Is it necessary to be in pain to get a huge, loose hole?

[Wr876]

I like a bit of pain but it easily gets too much to be pleasureable. I put myself through it because I've thought it's necessary to get bigger though. But is it really?

[Diamondthicc1]

Well depends... sometimes what we may presume pain it just natural way of your body reacting to something huge going inside, but once you find the ability to relax it takes less the pain into pleasure.

[chrisunknown]

I'm using poppers for relaxing effect, declofenac for pain and relax, and lidocain for pain.. Works really great, i have progessed from 9-10 diameter to 12-13 over the last couple of years.

[cuckmouse]

Wow. Don't listen to that last guy. Them things will take u down a short dark road. This lifestyle is a long term thing. Don't cut corners.

[087john]

Yeah I agree with the above, chemicals are not necessary to get a stretched hole. 

One thing that I found made a big difference is getting soft silicone toys, they compress a bit and give you a bit of a buffer when first inserted, but once your ass is accustomed to it they spring back close to their full diameter. 

[Wr876]

23 minutes ago, 087john said:

Yeah I agree with the above, chemicals are not necessary to get a stretched hole. 

One thing that I found made a big difference is getting soft silicone toys, they compress a bit and give you a bit of a buffer when first inserted, but once your ass is accustomed to it they spring back close to their full diameter. 

I stay away from chemicals, but good to know nontheless.

Soft toys sounds great, can imagine they help take the edge off the discomfort.

My bones let me fit max 3.2 inch/8.1 cm. Can anyone say whether I could fit either medium firm or 75% large Boss Hogg dildo which is 3.75 inch/9.5 cm in width?

Edited April 22, 2021 by Wr876

[Rosebutt]

There should be no acute pain. This is about pleasure. Take it slow and easy. Like my boy Cuckmouse says, this is a long term thing. It’s the journey, not the destination.

[natricuzc]

No, it's not.

I've never be in pain, from 14 when I began to assplay with one finger, and it feels so good so I put two, and the neck of small bottles, then three fingers ; all of that are in the physiological range of the anus ability.

I think I began to really dilate at 15 when I noticed that a small increase of the girth gives me a strange feeling of mild burning whitch was wonderful . So at each session, by researching this feeling, I noticed that it needed to increase a little bit more the girth of the object, by pushing the bottle a little further, or adding a finger, so four were needful, then five…

I had no goal, and no idea of what was feasible in this area because it was in the mid sixties (no porn at all), but only by researching this wonderful feeling of stretch, I gave me my first self-fist just before turning 16. Just the hand in a beak of a duck shape in and immediately out ; I was a little scared by what had happened, and thunderstruck by the fact that was without any pain. But it was sooooo good.

So I do it again the next day and the day after and so on, until it was not enough, so biger bottles, and my closed fist, first slowly, then punching…

I'm 73 now, have had many times (but not enough) two woman fists in my ass (I'm straight) and my 10,5 cm diameter plug but I failed to take a bigger one I have whitch is 11,5 cm diameter (because my bones ?) and i can't try no more because with age, the anus have lost his elasticity and, after a session, he starts to look like the one you can see in a vidéo I love, on a site whitch name has 4 lettres including 3 x, name of the video : enormes_grosses_et_gigantesques_chattes_anales ; have a look at 8 mn 30 => 8 mn 45

Take your time, don't rush and you will have a big sloppy hole, without any pain

[FistBi]

On 23/4/2021 at 0:22, Rosebutt said:

No debe haber dolor agudo. Se trata de placer. Tómalo con calma. Como dice mi chico Cuckmouse, esto es algo a largo plazo. Es el viaje, no el destino.

+1

 

 

[TinyNutsTim]

On 4/22/2021 at 11:33 AM, Wr876 said:

I like a bit of pain but it easily gets too much to be pleasureable. I put myself through it because I've thought it's necessary to get bigger though. But is it really?

Absolutely not. I am not into pain, it's just too distracting for me. A simple formula for anal or pussy stretching. Stretch until you are just uncomfortable and hold it until the discomfort eases off. Then, stretch farther to the same discomfort. Finally the discomfort will stay and just hold at that stage for as long as you can. Take out the toy and let your hole rest, but don't squeeze it shut even though you will be tempted. Do it all over again about two or three more times. Each time you will stretch just a little farther. Rest a few days and do another set of stretches, you will be fisting size before you know it.

Edited May 15, 2021 by TinyNutsTim

[colorectus]

On 4/22/2021 at 11:33 AM, Wr876 said:

I like a bit of pain but it easily gets too much to be pleasureable. I put myself through it because I've thought it's necessary to get bigger though. But is it really?

Like Rosebutt said, there should be no acute pain.

I've been stretching for close to 5 years now, and I started from a little vibrator dildo to buying the LW Tip XXXL. Here are the tips I've picked up to avoid pain.

• Use more lube than you think you need.
• Use more lube than you think you need. This is important enough to state twice.
• Taper is important. I find that I need a narrow(ish) tip to open things up. For an example of bad taper...early on I tried the American Bombshell Shockwave, and I couldn't fit that thing no matter how I tried. (It's discontinued now, which may mean I'm far from the only one to have problems.)
• Firmness matters. When I started, I used anything I could find that had a decent shape. But if you're intent on going bigger, you need to pay attention to what your body can support. Here is my gauge, based on experience (and pain experienced):
  • < 2-inch diameter: Anything that's pthalate free. (This is a given, I won't state it again.)
  • < 3-inch diameter: Anything that isn't hard silicone. I gave myself a hemorrhoid with a hard silicone buttplug. That was a month of pain I could have avoided.
  • 3-4-inch diameter: PVC was too firm for me by the time I got to this point, so my toys in this range are all medium-firm (mrhankeys) or medium (Bad-Dragon).
  • > 4-inch diameter: Use your best judgment. My Boss Hogg XXXL is medium-firm, but the LW Tip XXXL I bought hurt me with medium-firm, so I'm looking to re-buy in 75% soft after the Prince Charming XXXL worked out at that firmness.
• Work on length as well as width. I focused on width for most of the time I've been stretching, and now I'm at the point where most of the toys at the width I want are longer than I've been training on. So don't ignore length, or you'll get to the point I'm at, where I'm having to go back and re-train for length.

This method has been mostly acute-pain-free, and I called out where I had problems. Hopefully this helps.

[imsnowman72]

Nice reply, colorectus

[Wr876]

On 6/1/2021 at 3:48 PM, colorectus said:

 

Thank you for the very informative reply!!

Seeing that you have some experience with soft toys, is it possible to fit a toy that is 1 - 1.5 cm wider than your bone structure if it is soft? (75% softness)