Update on injury/colonoscopy

[Manthatcan]

 

For those that did not read my previous post I had decent blood from being too rough with a toy in my sigmoid and pretty severe pain for the following weeks. Went to emergency room days after incident and CT scan showed colitis (inflamed large intestine/colon). Given antibiotics and scheduled colonoscopy.  I recently had the dreaded colonoscopy and the only thing he said was he removed a few polyps way into my transverse colon. Said nothing abt my recent pain. 

 Currently I’ve eased back into playing some and 8 out of 10 times when I start to go past my sigmoid bend I start getting that same pain again. I’ve been gentle too. It only lasts abt a day or so, but it’s very frustrating and hopeless feeling. I’ve even gone smaller diameter than what use to be my warm up toys a couple months ago and it still happens.  Sometimes some blood will come from the deeper area and sometimes not at all, but a solid day of pain most always comes.  A couple months ago I could easily start off slowly taking a silicone 3.5” toy 12” deep or so.  It’s like a pain/burning feeling an inch above and an inch to the right of my left hip bone. Sort of inline with my belly button but real close to where left hip bone sticks out.  

I have successfully just stretched width down low not deep with a topped toys gate keeper 140 several times and not had any pain that lasted.  

Deep down I do know that I need to take several weeks off and then see if anything has changed but playing with my ass is like an addiction and is hard for me to go 2-3 days much less a month.   

 Any advice, ideas, or support would be greatly appreciated.  

[imsnowman72]

If you do permanent damage, you won't be able to play at all. So, as hard as it is to not play, you should give it a rest. Good luck.

[ColonVoodoo]

If it's really an addiction like you say, you need something to substitute for it. Get into a netflix series, smoke some weed, watch porn, work out or run, listen to energetic music, dance to said music, there are many activities you can do instead. I reckon you can tell which activities are better or worse for ya - point is, it's easier to keep from your addiction if you allow yourself to get a dopamine hit from something else in the meantime. I know the feeling of being addicted to the anal play, but trust me, you're better off if you learn to handle yourself.

If you absolutely can't help yourself - maybe stay out of the sigmoid bend as it seems that is where you hurt yourself and that it needs to heal for a longer period of time.

Edit: You could also try a scare tactic and read some anal horror stories, I'm sure they're out there somewhere.

Edited August 29, 2022 by ColonVoodoo
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[Manthatcan]

I really appreciate the in depth response! 
I have been trying to put workouts in place of some of the play sessions to space them out which helps some I’m sure.  
True about staying out of sigmoid bend area.  I’ve played with shorter toys and even been up to wrist fisted/double fisted by the gf and it caused no ill lasting effects. 
haha!! That’s funny but not funny about the scare tactic deal!  I’m quite the worrier so of course I’ve read damn near all the stories about perforations, etc. Makes me feel really lucky, I would die of a heart attack worrying about how medical staff would talk about me.  Some of the perforation stories happen with very slender toys also? Not sure how it happens but still scary yes. 
 Again thanks, I guess since I’m having a weird injury/hospital visit/colonoscopy I just wanted to document it and let you guys in on how everything happened. 

[Darthvin]

Have you tried using a different lube. Perhaps coconut oil? Your insides could be irritating. I had an ultrasound after experiencing the exact pain you described. My doctor thought maybe gallstones (which can be passed through poop) I stopped playing deep for a few weeks and concentrated on wider short toys. To be honest everytime I play deep I still have discomfort in that area but nothing like the time it made me visit GP. 

[AzFrNick]

You may have an inguinal hernia.

[Manthatcan]

The only lube I’ve tried is Klube, FistLube, and Xlube.   I’ve used Xlube and Jlube for years without problems.  It just seems like whatever that firmer toy did to the sigmoid area on the fucking machine that day gets super agry really easy now.   I believe I’ve noticed that if I inject thicker mixed lube (which stays in after playing) it’s more painful.  I’m not 100% on that theory, but it does seem feasible that whatever is wrong doenst like some foreign body sticking on it all day.      I hate to pause from deep play bc man.. once I got to where I could take 3.5”+ deep it took the pleasure to another planet! Lol.   But I do agree my best bet is to just play shallow for several weeks with possibly a different lube. I used coconut oil years ago before discovering Jlube, I’ll give it a go again.   I can abstain from playing deep for about 3-4 days and it goes away so I think everything is ok and I try some 2” toys deep and bam there’s the couple days of pain.  
 I did think about a hernia for sure. I tested just using toys without pushing out hard and it still happened. So if it’s hernia related it has strange triggers ya know?  Also gas/stool directly causes pain and relief when passing the area.   Thanks for yalls thoughts and ideas, I really appreciate it. 

[TinyNutsTim]

On 8/29/2022 at 12:31 PM, ColonVoodoo said:

If it's really an addiction like you say, you need something to substitute for it. Get into a netflix series, smoke some weed, watch porn, work out or run, listen to energetic music, dance to said music, there are many activities you can do instead. I reckon you can tell which activities are better or worse for ya - point is, it's easier to keep from your addiction if you allow yourself to get a dopamine hit from something else in the meantime. I know the feeling of being addicted to the anal play, but trust me, you're better off if you learn to handle yourself.

If you absolutely can't help yourself - maybe stay out of the sigmoid bend as it seems that is where you hurt yourself and that it needs to heal for a longer period of time.

Edit: You could also try a scare tactic and read some anal horror stories, I'm sure they're out there somewhere.

Or, explore other extreme sex activities, solo or with a partner while your ass-cunt rests. For example, I would stretch several times in an evening and then band my balls several times for an hour over a few days to get them to permanently atrophy. They would need "rest" and I would stretch then. Other things would be cock banding, ball stretching, ball skewering or even stirring if you want them to shrink faster than with banding. Our bodies are a lot of fun, explore.

[Jarred]

This is one of the two reasons I don't do depth play, I find it too much of a risk. The other reason is that I always feel a discomfort when I do go deep. 

For me it's all about going as wide as possible.