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Hello teltoes! How to take interesting bedroom or activity pictures depends on what you want to see and the equipment you're using. Assuming you're using a compact digital camera, you'll just need a small tripod, imagination and some patience. A few more items can be of great use, such as a mirror and a remote control for the camera. If you want to tell a bit more about what you want to do or achieve, I'm sure the board can come up with many good tips, trix and ideas. I have fair experience behind the camera and will certainly try to help.

It would seem to me that the word "fisting" has come to mean nearly any kind of insertion of anything bigger than the average-dick sized dildo. There are lots of references, here and elsewhere, to hand-, foot-, dildo-, bottle- and what-have-you-fisting. It's probably more from association rather than actual mistranslation. Not entirely unlike the way many Japanese words are misused and anglified.

The mucous is indeed a kind of "natural lube" that the body produces to ease the passage of feces. In its pure state, I'm sure it's as "clean" as anything else your body will produce. However, taking into account where it comes from, it's likely to be mixed with water from your pre-play enema (if you do that) and small bits of fecal matter. While not necessarily dangerous, it's probably not recommended to swallow.

Slavine18, Thank you, very much indeed, for sharing your pix and clips! It's a rare treat to see such drive and passion. I hope that you continue like you've started and, if communities like this behave nicely, continue to give us glimpses of your progress. Like others have said, your boyfriend is an incredibly lucky guy and I hope that he will encourage and help you and, most importantly, treat you well.

Hello Bubism! You wouldn't be the only one to discover that most inflatables behave in this most disappointing way. I've seen some people express some satisfaction with the Gargantula. I believe the 'original' was made by Domestic Partner, a french company, but that it's been copied by several other manufacturers. I've also seen a home-made 'device' that seemed to work rather well. It was made using the innards of an old-fashioned blood-pressure cuff and a short length of rigid PVC tubing. The BP-cuff is essentially an incredibly tough balloon which is pulled through the pipe to protrude a few inches at one end, forming a wand-like implement. When inflated, the protruding bit of the cuff will blow up, much like an oval balloon. The pipe will keep the rest of the cuff from inflating, concentrating the pressure from the air to the 'balloon', making it very hard for the sphincter to resist. The only problem I can see with this is that it has no automatic way to position it correctly. I wish you luck in your search!

I've seen a few different implementations of this, ranging from simple clamps with strings to a fairly complex device involving a stainless steel hoop , wires and multiple piercings. Regardless of which solution you choose, you'll end up with pretty much the same 'problem' - anatomy. The devices will work fine as long as the legs are kept wide apart but fail as soon as the legs are closed. Upskirt-pix wouldn't give much more than they would without the device. The clear tubes that were discussed in another thread would probably best fit the bill for upskirt holeiness.

Welcome to the Board, RightRednYellow! The best tip would probably be the most obvious one; stretch, stretch and more stretch! There are plenty of gradual stretching-tools out there, such as the Slider from Zoofur or any of the 'traffic-cones' from several manufacturers. For a much cheaper and more natural approach, you can head for the produce at your nearest store and check out the Aubergines (egg-plants)or Butternut squashes, which can provide plenty of different sizes and shapes. I've heard one other tip, which I'd like to have confirmed by any of our experienced members. Some say that merely inserting something to keep the muscle 'open' for a while isn't quite enough to optimize stretching, but that popping the object in and out, stretching and relaxing the muscle, repeatedly, is much more efficient. Any opinions or experiences regarding this? Best of luck to you!

Hello Amy and welcome to the gapingest forum around! I'm sure you'll find inspiration here, from both the great clips and films shared by prolific and occasional posters alike and from some of the very informative discussion-threads. There are some very experienced folks around here. As for actually damaging your sphincter beyond recovery, I'd strongly advise against it. There are simply too many far-reaching issues and complications to consider. There are probably some on the board who can further illuminate the darker recesses of serious or even permanent damage. Might I suggest some alternative to permanent incontinence? A tube, preferably clear, inserted to a comfortable depth, would render much the same results. In addition, you can choose the diameter of the tube to suit your preference - large for drafty openness and small for endless dribbling fun.

A word of caution... Like z3n0mal4 said, lots of lube helps. However, consider that the tissues and muscles around the hole need time to stretch enough to accommodate your fist or any large object. Time, in this case, does not usually mean minutes or hours, but rather repeated stretching over longer time, such as weeks or months. Even minuscule or minor cracks in the skin will sting unpleasantly for some time after a stretching-session. Give them time to heal. I'm sure the two of you will find it's time well spent. The stretching-games along the way to a full fist (or more)can be lots of hot fun. Once stretched enough for your fist, insertions will come more easily and more pleasurably. Inflatables are good, of course, since you can apply gentle and gradual pressure, rather than forcing a hard object to immediately open her up. You may already have another good, and rather cheaper, helper in your fridge. There are many nicely tapered veggies that can be used. Most of them, like carrots, usually need to be made smooth. Condoms are good for that, or even the fingers of a latex- or nitrile-glove. I'm partial to aubergines (eggplants) for their nice taper, many sizes and smooth skin. Have lots of fun!

Spearmint-enema? Eucalyptus-oil as lube? Minty-fresh farts for the enjoyment of all... Intriguing idea :-)

The colon is the part of your intestine that leads to the rectum, the walls of which are rather thin and sensitive. They're also pretty amazingly elastic. Perforation, or piercing, of this thin membrane is a very scary and dangerous thing. As the man said; play with caution. This page will give more info: http://www.healthandnutritiontips.net/perforated_colon/perforated_colon.html Wishing you the very best on your recovery, Kinkyman.

Embarrassing to buy tampons? I'd have thought they could be part of any day's grocery-shopping at the local shop. Y'know - Bread, butter, eggplants, leek, baby-oil, tampons, shortening and that very intriguingly shaped bottle of shampoo... As for the idea of using tampons in a rubber - why not. Just do a test first, preferably outside your body, to see how much they swell, how much water you need and similar. Let us know how it went, eh!

Congratulations on reaching your goal, small-hip! It must feel good, in many different ways. :-) As for the 19" depth, I'm impressed. For a first shot, that is pretty amazing. It would seem that you have a brilliant future of stretching fun ahead of you. Oh, and welcome to the board, as well!

You may be onto a new product, here! Sounds, being the medical instruments they are, would have precious little use for vibrations. Sexually, however, I'm sure they could be a success. If you're using steel sounds, I'm sure that fastening a simple bullet-vibe to it would transmit the vibrations to where they matter. A small clamp or even tape would probably suffice. (A detachable bullet would also make sterilization easier.) For softer sounds, silicone or similar, you may want a stronger vibe to make up for the dampening of the material. Drilling a hole in the tip of an ordinary pocket/purse-sized vibe, matching the hole to the diameter of the sound, might make for a good little assembly. I hope this tickles your fancy!

While I've never really fallen into that sort of rut, I think I understand why it happens. Having too much time on your hands is probably the root of the problem. I find that after days and nights on end of working in the virtual realm of computers, I relax better if I do something more tangible for a bit. The suggestions of reading or writing are good and can be expanded to include any kind of activity that is just that - active. Take up a hobby of some sort. Make it parallel to your playing, by all means. Knit or sew a "Plug-cozy" or a toy-bag. A few bits of plank can be made into a beautiful, crude, rough or useful box for the collection of toys or just that special one. Start making your own toys by carving the "perfect plug",cover in silicone and fill with latex or make a mold to cast it in. (I'm NOT going to suggest that you take up needle-work and make a "Hole, sweet hole" to hang on your wall, complete with simulated, off-colour, lube-stains, that would be silly...) None of the above has to be expensive or perfect, as long as it's time-consuming enough to let your mind switch tracks, away from that rut. Best of luck!