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Each person is different, but generally speaking you won't get full blown incontinence from fisting/stretching. For that you'll need to intentionally cause traumatic injury to do nerve damage or a muscle tear. Regular play with any size can atrophy your sphincter and/or confuse your sphincter as to whether it's at full closure or not. Holding back a fart can be extra strenuous or sometimes take you by surprise, but you can counteract that with kegels or not playing as often. If you get too sloppy for your liking you can make lifestyle adjustments, but don't expect overnight changes either. Took me 2-3 years of abstaining to go from struggling to hold back my farts at medium size hole to being fingerchoking tight again. It will be faster if you lift weights or jog or whatever and do a proper effort at tightening up. My impression is that people get the same kind of looseness with age, some people just lose a little bit of "squeeze". And based on a bunch of anecdotal testimonies from fistees they actually get more muscle control with experience. And full blown incontinence is not a normal part of aging, but a part of certain illnesses certain people develop with age. The ol' genetic lottery. I think it depends on whether you're playing for maximum wreckage or just happen to play big. I think if you're reasonably physically active, health conscious and maybe do some kegels you're unlikely to be any sloppier than anyone else as you age unless that's what you're going for. Don't expect any extreme consequences unless you play extreme regularly. Have fun either way

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I just saw there's an "ignore member" function. Maybe you have been "blocked" for some reason? That seem to be the easiest explanation anyway.

I think xVideos has a decent amount assplay content, i use it a lot. Also, they still have a download button under their videos, not sure if that's customizable.

I think this forum is kinda great, and prolly the best alternative really. There are other alternatives out there, like all the groups/discussions on Fetlife f.ex, but it's mostly kind of dead over there from what i've seen. Besides Rosebuttboard is easy to navigate and has a lot of experienced users. Seems like it's mostly men here tho (right?), i don't know how you feel about that. But if you want to talk about anything specific, just make a post!

Long term buttplug wear. Gradually build your tolerance, go for longer sessions each time, remember to have 2-4 day breaks to begin with in the beginning. When you are at the hours at a time-stage, remember to relube often, especially with water based lube. Always exaggerate with the lube. Also experiment with different toys, width and depth. Remember to focus on stretching your hole now and then. When stretching i recommend using soft silicon toys. I just bought some toys from Topped Toys. I went from kind of wrestling with toys around 6 cm diameter to taking the Gapekeeper 85 at 6.9 cm diameter first try. Instant new world of slack and sloppy

And might i add; i think it's good that PornHub is cleaning up. It might suck a bit for fans of niche content uploaded (at least in the past) primarily by unverified users, but it is way worth it in the long run. Uploaders should be held responsible for the content they share. I might think twice about downloading stuff even though it's seemingly consensually uploaded. Given the amount of users on these sites that retire their accounts, i'm sure many people regret uploading stuff. Fun is momentary, the internet is forever

Crikey. My xTube has got tons of vids in the "favourites" list, so i'm scared to look now. I created an xHamster account so i could download my faves from there a couple of days ago. Not sure if xHamster is affected, but i'm so glad i did now

You could play when other people aren't home, when they are sleeping,- or, you could move your play elsewhere. Off-track in Forrests work, also you could try it in your basement/bomb-shelter, or maybe hire a closed room style storage unit you could make your play room. You could try to introduce a milder form of your play to your SO to see if she's willing. Most of the straight people I know, male and female have talked about "the finger", so I guess anal play isn't that taboo anymore. Then maybe over time she warms to it and takes it a bit further. Or, you could also tell her you want some playtime for yourself so you could work out some schedule/arrangement that works for the both of you. That takes away the risk of her suspect you are unfaithful, so that's a bonus.

Hotkinkyjo is awesome. Performers like her need a form of software/app they can bind their content to. F.ex. customers get the access they pay for, but it's only accessible inside the software/app on whatever device they have. Is that how onlyfans work? Porn is hard to monetize, but the movie/series streaming service model is pretty good. It's kind of like with the past era of torrents and music piracy. When practical and convenient services came around, it became convenient for people to pay for it. Buying a photo album set with permanent access (within an app or whatever) could be fair, but access to an entire catalogue should be for (a fair) regular subscription fee. Because people can "pirate" content if they really want to, but if it is convenient and *feels* fair (and safe), then most people would probably be willing to pay. There's no pension fund for porn actors, so they deserve more control over their commodities.

You *might* get away with playing dry, or approximately dry with sizes/toys you are used to and can handle with ease. But if you are stretching or playing strenuously you pretty much have to use lube, IMO. You can try adding it to your playing repertoire, but I wouldn't recommend it. I looked the most wrecked when I focused on long term butt plug wear. I felt like that made me more puffy and wrinkly, and it also made me way looser, obviously. So you might wanna try playing like that for a month or two. As a bonus it makes "spit n go" type sex super easy! 0 : )

What wrecked_cunt24 & deepdildolesson both are using reminds me of plastic jump ropes, except maybe a tiny bit thinner? I think plastic jump ropes would perhaps be a bit too stiff but they're easy to clean. Might be worth stopping by a sports store

I think you should just be careful and sensible until you get more experience, but here are some general tips: 1) Clean toys thoroughly after use, make sure they're clean before use. 2) Try to be as clean each time as possible yourself as "things" can add friction that could contribute to a tear. 3) Lube yourself first, then lube your toy. And after first partial or complete insertion lube the toy and maybe also yourself again, to make sure the lube is getting deep enough and is also covering all contact surface area. 4) Remember rest days,- just like in bodybuilding, as tissue damage needs time to be adjusted for and healed to avoid actual physical/structural damage. The more intense (aka damaging) the play/workout, the more rest is needed. When i play close to my limit and/or feel a bit soreness afterdays i typically wait about 3 full days if rest before the next session. If i'm in my comfortzone i'll probably play every other day or even every day, but not for an indefinite amount of days succesively. Light play also adds up if you do it every day without ever giving your body the opportunity to maintain itself. Lastly/5) Go slow, be almost overly cautious and keep reading what other people say but listen to your body and trust it's signals over strangers. Also keep hemorroid/tear-suppositories at hand at all times for precautionary use in case you after play realize you've gone too far. This is such a boring answer, but it's the only one i can think of that'll enable you to keep playing. If you hurt yourself it can be weeks, months or years of rest and possibly being back to square 1 again. So don't try to add centimeters each session or each week even. It's a lot like strenght training/bodybuilding actually, and you're probably going to go a bit too far and get hurt a couple times. The trick is to make sure it won't be too bad. So be careful, take your time, remember that you need rest even thought your body feels fine, and know that experience is going to make you a master. Now go wreck that muffin

Being nude outdoors feels awesome and sooo liberating, but only alone. Got caught just the other day by a hot middle aged guy, and he seemed like he wanted to join in but i messed it up by being stunned and awkward. I don't want people to see me, but the excitement of "maybe" is fun, and that particular instance was a nice experience. Feeling the sun and air touch all of your body at once is almost a bit spiritual

Most unusual is probably one of the "horns" of a exercise bike handle. I stood balanced on a seperate chair and slid back on it. Super risky, but it was a great workout!

Good post, thanks for sharing! The tip about putting cotton inside the tip of your gloves so you don't have to trim your nails is brilliant

Amazing hole! Thanks for sharing ^ ^

If your diet is decent your poo will go in the toilet. And meticulous handwashing is compulsory after all anal play anyway, so there's really no difference. To me anyway And accidents will occur sooner or later, and when they do you just deal with it, knowing it simply is what it is. Drink more water, make sure you're getting decent amounts of fiber and experiment with your diet to see what works for you. Oh, and be active throughout the day to keep your tubes working. Gotta run a tight ship to get a loose dock.

When it comes to staying loose, long term buttplug/toy wear is most effective IMO. After stretching my body tends to tighten up more in the following days, (while simultaneously increasing stretch capacity over time.) If you want to be loose i'd recommend going for time or just playing more regularly. Some quick spit and finger action every couple of hours works quite well too. Listen to your body tho

Sexy You just have to keep working your hole, width and depth wise, and do more pushing/straining. Get into pumping as well if you can. Your hole has to be ready to accomodate your prolapse, and your insides have to be pushed and loosened up. Check out Buskowankias "how to" guide here: Prolapse Guide and search through the forum for tips. Good luck!

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I prefer uncut, for aesthetics and for feel, but i don't reject guys if they're cut. People got what they've got I've noticed that cut guys might have less precum. Coincidence or is there something to that?

I haven't trained my hole in a couple of years, but i'm just getting back to it now. I've taken the Doc J size large standard plug a couple of times the last year (fast comeback), and i'm working on taking it comfortably right now. I'm going to just keep stretching until i'm fist sized and also get a pump as soon as possible. After i can fist i want to try to get into depth play and maybe permament plugging. (I used to be ready for 4 fingers constantly, only needed spit and i almost get my own fist in, pretty sure i could if my arm was longer.) When guys pull down my underwear, i want their jaws to drop. I want my boypussy to look like a fat meaty juicy desert people can drown in. I want to be big, loose, with fat defined asslips and deep wrinkles stretching out in all directions from the center of my hole. A nice multifolded rosebutt would be nice too. A world record prolapse will be fun when i'm older. #diapergoals I love feeling loose and feeling my lips rub together when i move, and getting numb with bloodflow when i'm horny. When i was at my sloppiest i sat on top and squeezed a guy to cum in tops 20 sec. I look forward to getting that squeezing strenght back too. Vanilla guys seem to love a meatier hole as long as you use it right. I can feel something relaxing and falling down when i stand up, so i'm sure my hole has some extra texture most guys aren't used to. Anyway, basically i want to go as far as possible. Btw, one of my favourite holes out there is "Pumpednloose" on Twitter, totally worth checking out! https://mobile.twitter.com/pumpednloose

Welcome back! 6 months off doesn't really do that much if you're really wrecked. As your 9 cm plug proves