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Hi everybody. I have a problem and I've been working on it for years without being able to solve it. I seem to have a pretty large-size rectum but my anus is small. I have tried stretching my anus many times but I can't seem to accommodate anything larger than a very medium size plug. And when i dump a load, I have to press on either size of my anus to get it out. That hurts sometimes. If I could meet a Doctor who could solve that for me, I'd go for it. It feels like I have an iron ring arond my anus and that I can't increase that diameter. Any advice out there?

Hi.  I've been trying to stretch my ass for years on end. It seems I could stretch it more when I was in my thirties than I can now (I'm 65).  I feel I've been getting more and more tight as years have gone by.  I've had some issues like anal fissures and hemorroids. I have to take great care when I use even a small plug because I have hemorroids afterwards. I'm seriously contemplating getting them out hoping I'll find an undertstanding and compliant surgeon.  But...  If not, and in the meantime, how do I go about it??  I can I stretch?  Any toys out there I can wear discretely for long periods of time?  Otherwise, how do I start up again??  Your expert advice wil be more than, welcome and Thanks in advance!