not getting enough...

It is my firm belief that in a long term relationship, it is both people's duty to do whatever they can for the other person. Who wants to be in a relationship where neither care and go out of their way for each other, what's the point?

I think this extends to so many areas. I think it is everybody's responsibility to stay fit and healthy and care for their appearance, hygeine, financial situation and so on, not only for themselves but more especially for their partner..

Bigdil: In the early days of anal play with my girlfriend, she would ask me only half jokingly "Are you sure you're not gay?" LOL. She has given this up now since she's secure enough and realises that I only want to do it with her and have no interest in men.

[bigdil]

Ultradude: It was past girlfriends who asked such questions. My present girlfriend is a real pearl! As far as anal goes she has fantasised about HEAVY anal for 20 years before meeting me and finally being able to realise her fantasies. Edited August 23, 2007 by Bigdil