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I can do it sometimes but find it quite difficult. I did however find a good alternative: a metal hollow buttplug with an opening just enough for my penis. Much easier to bend the cock into the buttplug and when I cum in there it goes deep for a nice creampie.

If you can track the split is already a better situation than the one I had, I was never able to track mine and I just guess it was around the second sphincter. If I was you the first thing I'd try would be a longer break (1 month) followed by a gradual increase in play and always very soft toys. Then from there I'd move to larger/harder stuff. I also would take the charcoal tablets, I have a feeling they helped with my bleeding somehow. Best of luck, don't forget to update us.

Have you tracked down the fissure location? If you're not having pain I'm assuming the bleeding is coming from inside, because if it was the sphincter it would hurt a lot especially when washing after. I recommend you read my thread on bleeding, I've been fighting it for years and I seem to have fixed it (knock on wood) http://www.rosebuttboard.com/index.php?/topic/131557-blood-every-time-in-larger-anal-insertions/

Got a link to that? Or the day she did it?

UPDATE My ass is in almost perfect shape now, for 5 sessions in a row I just have a small amount of faint pink/red goo come out as soon as I go big but after that my ass can take anything without bleeding. Today I played hard with 3 large toys and nothing apart from that initial faint pink/red. I'm good with that, hope it keeps that way!

Approaching 40

Unless I do a good enema, there is ALWAYS shit on my rectum. Even right after taking a shit. It didn't use to be like this. When I was younger there was a good change my rectum was clean and even if it wasn't then all I had to do was take a shit and it would almost certainly be good to go. Nowadays the shit is always there and quite close to the sphincter, index finger deep at most. It doesn't give me the urge to crap it out anymore unless it's some big amount, I'm not incontinent but I think many years of anal play changed my ass capacity of knowing when there is something to be evacuated. I believe all the large toys and hands made my ass numb for smaller feces pieces and my system won't even "accuse" it's there. Either that or my second sphincter doesn't hold anything. Has anyone had a similar experience? Any fixes?

Thanks for your input, made me feel better about my situation. Right now I'm at my almost good anal form. It bleeds just a little bit when I play with large stuff or fists but then it stops. Faint red mixed with anal juices or lube, not the concerning vivid red that I had a few years ago. One thing I am considering for when I have a partner next time is to do a quick "warm up" session just before so I'm hoping to bleed before the fisting session and not during it.

For now I'm missing 6, 10, 11, 14, 15, 16, 17, 20. Prolapsing seems like it's never going to happen for me, I might have to try some pumping method but I'm not totally sure I want one.

There is no way to do a poll here apparently, but you can quote the following list and manually add yes or no. Which items of the list have you achieved? All the items are for ANAL only 1- Inserted something up your ass 2- Got fingered by someone else 3- Got fucked by someone else (strap on counts) 4- Got fisted by someone else 5- Got double fisted 6- Got triple fisted 7- Fisted yourself 8- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 10 inches (or 25cm) 9- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 20 inches (or 50cm) 10- Got fisted elbow deep 11- Got fisted shoulder deep 12- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 2 inches (or 5cm) 13- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 3 inches (or 7.5cm) 14- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 4 inches (or 10cm) 15- Prolapsed up to about an inch long (2.5cm) 16- Prolapsed clearly more than an inch long (>2.5cm) 17- Prolapsed clearly more than 2 inches long (>5cm) 18- Inserted your own penis in your ass 19- Inserted your own penis in your ass and came inside 20- Had a whole foot up your ass

In your case you should definitely avoid hard objects like bottles. Back when I was your age I also had to be creative because I had to hide it from family and also on a limited budget. Sausages were a good alternative if you have an easy way to dispose them later, I used to buy packs of 12 and try to put them all at once. Eggplants were good too as you can choose different sized and they're quite smooth. Some animal (pet shop) toys, rubber balls and sometimes even plush toys inside condoms were also in my ideas, I tried almost everything I considered safe and available. I mostly regret the messy ones: whipped cream, marshmallows, bananas - because they are hard to clean later and can leave a smell. To me the biggest drawback about bleeding is about the partner, I like to get women to fist me and blood can be very off-putting to them. When I get blood while playing on my own I don't even mind anymore if it's a small amount.

UPDATE Charcoal tablets seem to be the biggest help here, one a day for a week and I'm good for a while. Another thing that MIGHT help me is inserting something cold on me before play, I've tried filling a bottle with clear jelly but it was messy, it would just break as I tried to get it inside me and I ended up just inserting the fragments. I managed to get pretty much the whole bottle (in jelly shreds) then I followed it all the way with a large dildo that normally makes me bleed, but it came out clean. Maybe inserting an ice cube before my sessions would help? Btw, I saw this siswet video and the bleeding at 1:13 is quite similar to mine, it just happens more easily when I do it. If I did that hard bottle that deep I would bleed profusely. https://www.xvideos.com/video56691083/extreme_insertions_and_wrecking_of_the_asshole

I bought the long ribbed one, XL. It's a bit larger than expected, I am no beginner - I can take a female double fist without difficulty - but I just managed 60% of it. But my current goal is to get my colon wider at deeper lengths so this toy is ideal for it. The material is perfect - any harder it would hurt, any softer it would be hard to get in.

I find it funny that the most pain I got from anal play was not from the anal stretch itself but from pulling muscles trying to force my arms/hands in unnatural angles to get deeper or trying to stick something in. The last one was a large silicone stretching ring that was super hard to get in my ass. I didn't really hurt "per se", but next day my legs, arms and especially fingers were painful all day from the straining trying to get that ring in. I only managed it with the help of a dildo to guide the way. Do you have similar experiences?

just one more recommendation: be careful where you are buying this from. If it's coming from Singapore I recommend ordering from somewhere else. My 2 last orders from Singapore took over 50 days to even leave the country.

That's it, Hotkinkyjo's crown has finally been passed on imo. That giant hand was absolutely insane and that dildo was quite amazing too. Siswet took it to another level with these recent videos. Sad to see the bottle one, I hope she was recovered ok after that.

UPDATE After some trials and errors I might have some more answers: 1- My diet doesn't really matter, if I'm on "bleeding season" no healthy foods will help me out. 2- I can normally play wide and play deep, what makes me bleed is when it's both wide and deep. 3- Charcoal tablets seem to have helped me this week. I had one daily for the past 3 days and my play today didn't have any blood (first time in many weeks without some blood). I googled about the subject and apparently charcoal tablets can be good against hemorrhoids, if I am right, I might have some small but deep hemorrhoids that only bleed during my play sessions, and I'm really hoping that the charcoal tablets are keeping it from bleeding. During the next weeks I will keep taking these tablets and trying large toys that normally would make me bleed, let's see how it goes.

These are very good toys for the price, I have other models from that brand and the material is much better than anything else in that price range. They also have no smell too. I tried but I found no information about the actual brand of these toys. They always offer the toy in orange or black and they are sold on aliexpress. The one I have here came on a bag labeled "Nothosaur" but their website doesn't work. I recently order #6 from your list (XL), waiting for it to arrive. I want something large, with a base, cylindrical and very flexible - this one seems to be it. I want to sit on it and ride up and down. I found this video showing it, I am not sure if that's the L or the XL size: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5ef5d558ef024 About your purchase, it's hard for me to tell because I don't know what you already have. I wouldn't recommend #3 because it has no texture. One of my long plugs from this brand has no texture and although it's big there is not much feeling when compared to something ribbed or veiled.

So you could actually bend it towards your cock and fuck it. Wonder if it has already been done

None of these. Actually I don't take anything regularly

Can you please elaborate a little more on that? What exactly could help to thicken the blood?

I would bet on something unrelated as well, if you had seriously damaged yourself with this you'd bleed profusely. Perhaps some IBS or similar condition that was worsened by your constant play, but I don't think the play alone would cause it. This forum is probably the most hardcore anal play community in the world and I believe we would have many more similar cases if that was related issue.

UPDATE I unfortunately bled again, twice this week. First one was a small amount and today was a larger amount (some vivid red spots). However against any logical intuition, the bleeding stops if I continue playing, especially if I use a large long dildo. I have no idea what causes it and absolutely no fkin clue why it suddenly stops. After it stops I'm fine and can play without issues, but the initial bleeding would put a partner off if I had one. I'm planning to meet a girl to fist me but I need to make a plan, I don't want her to see any blood so I'll try to play solo first and bleed (hopefully not, but likely) just before meeting her so she will catch me in the non bloody phase. Unfortunately I don't recall any lifestyle changes that could've caused me to start bleeding again - diet is fine, not eating spicy, not taking any medicines... I'm thinking about restarting the charcoal tablets.

I got myself a XO Speculum (same as Hotkinkyjo uses) and although it has a very smooth finish it still feels like I'm inserting a couple giant razor blades in my butt. They hurt like hell even after I'm relaxed and warmed up with very large toys, hurts to the point it completely kills my pleasure and I just give up. I managed to resist the pain a couple times and fully insert it (and open quite a bit) but it doesn't get any better, when open it hurts even more. When looking deep in I can see that my colon is not relaxed at all and always forcing at the end. Is there a trick to doing it? How does HKJ manage it with such elegance? She even manages to get her colon open deep past the reach of the speculum, looks like it doesn't hurt a bit for her.

Garlic is actually one of the things that didn't work for me. I recommend 3 things for you: 1- If you take mints or chew bubble gum, stop it. Don't chew or suck on any food products that "fool" your digestive system. 2- Get checked for H. Pylori bacteria, or if you can get Metronidazole try taking it 200mg twice a day for a week (take Omeprazole once a day too). 3- Try taking charcoal tablets, once a day but not within 2h before/after meals or other medicine.