is it possible for a man's ass to gape a like a woman's?

[baldybits1]

im a man and mine can gape ,i use 3.25dia straight off then ease 4.25 dia up,this gives me a nice gape

[Rosebutt]

I've tried it a thousand times before, I think hangbelly is right. Men's asses are just too tight to allow that kind of gape...

Speak for yourself. When I first discovered gaping years ago, I could gape my asshole til the cows came home- a nice big, 1.5"-2" gaper. However, over years of pounding my mancunt with my fist, plugs, pumps, dildos, fruit, etc, I can no longer gape, because I've caused permanent (but not harmful- I am VERY aware of my body and what it can do) changes to my hole. Instead of gaping, I prolapse now. I leave the gaping to my wife...