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Slavine, you are ultimately sexy! Your body is HOT and your hole... just wow. Please, please, please make more videos!!!! Looking very much forward to what you can get up to in the coming years!!!!!

A true inspiration for the children! Thanks muchly!

My girl would probably keep all my nasty stuff as a reminder of me, maybe one day play with them herself, missing me! If we both kicked the bucket, I don't know.... try not to think about it not that it would matter since I'd be gone hehe.

For me it used to be just whenever I felt like it - but I would limit myself to Friday, Saturday nights or days where I didn't have to go anywhere or go anywhere the day after.... just because I used to be even more afraid of losing control of my bowels after a good stuffing. Nowadays, I still mostly maintain the same rule, and I've decided it might be best to limit any anal activities to once a week at a maximum.

J-Lube is also slippery as hell but it washes off with water. If you insist on using a grease based stuff, you might have to resort to soaking the towels separately in a bucket with an equivalently large amount of detergent to break up the fat. You can get it out, it will just take a certain volume of chemical to break up the substance.

Holy fuggin crap lurv_it!!!!! Kids do dumb things and hurt themselves of course, but that's an insane story! I have nothing to compare to that, even though my mother was always taking me to the doctors/hospital for one thing or another I did to myself... I have good news to report though - copped a nice hard fisting last night from my chick, in fact basically "punch fucking" and no blood WHATSOEVER! No pain or anything like that, I think it's healed! THANK CRAP! I will still take it easy on the stretching etc from now on. Take heed!

So you guys just like to sit down on big objects because they feel good, with no real thought as to the huge anal capacity you'll eventually generate.... It isn't a factor of finding it sexy to be big, or to have big things inside you - you just merely are interested in the feeling of doing stretching etc? I guess I can relate. I kind of just do what feels good mainly. It is something of a turn on though, for some reason, that I can take big objects inside me, and it's especially nice to have my girlfriend inside me. We've talked many times about how if she were a freak with a massive clit or a dick or something, that she'd love to fuck me and I'd love her to fuck me.... but since this isn't the case, her hand will do perfectly good!!!

Minx: It really sucks when there's such a disparity in a relationship, on any issue not just sex. Sex though tends to be, as they say, like oxygen - only important if you're not getting enough... It is my firm belief that in a long term relationship, it is both people's duty to do whatever they can for the other person. Who wants to be in a relationship where neither care and go out of their way for each other, what's the point? I think this extends to so many areas. I think it is everybody's responsibility to stay fit and healthy and care for their appearance, hygeine, financial situation and so on, not only for themselves but more especially for their partner.. Bigdil: In the early days of anal play with my girlfriend, she would ask me only half jokingly "Are you sure you're not gay?" LOL. She has given this up now since she's secure enough and realises that I only want to do it with her and have no interest in men.

It is real and in my mind very very dangerous. Getting past the rectum is hard enough, I have only twiddled with a finger past it once or twice out of curiosity. There's no way in hell I would risk going further, just because this part of the body is so insensitive to pain, so if you puncture or tear something, you might not know until you withdraw and blood gushes out!!! Then it's a trip to the emergency room and surgery or a high chance of peritonitis and death. Scary stuff!

TG-anna.... completely tore it? How completely are we talking about - I mean what happened, how much blood was there? If you could post a pic that would be good for my own reference. Personally, my hole seems to look fairly normal again with no playing around. I haven't looked at it when it's gaping a bit and frankly I'm scared to, I'm afraid it will be obviously disfigured

Only one woman so far! No real patterns yet except that we're mostly guys as I noticed. Interestingly none who identify as gay.

There seems to be a trend emerging - your partner is either pretty much all for it or all against it! Who'da thunk it?!

OK it might sound a little silly for this board. Maybe the answers are or aren't so obvious... I'm curious. Many of the people on here are interested in making their ass or vagina huge - able to accept ridiculously big objects. I just want to know - what are your personal motivations for this? Is it a turn on to be able to fit big things in there? Do big things just feel good and better/different than regular size things? Is it somehow sexy to know you have a really big hole, can take any partner - even their hands etc? Is there some other reason or motivation? Some people (like me) take it pretty far and might injure themselves or lose control of their bodily functions to some extent. So why risk this for your reasons? Is it worth it to get really huge? For me, I am not even sure of my own motivations. I mean, larger objects feel nice, but I also can appreciate the use of merely a finger or three... so why aren't I happy with just them fingers? There must be some kind of psychological motivation for me. All I know is that many years ago, I found that the most erotic porn for me was to watch women take a fisting or sit on mega dildos and objects. I guess, someplace in my mind I may have been jealous and wanted to do the same thing that turned me on the most when they did it?? Eg - I wanted to join in on an activity that really turned me on even though I ended up using my ass like a pretend vagina.

I read a short "ebook" by some guy calling himself sexy stallion stud or something like that. He said that the best way was to ride down on the largest toy you can currently accomodate, then to squeeze it as hard as you can with your ass muscles. To hold this squeeze as long as you can, then when you are too tired to keep squeezing, relax completely and push down a little bit further. He says this is the best way to increase your anal capacity. I have tried doing this and it seems to be a pretty good way to accomodate big sizes because your ass gets too tired to resist, and you can push further with less resistence. I have also read that some people leave in a buttplug for extended periods of time, even sleeping with them in overnight, in order to increase size. Anybody else have their own stretching techniques or suggestions?

I am interested in the kinds of people that make up this forum. For example, I already see there are more males than females. What gender and orientation are we, and what kind of partner(s) do we have?? By "Committed" I mean that you have just the one partner only. By "Open" I mean that you both agreed to have more than one partner. By "Cheater" I mean somebody who goes outside a relationship to have other partners that their main partner doesn't know about. Please expand on your answer also!

Thankyou Rushy. I was planning to ban myself from toys and my own hands for a few months. The only thing I will engage in is my girlfriend's gentle little hand wrapped in a glove and well lubricated! I don't like my odds if I have actually caused a tear big enough to heal up with significant scar tissue. It might sign the end of my stretching days if it's going to reoccur and cause more problems

I am just wondering what other people's thoughts are on this. In most of our cultures, the ass is a dirty thing not to be touched. After all, that's where your shit comes out of and shit is unclean according to popular opinion, fear of disease/bacteria etc. There is also the (I think completely baseless) association between anal activities and the gay community. Then there is religious pressures and so on. Because of these reasons, I think that most people are brought up with built-in psychological barriers stopping them from even attempting to play with their ass. Especially heterosexual men. Then there is what I said in another thread very recently - that people who are adventurous enough to give it a go will often quit after the first time or two, becuase they didn't enjoy it that first time. When I first started I had no idea what I was doing. It was extremely small stuff, very tame. I didn't even go for the prostate massage or any kind of stretching. I would just put the blunt end of a pencil or whatever in. I didn't particularly physically enjoy the feelings of course, probably because they were so mild and non-descript, but it was in the back of my head somewhere that "some people enjoy this stuff, so maybe I can too once I know what to do...". So in a way I had to push past the initial neutral/negative experiences to learn how to make it feel good, which I eventually did. I guess there is a parrellel with other things. For example most girl's first experiences with sex aren't very positive. And for example, if you talk about japanese food many people will just say "That's raw fish isn't it? YUCK!" Without having tried it. I am just wondering - how many people try, and how many of those try once or twice then give it up because they didn't enjoy it initially? If in our culture, the negative associations were brought down and raw facts were left to think about rationally and in the open without stigma, how many more people would try and be into anal play? My thoughts are that a large majority of people would at least try it and most of these could learn to enjoy themselves. It's well accepted that the anus is linked with the genitals and has a secondary sexual association. I believe people should embrace this.

QUOTE(fulofist @ Aug 20 2007, 01:57 AM) [snapback]46514[/snapback] Once my wife would allow me to fuck her ass. Then it stoped (for years) and she was not interested. What can you say? People are strange! I know I would cop alot of flack for saying this, but people change their minds sometimes on a whim - women are especially fickle I find. QUOTE(fulofist @ Aug 20 2007, 01:57 AM) [snapback]46514[/snapback] I played with my ass a few times but it just didn't do it for me. I like to be the player not the playee. Because of psychological barriers etc, even those adventurous enough to give it a go usually will not enjoy it for the first few times. This is usually a mental thing and passes after time, some people take longer than others to open up and start to enjoy themselves. Just think - if every woman who tried vaginal intercourse a couple of times and then gave up "because they didn't like it".... how many unhappy people there would be!!! (and how many women loved getting fucked the first few times it happened? My guess/experience is that most find it uncomfortable, unenjoyable, even painful.)

I don't really understand the appeal, though I guess to each their own - there are alot of people out there who think that anal, stretching etc is weird and are not interested in it.

I see alot of people talking about their partners being down with letting them go off to find somebody else to satisfy their bum-lust. What is with this? Are they so turned off by it that they will delegate the task to somebody else? I find it a little bit odd that somebody would prefer to let their partner have other partners, than to just be involved in what their partner likes! Am I the odd one out?

Hey that is cool other people have had this experience. Hell of a lot of fun and stuff! There is a forum I learned everything from called the shroomery just search for it on google. There is one guy there I read that likes to take his shrooms anally in an enema!

Gershi - I understand exactly where you're coming from. You can't have everything and you can't be driven by one thing. Minx - I don't think I could handle the kind of open relatinoship you describe, personally. It's great it works for you, though. But does your husband know about all the things you like and want? is he just not interested or what? These results are a little weird. Maybe we just need more participants but it seems that there are two spikes - one where the partner knows a little bit about it but it's involved, and one where the partner is involved in it all.. So those people whose partners know a little but not the full extent, and maybe participate very little or not at all: please tell us more about your story! I am interested in the reasons why partners know and yet don't want to join in. Is it because it doesn't turn them on, do they think you're weird? what's the dealio?!

Woah! So many addicts LOL! Come to think of it, actually I am obsessive. Just not addictive. I get all tangled up with one topic for a few weeks/months, thsn drop it and move on to something else.... Some things are longer lasting than this, but I wouldn't say I'm addicted, eg I don't "Have to have it" with most things.

Thankyou for the suggestions everybody. It has been many weeks since I caused the injury, probably 2 months. I have only stretched something like 2x since then, both with a little bit of blood. The last time was like 2-3 weeks ago so maybe I will have a gentle go again soon and see if it's OK? I guess it's a lesson I will just need to be much more careful in future because it might be weak for a long time, especially if I keep opening it up Minx that would be greatly appreciated. I was going to ask a doctor myself but I'm a little embarrassed and it's not something causing me distress daily like haemorrhoids or something like that.

QUOTE(Minx @ Aug 14 2007, 10:08 PM) [snapback]45017[/snapback] I think this is just a general sex question, and sex is, as far as i'm concerned, innate. I've got a theory but it's a while since I aired it, goes something like 1) useless at sex, absolutely no idea and can't be taught 2) can be taught the moves but is robotic about it, is learnt procedure not felt 3) live sex. breathe it. Feel every move and every response and just KNOW. How is she with everything else? It might be she doesn't want to hurt you so you'll have to give her some direction. Is she usually pretty vocal abotu what she likes? Does she ask how it feels? Do you tell her how it feels and whats good or not? Sometimes even the professionals need a bit of guidance! Minx: she is generally a very caring and loving person. She just has a bit of a "blockage" when it comes to sex. Her libido is low and she doesn't really know what she wants or likes. She has no particularwants, desires, fetishes etc. Don't get me wrong, she loves a good fuck.... occasionally. She has asked me before what it feels like to plug or fist the ass and I've told her that it probably feels to me as much like I can imagine having a cunt would feel, that having the prostate pushed is probably pretty similar to what she feels getting her Gspot rubbed, etc. She is just not interested in her own ass. She just says she doesn't want to go there, that she knows she won't like it. I've said to her it's fair enough - she has a 'superior hole' right there, but to please let us try lots of things with it instead of just plain fucking!