japanese way to sex

[gninori]

i usually don't like japanese and brazilian movies (porno) but is there some insight on why jap women have sex the way they have, moaning, crying, etc? annoying to me, at least as viewer, but i want to understand why it's that way almost universal for women and how jap men cope with that
from another site (land of odd) i took here the following discussion. and maybe someone can add something else

Subject: Re: Asian gang-dump,, A HOT ONE,, un-edite

totally doesnt get me off the way most asian porn women frown and whinge, its probably usually rape which isnt cool IMO

Subject: its not 'rape' but a cultural thingy.

the 'perfect' japanese women 'suffers' when feeling lust. Lust is degrading, lust is felt like pain and fighted against. Only when it becomes to much she 'gives in' and accepts it.

It is a cultural thing. Japanese men totally love it. She has to play the unwilling 'victim' that is used and betrayed by her own dark side...

Subject: Re: its not 'rape' but a cultural thingy.

It begs the question: How are Japanese men trained to handle a woman in their own personal lives that truly do not want a sexual relationship?

Subject: Re: its not 'rape' but a cultural thingy.

A different take on it would be that, in a culture of women who pretend not to enjoy sex, the men have to be grateful.

Subject: On the bright side

I hear the age of consent there is 14.

I'm not saying that I prefer 14 year olds, just that it's nice not to card the jailbait. =)


Subject: Re: its not 'rape' but a cultural thingy.

Good point alongtimelurkerandXthtimeposter,, and your exactly right "it's a cultural thing".. I asked my girlfriend one time "who is Asian" what the deal was with it. She told me "first off" its far from being rape,, Asian girls do it for the same reason that any other girl does porn movies, because she wants to and makes good money doing them!! She said, in the Asian cultures its a womans duty to serenader her body to her man for him to pleasure himself with, if she acts like she loves it too, then she is thought of as being a whore.. When an Asian girl is being filmed having sex and acting like she hates it, it allows her to appear to other Asians, that she is not just a common gutter slut!! and Asian men like for them to do it because they feel in control and dominate over them... There's no rape,, the girls love it and are paid well for it,, its just a culture thing.

Subject: Re: Asian gang-dump,, A HOT ONE,, un-edite

sorry don't mean to be unappreciative I love asian porn but hate the way its usually censored or the women totally arent into it Edited October 17, 2007 by gninori

[anllover]

so.... they like to PLAY raping 14 yo girls? so this is a turn on in japan... so why the shit and vomit movies? just to distract us from the real kink? muhahaha

[Tangerine]

the 'perfect' japanese women 'suffers' when feeling lust. Lust is degrading, lust is felt like pain and fighted against. Only when it becomes to much she 'gives in' and accepts it.

It is a cultural thing. Japanese men totally love it. She has to play the unwilling 'victim' that is used and betrayed by her own dark side...

Well said. But now mixed with young generations live-your-life trend.

heeee lot of things to say here but don't know how to start.
But I only had 2 jap Gf so I better ask my son who picked up more.
I saw some jap vids yesterday and yes I was thinking the whining effect could be boring for me too.

It's paradoxal , women are in fact much more free to have sex in their younger years than here and yes they began early , 14 is a common age for a firts fuck attempt 'but my sons done it at the same age in france) and they even know exactly how to excite men at that age, my sweetie told me she left her skirts with other school pupils at the sporting field to excite men lurking behind the fence, shooting pix muhaha. A nice game for them I guess.

I think in japan you can do all you want unless it's hidden. So the use of Love Hotel is perfect for that.

In real life, despite the macho look of jap social patterns, women are the stronger part IMO (and all the jap girls I've met in Paris are strong temper gals but maybe it's a parisian side effect huhu)). Usualy they give their husbands their money every morning and rule the family life.
But it's not only that. When night comes you see many groups of women dining and partying together very freely. They seems really the queens there now and the men looks much more immature in gender realtionship than in the western world. A jap friend of mine living in Paris for 20 years told me that for him Japan is some kind of kindergarden. And I felt the same in my trips there too. That's why I feel so good in Japan huhu.

About the shy attitude it's really an archaic pattern. "No no no, please don't" means "yes" in reality but it's a way it must be for centuries, you'll have to cope with that. But could be hot hot hot and do almost anything you want at the same time. And I had some failure to pick up another japs and i can tell they are not sub at all and can perfectly stop your assault often in a kindly way muahah.
Of course there is much more role play than in our western world but it's already in their culture: each age 15-20-25-30-040 etc of life give them some special costume/role play and social behaviour.

About domination game it sure a classic but part of the usual ancient role games of Japan culture.
It still fits the ancient pattern of submisson to men. And I can tell you it could be great to have your girl taking care of you, whashing you in the bath and giving you sweet massages.
But aren't we also playing power SM games in our couple lives in the west?

About whining and shyness porn patterns i 'd like to know more from jap members here because I know some female thoughts about it but not male.
I know how they react in seeing western vids for example but how react the men? My sweetie said to me that most of her male friends are boried by our overexposed and crude manners on sex (hey man, saw my wide open holes ? ).
To be continued.... ^
BANZAI NIHON ! (^ ^) Edited October 17, 2007 by Tangerine

[prolaptotron]

it's a religious thing. like eating dogs and being a ninja.

[Tangerine]

it's a religious thing. like eating dogs and being a ninja.

they never eat dog, korean and chinese do. They just eat dolphin, whale and ninja turtles like I do.
And the beef of Kobe is a must, a new thing introduce in the XIXth centuriy, so they made cattle drink beer to relax so they massage them ! And the taste of this meat is so incredible then, all the grease is perfectly mixed in the meat. ^(^ ^) Edited October 17, 2007 by Tangerine

[RSBBShadow]

Thanks Tang for the inside view on jap cook but do you eat your jap turds with chopsticks or not ? AHAHAHAHAHAHAH Edited October 17, 2007 by RSBBShadow

[Tangerine]

Thanks Tang for the inside view on jap cook but do you eat your jap turds with chopsticks or not ? AHAHAHAHAHAHAH

I'm not at all in turd main course diner but yes chopsticks are perfect to play with inside the spec opened hole muahah how did you guess it? (^ ^)

[alongeasy]

ive once read in the newspaper that there is a survey on sex. Its tell us that more jap female have a satisfying sex with their partner.
As long as they satisfied, who cares??!!

[gershi]

i always thought that japanese people are crazy but i love them

another insight on japanese culture Edited October 22, 2007 by gershi