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Sometimes when having sex with women I have difficulties to cum, could take me a long time or even not be able to ejaculate at all. I wish I had a large buttplug up there but my current partner has no idea and I'd like to keep this hidden from her, something to press my prostate and stretch me from inside while I fuck her would be amazing but I don't want her to notice. I tried inserting some rubber balls in my butt but I can't find the sweet spot. If the ball is too small it doesn't make any difference and I can't feel any pressure during sex. If the ball is too large it becomes "too much" of an inconvenience to have it inside for perhaps hours before I get to the sex part. I was thinking perhaps a dildo then, do you guys have ideas or have been in a similar situation?

What is the name/manufacturer of this dildo? Used by Adriana Chechik, found on the video called 20-01-26 dm Part 3 Anal stuffing galore. I love to put things in tight assholes and ge(..) 1920x1080

Thanks for the advice, but I never did poppers. I want to always be able to stretch without it

I actually can, let me try to explain: If I sit straight on my largest egg shaped buttplug, it won't go in because of my tailbone. The way I found to overcome it is to use the insertion angles to push the tailbone out of the way instead of trying to bend it. What works best for me is to first put the plug slightly tilted forward (inclinated towards my perineum/balls). Once it's in place I force myself down a little while tilting the buttplug towards my back (tailbone). If I get this right (lube!) I can feel my tailbone being moved aside just enough that the buttplug can go through, and then I can proceed to getting it all in.

I'm at about 3.25in or 8cm and when I put my largest buttplug in I have to "move" my tailbone out of the way which feels weird and sometimes quite painful. Once it's out of the way (I don't always manage it) then the 8cm buttplug can go in.

Does this make sense to you? Read below: It's easier to stretch if I'm horny, and I get hornier when I can get a proper wank with my cock hard. During intercourse or a normal wank watching porn, I can maintain a good erection. However, when I start playing with larger toys I find it increasingly difficult to keep hard, my largest toys will totally kill my erection and wanking with a soft cock isn't nearly as good, and I can't feed my "horniness". Today I had the idea to pop a viagra before play and had an amazing double orgasm while being stretched by my largest toy (Taintacle LG/XL). I'm aiming to hilt it like siswet does, and today I got another inch in (only about 2 more inches left). I was getting it deeper very slowly and have a feeling that the erection helped me out on this, but at one point I pushed it too far and ejaculated - twice! I have a feeling the viagra helped a lot - does anyone else here do it too? what is your experience?

UPDATE It's been over two years now since I was at my most chronic anal bleeding. Today I played deep, hard and fast using very large toys and I'm proud to say there wasn't a single drop of blood. The toys felt amazing and I was very happy when I manged to have a whole session without blood. If I tried anywhere near today's level of play two years ago, there would be red vivid blood in very concerning amounts. I can't really say what it was, it could be one of the items below or a combination of them (or none): 1- I stopped eating super spicy stuff, especially hot habanero sauces 2- I used to do lots mint tablets and chewing bum throughout the day, I stopped all those 3- I started to avoid chocolate 4- I got myself a very soft long anal plug (similar to Slink) to widen me up softly in the deeper parts 5- I take charcoal tablets before play. I'm not sure they help though.

That's one of my life mistakes, I married a woman who doesn't know about my stretching and would be absolutely disgusted if she did. I had one girlfriend long ago who liked to fuck me with a dildo. However, that wasn't really my thing as I liked larger things, she never liked to put anything else than the dildo in. I hope to one day find a secretive regular lady for fisting/stretching me. The play part is easy and can be sorted with money, but the secretive is the problem as the ladies talk a lot in my country and I live in a small town.

Forgive me for going a little bit off topic here. But how to NOT get these fat purple anal lips? I did gradually get them over 2 decades and I believe they are permanent. Wasn't really my goal, I would choose not to have them if I could. How come some women like Siswet can take larger and deeper toys than me all day without having the fat purple lips?

I bought those two plugs (not the cock) from aliexpress, both on their largest versions. They are VERY good for the price, very flexible and the material is soft and smooth. Doesn't feel cheap like some other toys I bought. You need some experience with deep things to go that deep, but that long toy from Aliexpress mentioned above has 60cm (insertable) and I managed it on the first try. I believe it's comparable in size to the Slink LG. To me the XL seems doable and believe the 2XL would be too large to get all in.

Thanks for the reply bigtoys420. I have passed my second ring and deeper multiple times, but only with thin and flexible toys like a double dildo not much more than 1 inch in diameter. Anything thicker than a regular sized cock and not super flexible is a problem for me when venturing that deep. I'll work on that struggle and brain connection you mentioned. Will use the largest toy I can get past there and will try a session of poking/penetrating the second sphincter.

I recently got a Mr. Hankey's Taintacle (the middle sized one), I assume same size as I saw in a Siswet19 video. Despite not being the largest size it's considerably thick in the top, I'd say it's the equivalent of taking an elbow deep fisting from a woman. I'm determined to get it all in, but I'm not quite there yet, I can take around 70% of it, just missing that last knot part. However, the problem is not the knot, it's getting that thick tip so deep, I get pain and had a little bit of blood when attempted so I decided not to push it for now. How can I stretch the 2nd sphincter and beyond? I ordered another 2 very long buttplugs (Slink style) that are not as thick. Do I just sit on them for some time every day? Or is it better if keep moving them? Any suggestions would be appreciated.

I'm between 7.5 and 8 on my own chart, depending on the day. I'm surprised to see a 9 on my scale is only a 6-6.5 on yours, what would be a 8-9-10 on your scale?

What is your anal mastery level? Here are the levels of anal mastery in my concept: Level 0 - no anal at all, can't even allow a finger inside Level 1 - Can take slowly one finger at a time, nothing too deep or fast. Can take a very small cock just the head in and for a short time. Level 2 - Can take a regular sized cock slowly, 2 or 3 fingers and small sex toys. Intercourse becomes viable. Level 3 - Is quite comfortable with a regular sized cock and can above average size (with difficulty), can take small buttplugs. Level 4 - Can take a large human cock, some medium sized buttplugs and can have 4-5 thin fingers in (but no fisting) Level 5 - Can take a small lady fist, large cocks are no problem and large dildos are ok as well. Level 6 - Can take a medium lady fist, some L sized buttplugs and long double dildos all the way in. Level 7 - Can take a small man fist, XL buttplugs, multiple dildos at once and can could take a DP from 2 large cocks. Level 8 - Takes a regular sized man fist, could take a double fisting from small lady hands, XXL buttplugs. May or may not have a good prolapse depending on how the rectum is built. EG: Roxyraye, Raisawetsx. Level 9 - Can take a double fisting from a man, pretty much any buttplug in the market and might take elbow deep fisting from a lady. EG: Hotkinkyjo, Siswet19, Dirtygardengirl, Maria Caldas. Level 10 - Grandmastery. Some crazy achievements such as shoulder deep fisting, calf deep footing and take incredible sized toys (like the Walrus) to the hilt. No known woman as far as I know has reached this level, only men such as Kirk Johnson and a few others from obscure anonymous videos.

Is it just me or when the toys are above a certain size it gets increasingly difficult to get an erection? I like wanking while large toys are in me, but I find that the larger the toy, the higher the chance I'll lose my erection and I end up wanking with a soft dick. I can have strong erections while waking without a toy or even with a small buttplug, but if I go for the really large stuff the boner is gone (I still enjoy the experience though)

I sometimes have a enema issue, I want to get clean for some anal play but in some occasions it just takes forever (40+ minutes) with dozens of cycles and I keep outputting an endless amount of brown/yellowish water with some shit fragments. The main problem is that my colon gets irritated after a certain number of enemas to the point that sometimes I have to give up. If it's too irritated from cleaning then the play isn't really pleasurable and it gets tight and painful to put things in. But on the other hand, sometimes it seems my colon is almost totally clean even before I do the enema. I put water in an out 2-3 times and it comes out clear without any issues. When this happens I'm in for a good time, lots of play, no irritation and can go deep and wide. That's what I would like every time. I've already tried different diets and they don't seem to influence, looks like its a luck thing. What is your experience on the matter?

I did consider but if I have those they're deep inside (15-20cm inside) and I already asked the doctor if everything was ok during my colonoscopy. Doctor said nothing wrong in that area except from a polyp that was small and got removed. I just finished some intense play, I managed to go quite deep and hard with a fat dildo, plus achieved a new league with a xxl buttplug. I bought it a month ago and tried 4 times without success, and today I finally managed to get it in. There was no blood at all, very nice to see it coming out clean. The feeling was absurd, possibly the most intense I ever felt. For the first time I squirted (or pissed). As soon as that plug came out my cock projected some liquid involuntarily. After that plug I really believe I can take a double fisting from a female, gotta try it next time I get the chance. I also feel I "moved up" a league today. I normally not feel anything even after a hard play, but today I do still feel "stretched" after play is finished. I have a feeling that I have a "weak spot" deep in there and if I go too harsh I can make it bleed again, for example if I try a deep fisting I think there is a good chance I'll bleed again. I do have hope though, this dildo I got in before the plug made me bleed several times before and today it was totally ok.

I've recently bought a dildo that causes me to produce a white foam when I fuck myself with it. It's only 8" and not thick, quite realistic actually. It's very strange because only this dildo makes that happen, it doesn't happen if I use giant dildos, long dildos, hands, buttplugs, beads etc. Today I had a clean (had enema before, I always do) session with buttplugs and other toys, and had absolutely no foam. But as soon as I start fucking myself with that dildo (feels quite good) then I produce a lot of this white foam. It doesn't stink, helps lubrication and I kinda like it, but it's weird. At first I thought it could be some infection from dirty toys (I don't get fucked by guys), but I have absolutely no other symptoms that should accompany it (fever, mucus in stool etc). I only see this foam when playing and only when using this specific dildo. Any ideas what could it be?

UPDATE I believe my problem is finally fixed. Today I bought a large two-stage anal plug which would certainly make me bleed a lot even if I tried halfway. (if I tried months ago). Today I managed to play with it and a large dildo for some good 40 minutes, deep and hard. Once I got this plug all in it was amazing and I felt so full I came almost instantly. I was definitely expecting some blood, but to my pleasant surprised there was nothing! No blood from inside, no sharp pain from fissure, nothing! I am back in the large insertion zone after around 3 YEARS of being careful and bleeding anyway. Now here are the things that possibly fixed me: 1- Antibiotic treatment for H. Pylori bacteria - I am NOT sure of this, but I took a 2 week course of antibiotics and it drastically reduced the bleeding. I did an exam for H. Pylori infection last month and it came out negative, so I'll never really know if I actually had it because I assumed so and self-medicated. 2- Cutting out gluten - this is another unverified change that I believe could have helped my problem. Gluten has always been a big part of my diet - white breads, pasta, pizza, snacks. But in the past year or so I was constantly having bowel irritation, trapped gas and loose stools. This is why I did some exams including the H. Pylori one. The doctor found nothing wrong and said it could be some food allergy, which I am still doing some trial and error evaluation but it points out to gluten. The irritated bowels could be a possible reason why I bled so easily. If I make any more discoveries I'll post more updates.

UPDATE after a long period of inactivity of this site: After lots of trial and error, my issue is almost sorted. If I play now I get a little bit of blood on the first insertions if they're too deep or wide, but after a few minutes the blood stops and then I can play normally. It's weird and I have no idea why the blood suddenly stops like that, but at least I can enjoy some nice large toy sessions without worrying so much. One thing that could maybe have helped was the fact that I took a full self administered course of antibiotics to help me with that I believe it was a case of H. Pylori, a bacteria that is very common and harmless, but in some people can cause bad breath (I had a bit), stomach ulcers (I had that) and apparently makes the colon tissue more sensitive/fragile.

UPDATE I've started pluggedin's recommendation of sticking a raw garlic clove up my rectum. The first day I did it there was a slight (but tolerable) burning sensation and I had the need to expel it around 4h later. I gave it a day break and tried again now. There was an unexpected surprise: for the first time in years, my finger did not come out smelly from my butt. I always do a quick enema before any play (even before the garlic) and despite my effort to be clean there is always that strong butt smell on my fingers on the first insertion - after a few minutes of play it goes away. However, when inserting the second garlic a few minutes ago the finger had nothing but lube smell. I am not sure this was because of the garlic but it would be too much of a coincidence, I'm very happy that the smell was gone. I will do this about 2 times more until I complete the week and then will try some play. Next time I will have to try to insert it deeper - so far I only used my fingers which can put the garlic about 10-12cm deep. Btw, there was no pain whatsoever when inserting the second garlic clove today, so at least it means that my rectum is not burned. Looking forward to see the results from this.

Thanks for your reply. I really doubt I have HPV in that area. Despite my experience no real penis has ever been there, only toys, food and very few (3-4) female hands (and my own hand). The doctor didn't see anything wrong there also during the colonoscopy. I was a bit afraid of the garlic when I read your message, but I googled it and actually there are sources saying this is a good method, I'll give it a try, thanks!

UPDATE Ok, I gave it time to heal, did lots of exams, the doctor said nothing wrong with my rectum. I saw the colonoscopy myself (was awake) and my bowels were quite perfect apart from the small polyp that was removed. My blood exams for liver issues were also clear. Today I gave it a go with some medium sized soft sausages. And it bled. I can't believe it, I was quite gentle and still had blood came out. I used to do a lot more 4-5 years ago, with larger stuff, deeper and harder without a single drop of blood. I think I will give up anal play. At least I like fucking women too, otherwise my sex life would be ruined. Some people don't mind the blood but I do, it's messy and I get concerned and can't relax properly. If anyone has an idea to help me out, please speak. I really want to be able to do it again.

UPDATE I finally managed to get my health insurance in order and approved a colonoscopy, as it would be a relief to finally get to a verdict about my bleeding colon. Unfortunately (and also good) nothing really abnormal was found - no fissures, no bacteria, no wounds. There was a very small polyp only which the doctor removed and said it's quite common and not a big concern. I asked him if that polyp could potentially bleed and he said no, but I didn't mention I would do some large anal play. The polyp was about 15cm deep which is definitely play area, so I am really hoping that the removal of this polyp will stop the bleeding during anal play, but I'm not too convinced. Has anyone here had a similar experience? I will give it about 10 days before a new play attempt.

Thanks for sharing your experience, I am now just waiting for the grace period from my health insurance (another 2 months) then I will visit a proctologist and probably do a colonoscopy. UPDATE I've now narrowed down my anal issues. Here is what I've learned on the past days - I can now go very big (wide) on anal play without issues. However, I must keep myself limited to around 3 inches deep if I want to avoid blood. I got an inflatable anal plug that is working quite well. My external fissure is pretty much gone, I noticed it's better to not wash my ass after play, just wipe it with an antibacterial wet tissue and then dry toilet paper. No cut, no pain. - There is ALWAYS blood (painless) when I get past certain point in depth. I bought a very soft tongue shaped buttplug that could never hurt anyone, however I managed to bleed when going around 4-5 inches or deeper. - I also purchased an endoscope, so I could have a glance of what's happening in there. I managed to spread myself in a way to get a good image, however the endoscope doesn't focus very well when it's touching a wall. But at some point I saw what could be the issue: there are some red things on my colon, that look similar to acne/pimples. There are not too many and they're spread out, I'm pretty sure that they're connected to the bleeding. I just got tested for a lot of STD's (HIV, Chlamydia, Gono, HepB, Syphilis, a few types of fungus) and I'm clear from all those. I fear I might have some colon inflammation such as Chron's disease or ulcerative colitis. This is definitely a concern for a doctor visit as soon as I can get my hands on the health insurance. Will keep it updated.