nicopama

i think artifitial ways of doing thinks can't be good in the long run

i think any position that help relaxe your gluteus muscle the most

I always keep a bigger toy aside when i'm dilating my ass with the regular one, so when i feel it is the moment, i try with the bigger one. If it fits in, then this new one become the regular one. When it does not so i have to wait... till the next session...

maybe 5.1"   https://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/the-ram-and-cram-butt-plug_1898.html   8.1"   https://www.extremerestraints.com/huge-dildos_186/moby-huge-3ft-dildo_8992.html

I agree whit that. You can also try a deep insertion with a cilindrical dildo retiring it at different speeds till you find the adecuate to create a prolapse.

unusal... maybe is not "that" unusual but i really like to fuck my ass with my tennis raquet...

As I said... fuck her in her ass everytime you can, really hard, till she starts feeling some pain. It wont take long for her to tell you to stop, and if you want to feel to know how it feels in the ass when she ask you to stop. At that point you only have to say as if it's nothing... "sure, let's try... it shoudn't be that hard..."

So the dildo conforms to the body ...

How dirty is she in bed? she has to be dirty... she has to like anal sex, try making anal sex everytime you have sex and see how she reacts...

I think there is a big difference between a butt plug and a dildo. A dildo to FUCK you should be thinner, i think maybe 3.25 inches diameter.   https://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=GD7510   https://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=GD7530

i want to get assfisted...   (just testing)

I guess in the shower ...

this part... when your ass get relaxed and you are able to do this:  

I love cucumbers, i shape butt plugs out of them, and after plugging myself i rubber a cucumber on my cock's upper side till i cumm.   I also like fucking my ass with a big cucumber while I fuck my "virtual pussy" which i create bending my dick backwards between my legs and masturbating my cock sliding the cucumber in and off that "virtual pussy"

  ...gonna try that...