Hello! Looking for advice to progress further and remain stretched

[Guest Lettuce]

Hi all! I’ve been dropping in and out of this site for porn for years(I have no idea how I decided upon my username) but finally feel like I want to get serious about trying some real size and figured where else would be better than here to find advice! 

Im 25 and I’ve been on and off fisting myself for about 10 year now, I use a lot of dildos and plugs and also enjoy enema and depth play, but more than anything I want to be completely stretched out and loose, ideally enough for triple fisting and toys is in the 4-5 inch diameter range.

I think more than anything I fantasise about the next guy I’m with struggling to cum because I’m so loose, but sadly this hasn’t occurred yet  so I guess my first question for the board is what is the best way to achieve looseness that doesn’t tighten up again a few days after a session? I can stay loose so long as I’m practicing very regularly but if for whatever reason I’m not able to for a while, I tighten up and have to start again which is extremely frustrating when I just want to be a stretched out mess all the time. 

Also nice to meet you all  I’m looking forward to getting to know some folks who actually share my fetish, unfortunately I don’t know anyone else who does so maybe I’ll make a few friends while I’m here! 

[cuckmouse]

Find the loonies lube possible. Key to your goal. Be patient and enjoy the subtle stages of stretching. I'm sure Veterans beyond me have more advice. Just enjoy the journey

[TinyNutsTim]

You can take a fist and you are not loose? I guess my wife will be happy to know I'm not loose yet either. You ought to consider the problems than can come with being so sloppy loose you don't have to warm up before something like fisting or big penetrations. Spending the next 50 or 60 years with Depends on your ass will not be fun. But, it's your ass-cunt, I can't tell you what to do with it.

[mwm831]

I can take a fist without warmup and I have no problems other than my assmeat doesn't hang out yet

[Guest Lettuce]

I understand the concern when it comes to the health implication, but to be honest the bigger my hole gets, the more ‘right’ it feels and I genuinely consider the risk worth it - and it’s not about losing control, I just want it to be as obviously big as possible without shrinking again after a couple days if I don’t have chance to stretch properly.

 

could sleeping with a large dildo in possibly help? I’m trying to figure out a way to hold one in atm as I feel like it’d be more effective for actual stretching than wearing a buttplug, considering how skinny the necks on most plugs are

[TinyNutsTim]

That's easy. Cut a slot in your toy in the front and the back. Put a comfortable belt around your waist and run a short cotton rope from the back, through the two slots you cut in the toy, up your crotch and tie it on the front. Or like this for something really different. I would not suggest it for all night, but it helps get me horny sometimes.

[Guest Halloichbins]

I also do stretching regularly, I'm almost able to fit around 4 inches in diameter. But the problem with becoming less loose when i don't stretch for a longer period of time stays. I think you can't do anything about it unless you completely ruin your asshole beyond repair. 

[natricuzc]

Not my case : I play about once a week with a big plug and made a very few progress for may be a year or two. But recently, I could not play for more than a month. So the first session after not playing, I wos not expecting to loosen me at my maximum level. And, surprise, I had never be so close to entirely take my plug which is 4,5 inch diameter ! I can't undestand nor explain what happened but  It was a huge feeling and I was very happy of this accomplishment, and to contemplate the big gape and the pending lips of my ruined ass. So now, I think one day or another I could realy take it, that, before, I thought was impossible. Have to work with my tailbone…

And the next day, no problem with the function of my anus nor pain… I was very comfortable.

[FistingGap]

On 9/9/2019 at 4:20 AM, natricuzc said:

Not my case : I play about once a week with a big plug and made a very few progress for may be a year or two. But recently, I could not play for more than a month. So the first session after not playing, I wos not expecting to loosen me at my maximum level. And, surprise, I had never be so close to entirely take my plug which is 4,5 inch diameter ! I can't undestand nor explain what happened but  It was a huge feeling and I was very happy of this accomplishment, and to contemplate the big gape and the pending lips of my ruined ass. So now, I think one day or another I could realy take it, that, before, I thought was impossible. Have to work with my tailbone…

And the next day, no problem with the function of my anus nor pain… I was very comfortable.

How did you work with your tailbone. I have the Ass Servant that i have no problem but i think with the Ass Master i have to work wit my tailbone too

[natricuzc]

I didn't yet have to work my tailbone. It was not necessary for stretching me at the point I'm now (Oh, God, it's so good…) But there is a joint between the sacrum and the tailbone which is a little mobile (check it, you will see), so I think with efforts (and may be a little pain), sitting on my plug with all my weight during longer and harder sessions, but carefully, no more than once a week to let my anus recover, I can (I hope) increase the mobility of this joint that allow the plug to enter completely.

As for the Ass Master, I do not have but an Humongous Butt Plug (Very similar) I did not  play with for years, and which is even a little bigger than my 4,5 silcone plug, so I had never expected to take it ; but you give me an idea… If someday I can master my 4,5, I will  try  the Humongous

[Guest Lettuce]

An update: a couple of weeks ago a got one of those Meo "24/7 anal stretching ring" things(essentially the same as all the other aluminium tunnel plugs), I cant remember if it was the L or the XL but the outside diameter is 2.7".

I've been wearing it overnight on and off and it's helped a lot, especially since now I don't need as much warmup for my larger toys so I use them much more too. All in all I feel much looser and have been enjoying a 'heavy' kind of feeling pushing on my butthole when im not plugged; could this mean I'm due a prolapse soon if i keep at it?

[Nlight]

Sorry it won't answer your question, but if you'e talking about the round metal plugs with a hole in them, well I faced a slight problem : the metal flange was bruising my ass cheeks when wearing it regularly overnight. It is like the Chinese torture of the water drop on the head, the repetition will make it unbearable. I would advice to not go so often with these and replacing it with a comfortable plug to give your cheeks the time to heal.

Now about your question, yup, your body pushing very often will make you prolapse. As for the "soon", depends of your body.

[Guest Lettuce]

Thanks for the heads up, I might look into getting something similar in a nice silicone or something. 

And about the prolapse I will have to keep working at it then; I’ve definitely been making fast progress with it recently but it seems like getting it to actually protrude is another step entirely.