Relaxation

[labiaman]

Hi All

Brand new here - and what a great site.

I have been 'experimenting' for a few years with a 2 year gap having burst a vein and required an intensive care (ER) emergency operation. However I am back into it now, but alot more careful!

I am up to 10.5 inches in circumference (alot easier to measure than diameter!) using bottles etc. My outer sphincter is great but my inner sphincter is tight and tries to reject insertions. Sometimes there is no problem and sometimes it wants to push out.

I am sure this is a psychological problem and (having had a nasty accident) my body is protecting itself.

Does anyone have any tips on relaxation techniques that I can use (my only knowledge is breathing in through my nose and out slowly through my mouth), or is there any safe substance I can use to relax my muscles? I am conscious I do not wanting to force the pace by anaesthetising my arse and run the risk of another accident.

Hoping for some advice!

Labiaman

[minx]

Hi...

No advice apart from to maybe heed your body's warning. Do you know how much scar tissue you have?

<I'll get my coat>

[Tangerine]

First, nice to see ya around Minx , hope you & family are fine nice advice BTW.

2nd, welcome here Labiaman, hope you'll have good time at RSBB and feed it, we're a bunch of real pervs like U
Being not much in anal practice on myself i just can say I use real amyl nitrite poppers with my Gf in our anal games and it seems to help a lot in dilatation play but don't harm Urself, keep it safe.
Any yoga-like relaxation based on breath control technic whould be helpful IMO. (^ ^)