1. My sessions are typically very long. They usually last for hours. Today, for example, I started at 9AM and will end at 5PM. My sessions are passive stretching and stuffing, meaning that I stick a big eggplant up my as so that I'm stuffed full and deep, and so that my my ass hole is stretched wide, but other than that there is no active movement, no in and out (so "passive"). This is a sexy "stuffed and stretched" feeling that I get to enjoy for hours at a time, keeping my sexual tension at a high. Usually I will be editing and watching anal porn for a while, but then go about my day, working on the house (bought a century home this past summer and have been fixing it up for a half year).
Often, I start the day (before my anal play) with a quick wackoff session. Depending on the duration of my session and the privacy involved (if the wife is around or not) I sometimes don't even orgasm at all from my stretching and stuffing. Today, however, I'll probably jerk off 2 or 3 times.
2. I'm always excited when it comes to buttplay: before, during, and after. There have been 4 or 5 times in the past when the wife has gone away for about a week (to visit relatives) leaving me all alone with my private pleasure. The weeks and days leading up to this were a slow build of sexual tension and anticipation. And that day, when she is gone and I've got 8 or 10 eggplants of various sizes lined up on a towel and a fresh jar of vaseline and I'm trying to decide which one to start with, my heart is racing and I'm literally trembling with desire! Yet the funny thing is, I'm not hard. I usually do not experience erections during or due to buttplay.
3. For me, anal is the big turn on. Touching my cock, masturbation, and even orgasm, are not very important--more of an afterthought.
4. Circumstances permitting, I will do buttplay every single day. And, again, circumstances permitting, my sessions will last 8 or more hour (like today).
5. Porn...
Ah, porn!
There's a thread I started about a week ago that clearly describes my porn obsession.
However, I use it during (for a while). But the porn is not hugely important for my buttplay. It's more used as just one more way to raise the sexual tension that I experience while being stretched and stuffed.