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That's your problem. You need to keep stretching open that hole of yours. Keep buying bigger toys and keep practicing. I just bought the monster butt plug from square peg toys. It arrives today and I cant wait to try it. It's 11.3 inch circumference and is really going to open my hole

Don't stress over not being able to fist yourself. For some people like myself your hands are too big and you can't reach all the way. Is that a 5.5 inch diameter or circumference butt plug? If its diameter that's fucking huge and you should be proud of yourself.

I would give myself an 8.5. I have to keep practicing to reach 10

I wish I had some answers to your questions but I dont. I just want to say congratulations on accomplishing this. It's something I hope to accomplish someday. What was your normal masturbating technique? Obviously it works well, lol. Also, would you mind sharing a pic of it. Would like to see your accomplishments if you don't mind sharing

I agree with nlight dont miss out on the opportunity. What you found is the same as winning the lottery. It's her choice what she wants to do with her life and if being a live in sex toy is going to make her happy then go with it. Please make sure she understands that she is still a person who deserves respect and if at any time she wants leave she has every right to do so and that you would help her if needed. I believe making sure she feels safe entering this arrangement and leaving it if it comes to it is very important to its long term success.

While they can be dangerous so is driving. As long as you respect them and don't abuse them the reward of relaxing your entire body is worth it for me. The downside is while you can't get physically addicted to them you can get mentally addicted to them and start feeling like you need them all the time when you play. Now i have to use them when i play or i feel like something is missing. While its good they relax me and put my mind into its happy place its bad that im addicted to them. It's reached a point where i always use them even if I'm just jerking off. Given all that i would not stop as i have not found another drug that will give me the same feeling.

It's nice to hear that at 22 you are so committed to opening your hole. A few tips to help you reach your goal. 1 keep playing, practice as much as you can, you have your entire life ahead of you to keep growing your hole. There's no race and you dont want to injure yourself because you had to get it in. 2 a toy to fill the size gap. Keep getting a toy, that's .25 of an inch larger until you reach your goal 3 find a fisting top. It's easier to relax and take it when all you have to do is bend over and let your top open your hole. 4 use soft toys. It's easier and more comfortable to play with soft toys. I get my toys from square peg toys. 5 use good lube, i use jlube 6 this one is not for everyone, drugs. When i play i use poppers, weed, nitrous and numbing cream on my hole. It helps to put me in the right frame of mind and play longer and harder. 7 this one im about to test out but I have a rosebud pump coming today. From what i read I think if I can pump my hole everyday it will make it easier to stretch it bigger. I'll let you know how this goes.

I use vermont's original bag balm on my sore hole and its great. It gives this warm feeling when applying to your sore hole and you get instant relief. It also helps me to heal quicker so i can play again sooner as ill apply it to my hole several times a day. I like to always have a wet hole when i can as it makes me happy Lastly, i like to use it as lube when playing, my top will add it about 3 times during an hour-long session as it adds a nice warm feeling to my playtime. I use it along with Jlube and my hole loves it. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01F38WKRE/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Jarred is right. My way is not for everyone. Always play safe and do what works best for you.

Totally normal. You're going to go soft at some points during your play when playing big. I enjoy stroking while hard or soft when playing. Hell, sometimes i wish i could stop stroking and just enjoy the fucking. Like when im playing 12-16 inchs deep and just want to relax and concentrate on enjoying the feeling. I usually can only do that when im ass down face up with my top fisting my hole. When im by myself i can't help but jerk it non stop, hard or soft. In short, find what works best for you and go with it. If staying hard is a must for you and you dont want to be soft at all you can look into some drugs to help you accomplish this but its not recommended.

My only regret is not starting earlier in life and the fact that it took me 15 years to accept the fact that I'm a fist taking ass pig with a huge gaping cunt.

As long as your hole has stretched to the point where it can take a fist or arm without a problem it really comes down to your frame of mind at that point in my book. For me i smoke weed and put numbing cream on my asshole before I start playing. Then as I start playing I get my poppers out and take lots of inhales. This will usually put in the right frame of mind where i feel like im just a hole. That i can take what ever my top gives me for as long as he wants. Im going to try nitrous next to add to this mix. I'm also thinking of trying ethyl chloride in the future. Molly im trying to get to see how it goes with fisting. There's also harder drugs as well but i dont have any experience with stuff like meth. I also recommend role playing into your kink. I find this helps me to stay in the right frame of mind while encouraging me to go harder and faster. In short if you can find the happy place in the back of your mind and stay there then taking a hard fisting becomes second nature. While this might not work for everyone it works for me and the fact my top almost fist me elbow deep last night and I want another round tonight I feel like it's working.

Lots of products say that. Only one way to find out what works for you.

No expiration date on my bottles of J-lube.

Tim thanks for that info. I'm experienced being fisted but I'm looking to get my first rosebud pump. I though it was the other way around and I would want a bigger cylinder to get my prolapse out. After reading what you said maybe I'm wrong. It sounds like I should get a smaller one where I can fit the entire cylinder inside of me and then pump out my insides. Considering I can take a fist. Would you recommend a 3 inch diameter cylinder for me or should I go smaller with the 2.75 inch diameter? I was planning on getting a 3.5 inch diameter cylinder but after reading what you said i think it will just pump my ass lips and not my prolapse. Any advice on this topic would be appreciated.

I've been using lidocaine and benzocaine for anal play for about 6 months now. I've been playing with my ass for 15 years and no matter how much practice or how large my hole it would get irritated from playing and the pain would make me want to stop. Using a numbing cream has solved this problem but also creates other problems. 1 you must be careful with how much you use. These products have the side affect of causing your blood to not accept as much oxygen as it should. The result of this is my asshole will turn blue after applying it. If you keep doing more your fingernails and hands will turn blue. You have to keep this is check or you can cause damage to your organs and end up in the hospital. 2 be careful putting these in your asshole. When. I first started off i felt like putting in my asshole was the only way. For benzocaine it was not a problem but lidocaine it quickly became a problem. Lidocaine is mixed with an acid and has a pH of around 9. I was putting lidocaine on my buttplug and into my hole for 60 minutes for it to take maximum affect. While it made me very numb I started having a bad burning sensation when it would wear off. It was so bad i was using benzocaine to numb the pain of the lidocaine wearing off. I quickly realized that if I'm going to use lidocaine in my asshole it's going to leave me with a chemical burn. If your going to use it once a week it should not be a problem but I was using it daily. Now i only use lidocaine externally and benzocaine internally if needed. 3 keeping the numbing cream away from your cock. It's easier said then done but is very important if you don't want a limp dick. It's very easy to get it someplace you don't want like your cock and will kill your ability to orgasm. While this can be a good training tool to keep you from getting distracted its something to keep in mind. Also you don't want your partner to get it on their cock, face, mouth ect. 4 what type to should you use. From my experience stay away from the dental numbing. Your best bet for 20% benzocaine is over the counter vagisal. For lidocaine over the counter they have a 4% aspercream that i recommend. I wanted to take it to the next level and found a 7% lidocaine cream that's for numbing your skin for tattoos. I get it shipped from China and it's the strongest numbing cream I can find. It's also the one that gave me chemical burns so be careful. It's called tktx green. 5 how i use it. I like to rub the tktx green over my asshole but not in it, trying to get my skin to absorb as much as possible. Then i apply more over my asshole and try to make a 2mm thick layer of it all over my asshole. After that i take some cling wrap and place it over my asshole for 60 to 90 minutes. At first I though it was bs with the cling wrap but after a few months of use I realized how important it is. The cling wrap helps your skin to continue to absorb more of it which will make you even more numb. Im trying to find something that will stay in place better then cling wrap for this. Any ideas? After 60 to 90 minutes i remove the cling wrap and im ready to go. I would not let it sit with the cling wrap on for more then 2 hours. Lately the tktx green has been so strong i have not needed the benzocaine. 6 my results. I found a new fisting partner last week. Got out my tktx green and numbed my asshole for about 90 minutes. When we started to play it was glorious. My hole opened up and the pain was non existent. By the end of the night he has his fist deep inside me about 3 inches from the elbow. My entire body would shake from the pleasure. After about 60 minutes of doggy my topped flipped me over and made me cum with his fist in my ass. It was pure bliss. While you can have a great time with numbing cream like this it's very easy to have a bad time. This is really for advanced players who know their bodies limits and are not afraid of pushing them. If you are afraid of hurting yourself or are the type of person who bleeds a lot i would not recommend the cream but lots of lube and practice. On the other hand if you are like me and have a well worked out hole and are looking to take your play time to the next level give it a try.