What happened to my anal orgasms?

[adventurous1]

This is my first post on this board.

I have been playing with anal toys for over 7 years.

When I first started with the larger butt plugs (2.5-3.5 inch) I started having these new orgasms which were longer and multiple. I believe they involve the prostate. It was the most incredible discovery about anal play. I knew that I was hooked.

 

After the first year or so I realized that I rarely have these intense multiple orgasms any more. I do still have them occasionally with one or two of my toys but the orgasms are not as intense as before. 

 

Has anyone else experienced this?

 

Could there be something in my diet that has changed my ability to have these multiple prostate orgasms?

 

Could it be that I am so stretched out now that my prostate does not get the same pressure as it once did?  

 

Any help here would be greatly appreciated.     

[adventurous1]

bump.

 

Anybody want to comment?

[rosebuttninja]

I'm jealous you have multiple orgasms. Once I cum, I'm done for a while. I can't really comment on why you would cease to experience them anymore. Have you tried giving yourself a few weeks to heal between playtimes?

[bliindsided]

ejaculation and anal orgasm are different. anal orgasm are just like female vaginal orgasm I think. ive had 1 or 2 or 3 of them in my life, very elusive.

 

I think your answer lies there. they're elusive. requires to let go of all outside stimuli, all worries, just keep playing

[nicopama]

maybe it doesnt turn you on like the first time

[yesyesgame]

I have found that there is only so far you can go with size and movement. Try staying still sat on a midsize toy for a few minutes and just concentrate on the sensation, then move slowly. This always does it for me.

[tzstt]

I think it is like anything that has been over stimulated - your body grows accustomed to it, and becomes less sensative.

 

I've never reached orgasm via anal play, but I thorouglhy enjoy the anal ''spasms" (for lack of a better word - the sensation of your subconscious muscles trying to push it out, and convulsing when it does come out) from inserting large objects, which tends to fade over time with regular play due to the fact that my body has become used to the size of the object, and is mroe stretched out than it used to be.

 

If you can abstain, I recommend you hold off for a while, and try again. I beleive it takes 8-12 weeks for the body to both acclimate and de-acclimate to various stimulations.

 

If that doesn't work, you'll have to try something that hits the spot in the same place, but in a new way...like something that vibrates

[oregongaper]

If you only play solo with toys, perhaps it's time to find someone to actually fist you. Just a suggestion...

 

Or, it might be time to go bigger with your toys.  There's really no shame in that,

[mauffra]

You sould try the Bam !

[Spoekman]

I might have to check out the bam...

 

I have to pump my prostate with a couple of fingers to get the ejaculation, but it´s not a full orgasm.. I still havent been able to do it with a toy and I must admit I´m a bit jealous of those who can...

[adventurous1]

Thanks for all the good input. I took a break from anal play due to a home project which is now done. I plan to resume tomorrow morning. I have taken breaks before. I have to start with my smaller toys and be patient or I will bleed. It takes me about 4 sessions before I can resume using my biggest toys after a break.

 

I do think that my initial multiple anal orgasms (as many as 6-8 per session) were related to the "discovery" of a new "self" pleasure. I recall the urge to push and the anal orgasm that I am referring to seems to be related to that.

 

I am now fairly stretched out, so the need to push is not there any more.  

 

I can't help but think that once I got used to passing the first sphincter at around 7-9 inches deep with a 2.5 inch toy, the need to push subsided.  

 

I will keep searching for the right toy to bring those sensations back.

 

At one point I was wondering if my use of poppers may have caused me to loose sensation. So I stopped using poppers for quite awhile.  

[nicopama]

What is your age? Age counts big in the way we cumm...

[adventurous1]

I'm 60. Maybe it is my age. I still enjoy it but it is not as "new" as it was 7 years ago when I started.

 

My pleasure now seems to be connected to how large and deep I can take and how comfortable it is to hold for longer periods. I watch porn while I stretch.

[adventurous1]

Thanks again for all the ideas.

I have now been able to stimulate the anal orgasm that I was referring to. For me it is definitely linked to the feeling of the need to push. The best toy I have for this is the  4 Stage Rocket (small) by Gold Dreams (GD7520). I am comfortable until I go all the way down on this. I can hold it for 5-10 seconds before I get the spasm that causes the orgasm. It is not painful. I remember when I had this feeling with the 3 Stage Rocket. Now, that one is too comfortable and I do not feel the need to push and hence no orgasm.