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You need to stretch with a smaller diameter dildo first. I first stretched with a pair of 1.5" long dildos before I could take something around 2.5 inches wide.

This is excellent and humorous too!

If you are pushing the limits you need to rest for a few days after. If you can take such fisting or toys without a lot of force, then it's okay to do multiple days in a row.

Male pelvic opening is generally around 3.7-4.3" diameter. Some unlucky people may have an unusual shaped opening that may restrict this diameter. With larger toys, eg 3.5"+ you need a fairly gentle taper and you need quite a bit of force to insert as you stretch - some people sit on a stool, pulling up the stool towards you, pressing on the toy to insert with more force. It is also easier to stretch if you have a lot of adrenaline. If you are getting prolonged pain from your tailbone though, you may be close to your limits though, something to keep in mind to prevent permanent injury.

Yeah, it isn't my thing either. Sometimes porn is all about the visuals...

I really doubt you could reattach it without damaging it...

Good luck! Bed Knob buddies are a bit too much of a jump - the largest one is too large and the next size down isn't much of a challenge. I haven't tried the Bigsextoy butt plugs (they don't ship overseas), but they look decent. Get both the 3.5 and the 3.75 if you can, you'll still get regular use of the 3.5 as a warm-up!

Yeah, plus around $75 shipping for those of us who live overseas. It's way out of my price range, given I'm not terribly wealthy. It's the Rolls-Royce of ass toys I guess!

I didn't think HKJ could get shoulder deep? But in any event, it requires displacing the intestine outside of the usual abdominal area, though I obviously can't say more than that. There is a guy dobbelfist at gmail who seems to be a depth king, I guess we could ask him? Unless he's here already?

If you are careful, sure. Stretching past the sigmoid requires some time and care, but I very much enjoy it - doing so was the first time I experienced the "anal orgasm" (where the prostate and other side of the bladder are stimulated at the same time). That said, there aren't really any additional sensations to be had when it comes to depth much past the sigmoid and it is not recommended to push very large objects (3"+ diameter) very deep (eg 13+ inches), since at that point your starting to press on your internal organs. I've long wanted to try the XXL Slink, but I cannot justify/afford the almost $400 cost...

Ignite Goose series...

Be careful - for depth use the largest diameter you can get past the urethral opening. Narrower sounds are more likely to poke/tear something. Also, always sterilize the sounds, otherwise you will get a urinary tract infection, it's just a matter of time.

Is your Blockbuster actually 4" wide? It says 3.8" on the various stores, hence why I initially didn't give it a second look.

The answer is no, fisting does not lead to prolapse.

I have the same problem, I don't know it's that our pelvic opening is too small, or well, we need an in-between plug with a more gentle taper? (finding an in between plug is difficult - I can't find anything on Amazon and shipping from bigsextoy is extremely expensive, like twice the price of the plug itself)

The problem is there is an absence of toys past 3.8-4" for us to progress with. The step to 4.5" is too large.

Interesting. I have this and well, I can't take 4.5" or whatever it is either and have been considering doing this. There is basically no chance of getting the cover back on afterwards, but you can always buy another one I guess.

'twas BAM and Beladonna's fist. Bought online. I had already been playing with 'found' items as above, was surprised when Beladonna's fist went in without too much struggle! BAM is still my warm up toy and the first toy that I discovered was very pleasurable to push past the sigmoid. I can honestly say these toys are much better (safer) than using the various other found items. There was a glass incident that could have been far worse too...

Prolapse is not a normal consequence of ass stretching, no matter how much you stretch. The only way for most people is the pumping method (as regularly described on this forum).

It's not "ruining" the asshole, it's improving it! First stretch with fisting or large toys (to 3.5" at least), then you can work on the prolapse through the pumping method.

Please don't use soap, it can cause damage... Pumping and stretching (with proper butt plugs - don't insert anything glass in your butt) over time is the way.

Yes! Don't even think about using glass objects up there!

Always focusing on the next biggest thing.

I'm not sure your issues are due to the lack of stretch of the anus itself. It's worth seeing a doctor, though I can understand your reluctance given that it is an embarassing subject. The limits of stretching are the size of the pelvic opening, which is 4-5" for most people. If you are of small stature, it might be a touch smaller than that. Apart from that, If you don't have any sort of connective tissue disorder that leads to less stretchy skin, then if you wanted to stretch, then all you need to do is stretch once or twice a week. As above, go slow, use lots of lube, yes it will hurt a bit. Doing it more often than that is not necessary, nor is holding plugs in for long periods of time. (anyone who disagrees can look at the research on muscle stretching and you will see!)

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