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Blood every time in larger anal insertions

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Hi,

I am an experienced anal player, inserting objects and hands in my ass for years.

However, in the past 2 years or so I am experiencing some bleeding whenever I insert something a little larger than a normal sized dildo. There is no pain during the act, but the blood amount gets a bit concerning so I have to stop.

It is a vivid red blood, not just the pinkish smudge that I would get years ago when taking a fist.

The last fisting I took was a bit harsh, a bit faster in and out movement (pure pleasure, no discomfort) and the hand came out very bloody, so my partner had to stop. After that there was no pain and the bleeding stopped immediately.

I've tried giving myself time (3+ months with no anal play) to heal, but as soon as something bigger goes in, even if properly lubed and relaxed, I bleed.

The ideal advice would be going to a doctor, and this is why I created this topic here: this is not a possibility, in my country this would be seen as homosexuality which is not socially accepted, I could lose my job and even get arrested for this. 

So I ask you people who had a similar experience. Apparently I have a would inside my rectum that won't heal, it doesn't cause any discomfort at all, I don't think it's a hemorrhoid, so what could it be? And how to fix it?

 

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Anal fissure. Can only be fixed with surgery. I'd suggest traveling out of country and have it taken care of. Unfortunate that your society is so closed minded.

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14 hours ago, l4zy said:

Anal fissure. Can only be fixed with surgery. I'd suggest traveling out of country and have it taken care of. Unfortunate that your society is so closed minded.

I thought it would be something like that. However, I never tried anything to fix it other than having these 2-3 month breaks.

I've googled it and found: "An anal fissure can be treated with diltiazem cream or botulinum A injections."

Should I try these options first?

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I had an anal fissure once although my symptoms were somewhat different. It took nearly a year to heal on it's own, and healed in such a way that my hole doesn't quite close correctly anymore. If you're not getting blood or pain during your day to day activities and only when you stretch, I'd suggest backing off for a while. Also, anal fissures can occur for non-stretching reasons, and are usually symptoms of bad eating/dehydration. Also, I'd be really careful about letting anyone inject botulinum in me.

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12 hours ago, looseholestwo said:

I had an anal fissure once although my symptoms were somewhat different. It took nearly a year to heal on it's own, and healed in such a way that my hole doesn't quite close correctly anymore. If you're not getting blood or pain during your day to day activities and only when you stretch, I'd suggest backing off for a while. Also, anal fissures can occur for non-stretching reasons, and are usually symptoms of bad eating/dehydration. Also, I'd be really careful about letting anyone inject botulinum in me.

Thanks for your report.

I've tried backing off for 2-3 months twice but it didn't work. Right now I already gave a 2 months rest (from large stuff and fists) and doing just small insertions. So far no blood, I'm trying to build my way up, trying somehow to strengthen the area.

One thing I believe is that I might have 2 fissures, one by the external sphincter (after rough play it hurts when washing with a cold water jet, like there is a cut), and the other one deeper about 7-8 inches, that bleeds a lot whenever something large and deep goes there (a hard dildo or a fist).

Even if I could heal the sphincter one with cream or botulinium, I have no idea about what to do on the deep one.

I don't think bad eating or dehydration are my reasons, I'm pretty sure it was because of harsh play and going to deep/fast without proper lubrication.

 

 

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19 hours ago, jackshit said:

Thanks for your report.

I've tried backing off for 2-3 months twice but it didn't work. Right now I already gave a 2 months rest (from large stuff and fists) and doing just small insertions. So far no blood, I'm trying to build my way up, trying somehow to strengthen the area.

One thing I believe is that I might have 2 fissures, one by the external sphincter (after rough play it hurts when washing with a cold water jet, like there is a cut), and the other one deeper about 7-8 inches, that bleeds a lot whenever something large and deep goes there (a hard dildo or a fist).

Even if I could heal the sphincter one with cream or botulinium, I have no idea about what to do on the deep one.

I don't think bad eating or dehydration are my reasons, I'm pretty sure it was because of harsh play and going to deep/fast without proper lubrication.

 

 

Sure, but I'm saying these conditions occur for non butt play reasons as well so I don't think you should avoid the doctor for that. When I finally started playing again it was a very slow gradual process of working my way back up in size.

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Check yourself for the liver. Anyone with constant bleeding reappearing over time should do it eventually to find out what's behind this. Sometimes you have symptoms that could be leading to one problem but if it doesn't disappear over time then it leads to another. Another potentially dangerous cause could be too high blood pleasure damaging the vessels in the colon. Anyway I would strongly advice checking the liver and pressure for the exact cause. Health is most important factor. 

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On 12/01/2018 at 8:31 PM, looseholestwo said:

Sure, but I'm saying these conditions occur for non butt play reasons as well so I don't think you should avoid the doctor for that. When I finally started playing again it was a very slow gradual process of working my way back up in size.

 

19 hours ago, buskowianka12 said:

Check yourself for the liver. Anyone with constant bleeding reappearing over time should do it eventually to find out what's behind this. Sometimes you have symptoms that could be leading to one problem but if it doesn't disappear over time then it leads to another. Another potentially dangerous cause could be too high blood pleasure damaging the vessels in the colon. Anyway I would strongly advice checking the liver and pressure for the exact cause. Health is most important factor. 

Thanks for the reply guys, I did a health checkup about 2 years ago and everything was fine. I will do another one eventually.

But I'm quite sure the fissures were induced by hard play.

The deep one happened when I had a long (rigid) vibrator that would always hurt when I tried to push it in all the way, but one time when I was about to cum my butt "sucked" it in. I felt a sharp pain and there was a lot of blood on the way out. This was around 2 years ago, since then I get some blood (not nearly as much as that time) anytime something goes that deep.

The other one (external sphincter or just inside) I believe it was fist induced, made the mistake of not taking enough prep time and I believe it caused a fissure.

 

 

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Got the same problem, 

In short it's a weakspot, that re-opens each time something puts pressure on it.  On my side, due to various changes, play became difficult, and while i could take the width, the length was the issue, in short too big ( to deep too soon), and not enough regular play.

It has taken time, and these days I do a lot of warm up prior to moving up to the big 3" + toys, most recent play session, was without issue, first one in months.

So the good news is it can heel, the bad news, small hands gentle play and "normal" short plugs for you, for a while.

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Posted (edited)

UPDATE

Contrary to some recommendations, I decided not to undergo surgery. I've read some reports of people who have done it and some of them had ruined anal play for life because the surgery can mess up your sensitivity in the area making it extremely painful to insert anything. 

Giving it "time" to heal and eating more fiber didn't help, despite being totally fine for bowel movements and pain free, my ass would bleed with anal play and hurt like hell when I cleaned it with the butt water spray.

So about 10 days ago I decided to try something by myself: my own version of something I read online called Standardized Anal Dilatation.

My method consists in inserting a buttplug for about one hour per day. No harsh movements, no cumming with the buttplug on - or anything that would give me contractions while dilated.

On my first 5 days I've used a small (1.5in max diameter) buttplug and it went pretty well, no pain and no blood - which is normal for this size without much movement.

On the 6th day I tried a large one (2.5in), there was a small amount of blood (nothing like before), but I think it was too much because on the next day I had a fever. I took a 3 day break after this.

Today I tried the large plug again (but for a shorter period 10min), and I managed to do it this time almost without any blood - just a very tiny red speck when I wiped it. I also did some self fisting and it was totally fine. Absolutely no pain after. This is the kind of progress I wanted!

I haven't tried anything really deep yet, I will work on the sphincter first.

I'm trying to get an intermediate sized buttplug that I plan to use for 1-2h daily. Will post here about any updates.

SHORT VERSION: A time off did not improve anything for me, I am too afraid of the possible risks of the surgery so I'm experimenting a self daily dilation routine using buttplugs, which appears to be working.

Edited by jackshit

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UPDATE

I was doing pretty well with the daily "exercise" and today I managed to get an inflatable buttplug and decided to give it a go.

I pumped it a little and some blood came out, and it wasn't from the sphincter, it was coming from deeper - around 12-15cm in, I put my hand in there and the tip of my fingers came out bloody. (no pain at all)

Since I was already hurt, I decided to do it just a little more so I could finish myself off. More blood came out, not increasing amount but constant.

However, to my surprise, the bleeding stopped, and I have no idea why. After that I fisted myself, got the buttplug pumped quite large, fisted a bit more...went quite rough and large...and no more blood came out. 

I have no good explanation for that, if it was a wound why would it stop bleeding especially after I did it more vigorously?

 

 

 

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Suggest go and see the doctor (proctologist), dont be shy, you will shy at first time, after first visit you will feel conf4romatble.

Doctor will not remember your ass, there are so many like you he saw.

It happened to me also, i went and see doctor, doctor just told  your anus is very loose, do you have problem with soiling. I said no.

Doctor give me sclerosing injection, and it cured. It happened again after 2-3 years and doctor gave me same injection, and now nor more.

The sclerosing injection make blood vessels shrink.

 

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On 6/18/2018 at 9:40 PM, Melvin said:

Suggest go and see the doctor (proctologist), dont be shy, you will shy at first time, after first visit you will feel conf4romatble.

Doctor will not remember your ass, there are so many like you he saw.

It happened to me also, i went and see doctor, doctor just told  your anus is very loose, do you have problem with soiling. I said no.

Doctor give me sclerosing injection, and it cured. It happened again after 2-3 years and doctor gave me same injection, and now nor more.

The sclerosing injection make blood vessels shrink.

  

Thanks for sharing your experience, I am now just waiting for the grace period from my health insurance (another 2 months) then I will visit a proctologist and probably do a colonoscopy.

UPDATE

I've now narrowed down my anal issues. Here is what I've learned on the past days

- I can now go very big (wide) on anal play without issues. However, I must keep myself limited to around 3 inches deep if I want to avoid blood. I got an inflatable anal plug that is working quite well. My external fissure is pretty much gone, I noticed it's better to not wash my ass after play, just wipe it with an antibacterial wet tissue and then dry toilet paper. No cut, no pain.

- There is ALWAYS blood (painless) when I get past certain point in depth. I bought a very soft tongue shaped buttplug that could never hurt anyone, however I managed to bleed when going around 4-5 inches or deeper.

- I also purchased an endoscope, so I could have a glance of what's happening in there. I managed to spread myself in a way to get a good image, however the endoscope doesn't focus very well when it's touching a wall. But at some point I saw what could be the issue: there are some red things on my colon, that look similar to acne/pimples. There are not too many and they're spread out, I'm pretty sure that they're connected to the bleeding.

I just got tested for a lot of STD's (HIV, Chlamydia, Gono, HepB, Syphilis, a few types of fungus) and I'm clear from all those.

I fear I might have some colon inflammation such as Chron's disease or ulcerative colitis. This is definitely a concern for a doctor visit as soon as I can get my hands on the health insurance. Will keep it updated.

 

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On 1/4/2018 at 11:44 AM, jackshit said:

... in the past 2 years or so I am experiencing some bleeding whenever I insert something a little larger than a normal sized dildo. There is no pain during the act, but the blood amount gets a bit concerning so I have to stop...

I never really worried or cared, on the contrary, it always just got me more horny. A few times there would be a half pint or so of blood and mucus in a bowel under my ass-cunt by the time I'm done stretch-fucking it and finally orgasm. It will just heal up anyway, besides, I stay cleaned out for a couple of days. I don't suggest this kind of self abusive behavior to anyone, but we are trying to pull our guts out of our bodies, so I don't give a crap about this either.

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