minx

I have three this year... 1) Lose weight. Have put on tons of weight since I had the baby and just generally feel shit for it, so want to shift that and more. 2) Sort finances out. We're in the middle of sorting this anyway so it should be achievable. 3) Have another baby.... So what are yours?

No we confiscated the dogs camera. And its nothing interesting anyway! If you meant sex life I'd definitly go with that, but then I didn't marry my husband for great sex I married him cos he's a fantastic guy and my best friend. Unfortunately the guys I've had great sex with are also the ones who would do me no good whatsoever! As is always the way. Its all fine when I'm not horny! I'd forgotten how bad it was if I'm honest. Oh well!

I guess that must sound like I'm really fed up. I'm not. Our marriage is better now than it has ever been. We're better together. Its just that one bit that I know I'll never get and whilst I accept that now it's still hard to think about. But like you say, it's an inevitable fact for most couples. It says a lot for our relationship now that I wouldn't go behind his back, whereas that never used to bother me. I don't think my life was really more fulfilling. I think it was maybe more interesting, and more adventurous, but then I never dreamed I'd have that life. The one I've got now is what I dreamed about but its just this one thing I need to get my head around now. Having said all that between the baby and the dog (who sat watching last night) we don't really get time for anything much! Although we actually (shock horror) have started kissing again. Wow. Its my hormones. Ignore me.

Away from farts but how the hell am I supposed to go without any form of foreplay or kink or proper fuck your brains out sex for the rest of my life? I'm 23 and sex is doomed to be boring for the rest of my life. Thats when I can get it. I'm getting it now cos we're trying to make another baby. Maybe I'll just have to stay pregnant for the rest of my life.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't get it!

It must be hormonal but thats struck a chord and a sudden longing....oh for the good old nights....oh well. x

I'm not sure how I feel about it yet, just hoping I'll stay too tired to be bothered about going after it. I can but hope!

QUOTE(westcountry_boy @ Nov 14 2007, 02:05 PM) [snapback]64605[/snapback] Anal fisting sure is a difficult subject to broach. What are we to do?! Firstly welcome to the board! Secondly - it's not much easier for women either! Not every guy is into fisting or even anal So it's always a bit hit and miss what they're going to say or think!

Only kind of a dick? Nah I don't mind, nice to have someone to be mean to once in a while, not had it for ages and my claws needed sharpening, although I'm not exactly on form at the moment! And I have a feeling that I know the style but can't quite place it. Hmmmm maybe I can.

I know that! Half the time I don't get it though, and even more so now I'm sleep deprived!!! It was only because someone said it about my little "group" on another forum that it twigged about here.

Back to the pictures in threads thing I realised why I don't like it....it feels like you all have the same sense of humour and your own little club, which obviously you do to some extent, but I feel like I'm intruding on that when you get going. And twats like kinky1968 don't help.

QUOTE(curiousboy @ Nov 25 2007, 03:10 PM) [snapback]66595[/snapback] Congratulations! Good you got that part of yours back! hugs, cb I'm not sure I am yet! It's not as bad as before though luckily.

I'm going to assume that you think I'm lying about what I have or have not done in the past and therefore should post pics? WHY THE HELL SHOULD I???? Who do I have to prove anything to? Surely if I was just bragging I would have said I could take anal fist (fwiw). And even if I posted pics how would you know they were of me? They could be anyone. If you want messages to stay personal then don't be so fucking obnoxious. Or if you're going to be obnoxious at least be literate and understandable and have a clear motive. Since I cannot recall any dialogue with you at any time I don't understand basically. Excuse if this is hard to read, been up with the baby last night and I'm sooooooooo tired.

Well I've just logged in to catch up with my favourite boys and found a couple of pm's. One was lovely and then there was this: Personal Message kinky1968 Fuck you. Got your attention?, Today, 03:05 PM You suck...you really piss me off with your so lame comments. Back things up, if you state a claim get it on. Now I have to wonder what an (I presume) unknown, much older man is doing wasting his time trying to insult not so little old me. You'll be delighted to know, Kinky, that I no longer suck, I don't care if I piss you off and my comments are sometimes lame but I'd like to think they are at least well intended. As for the second part of your wonderful pm I don't have the faintest idea what you're on about? I don't understand what claims I've made and what the hell "get it on" means. If you would care to enlighten me I'd be delighted to discuss this further.

Lets just say it provided some much needed fantasy material the other night! Definitly weak at the knees. I think it was as much how it was written as what you were suggesting. All hot and bothered again now!

No but wow. You could have warned me about that one!

Oi less of the mum, let me have one place where I'm me and not a mummy/wife/general domestic goddess. But yes, inevitably it has changed me and my priorities, and giving up work has changed me a lot too I think. It's had to. For me a lot has to do with the fact that I've seen most of it before although I think that it may be different for me as I'm probably looking for different things to you men. Most of it just bores me anyway. I can watch porn with the running commentary which is rarely "oh fuck yes...harder...you're so good" blah blah blah and more like "what shall I do for dinner tonight...did I turn the iron off....wish he wouldn't do that its sore....that makes my boobs hurt". I dunno.

I used to be really open about my sexual habits but you just never know when its going to come back to haunt you.

I think people just move on. I know I have in so many ways. How long can you spend with one fetish? Personally I know that it just gets deeper and darker until it gets dangerous and that's not what I want. I've had this conversation with a couple of people and we're always looking for bigger or better things in whatever guise. I for one just don't want to go down that route any more. I did a few of things I'd started getting into and actually in real life they weren't what I wanted and left me feeling worse. Now I'm just not that interested, its a part of me and I don't doubt that when my sex drive kicks back in that "need" will too, but for the moment I'm enjoying not having almost every decision driven by when I'm next going to get my brains fucked out! And I don't want to bring that back before I'm actually ready anyway. Then again I've got good memories of people from here and so I keep lingering and checking in when I can. Marcus - glad you're back and safe. x

I suppose I'm in the bizarre position of having my fetishes and "abilities" plastered all over the internet in my previous line of work. I've been fairly open (excuse the pun) with men who are either sexual partners or are likely t o beome partners. Or just to wind them up of course. My husband sort of knows what I like. Whilst I have had and do have sexually explicit conversations with my girlfriends I don't think many know about the fisting. Obviously anal sex comes up in conversation and I'll talk about that, but not fisting. I don't know why, maybe its just my dirty little secret? I did discuss it with one other girl but only because we were working together and were discussing a clients "requirements". When I was pregnant it was quite amusing though talking about pelvic floor exercises and the actual birth. Couldn't really tell the midwife neither were an issue!

You just couldn't resist it could you? I'm really disappointed.

Marcus - I was thinking about you the other day and wondering where you'd gone! How are you? CB- my darling you know I love you all, and yes I'm tired and busy and that only proves my point further. I go into threads and I get fed up of trying to work out what's relevant and whats not. I happen to agree with Pro who has put this more eloquently than I could hope for lately. It's offputting, distracting, and I don't see the point. Half the time I don't get it and if I don't get it then lots of other people don't get it. I love you all to bits and do really care for a good few of you but it does drive me nuts. I know boys will be eternal boys, I live with one, but can you just start your own pic thread like I seem to recall you having? RSBBShadow - erm who are you? I'm just as entitled to an opinion surely? If not more so since the post is wondering where all the women go and as a woman I can give an opinion? Or should I shut up and go back to my kitchen? I don't find the content offensive, I don't like all of it and its not why I come here, but I wouldn't find it offensive. Whatever gets your rocks off.

If I'm honest all the pictures you guys post puts me off. It hijacks any thread worth reading and really annoys me! You've not even managed to not do it here!

Mine have all gone now. Piccies that is, the boobs have grown some since the baby came along!

I couldn't work it out but Asspussy and Watercooled are both right, the atmosphere has changed. Who knows why. It's a shame but it happens.