an very old question for a very dumb hp

[hornyporny]

hei board,

sorry, i know this MUST have been talked over and over again in this board (or in former times). i ask it anyway, cause the answers have not been good enough - or lets say not explicit enough...

1.) i have seen a lot of pics or videos where a women or a man gets her whole arm into the ass of a man. even here in the board i have seen a lot of pictures from mebmers, that show arms up to the sholder in the ass of a male.

my question: how is this possible? so - is the arm really that far up? is it photoshopped? are those fists really up somewhere where other organs should be? - i mean even a mediumsized women would have her arm at the hight of a lung.... and last but not least - how does it feel - or what do you feel?

2.) why are there no women with such extreme inserts in their asses? i mean not even ty does such massive an deep insertions like some man do? is there some physical difference?


sorry - but id really like an very direct answer to this whole topic

thanks

[z3n0mal4]

i'm pretty curious too ... cause i learned in class that the colon is not straight , it's curved , something like a upside down U .
isn't it dangerous to push a corner ? will it not break ? or damage some internal stuff ?

[anllover]

is like intestines, which they use to stuff sausage. it can move and snake around a bit to accommodate an arm. and no i haven't done it but have seen enough clips to be pretty f'en sure it is true.
and yes it isn't the safest thing but with all things extreme, just be knowledgeable and play safe... and above all listen to your body. hell amazing ty taught us that in most of her earlier movies.

[ultradude]

It is real and in my mind very very dangerous.

Getting past the rectum is hard enough, I have only twiddled with a finger past it once or twice out of curiosity.

There's no way in hell I would risk going further, just because this part of the body is so insensitive to pain, so if you puncture or tear something, you might not know until you withdraw and blood gushes out!!! Then it's a trip to the emergency room and surgery or a high chance of peritonitis and death. Scary stuff!

[gershi]

can´t answer the second question. i always wonder myself why men are much more extreme than women when it comes to ass play

concerning the first question and all the discussed health issues i refer to the site that imho has the best information about ass fisting: http://www.winternet.com/~redright/fistfact.htm

some quotes from there (btw, handballing = fisting):

It has not been very long since the days when I simply did not believe that someone could actually place their entire hand into someone else's rectum; nor could I conceive of anyone wanting to do that. The reality of it came home when I witnessed the act at the Black Party of a popular Manhattan disco. That night I not only witnessed someone fistfuck another man, but he went in all the way to the shoulder! Needless to say I was nonplussed. As I stood there, drink in hand, watching this event occur on a stage set up above the bar, the only thought that ran through my mind was "that man is not going to walk out of here alive." Not only did he survive the experience, but as fate had it, I met him a couple of years later. He turned out to be one of the sweetest, gentlest and kindest men I ever met.

Although depth is not the object of handball, there are many men who enjoy depth, but there are few who can take it to the shoulder. Tom has over 10 years experience as a bottom and he has never experienced an injury. He explained to me that he is very careful about whom he plays with and he avoids heavy drugs.

Although the image of handball is strong, aggressive and powerful, it is really a very gentle, caring and intimate act. When I first heard about handballing, I mentally relegated it to the realm of the kinky and bizarre; an act performed by perverts and sado- masochists. Today I either have to consider myself a pervert or believe it to be an act that, although extreme, is definitely within the realm of physical possibility and the spectrum of acceptable sexual behavior. No matter what view one may hold of handballing, and whether or not one chooses to participate in this activity, it is nothing to be afraid of. Handballing is simply another way of exploring the feelings that the body has to offer.

Some argue that handball is not natural. But is there any form of sex that is 'natural'? The only type of sex that I would call 'natural' is heterosexual coitus for the purpose of procreation - and even straights have abandoned that notion. Sex for pleasure is purely the product of the human mind. Oddly enough even some men who are continuously searching for bigger and bigger dicks and think nothing of inserting large dildoes and other objects into their asses, find the thought of handballing appalling. Many men fear releasing control to another person. Yet, the level of trust and intimacy that handball requires is central to the intense physical and psychological pleasures that it provides.

The question "Is Handball Dangerous?" can be easily answered: yes it is. So is smoking cigarettes, driving a car, crossing the street, and taking a bath. The question should really be "is handball so dangerous that it should be avoided?" The answer to that question is not as simple and requires one to analyze the available information, weigh the possible risks against the pleasures, and decide for oneself. The little that is written on the subject is contradictory.
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Stories of deaths resulting from fist-fucking are rampant; especially among non-fist-fuckers. One would have to be a true idiot to pursue something the inevitable result of which would be one's demise. I assure you that handballers are not suicidal. I found no substantiation of any death resulting from fist-fucking. Injury can occur and it the injury is serious and left uncared for, death can result. Death would then be a function of stupidity and not fist-fucking. Contrary to what Mr. Fenwick says in The Advocate Guide to Gay Health, you would feel this type of injury. Peritonitis resulting from perforating the colon produces severe cramps.

I have attended numerous handball parties and have met at least a thousand men who are handballers. Not once have I witnessed an injury of any sort and at the end of each party everyone who attended walked out both happy and very much alive. This to me is the best evidence of the relative safety of handballing.

I am an experienced Handball top. I’m in my fifties, and had my first fist experience in my twenties, shortly after I moved to New York. I have been versatile, and have enjoyed fisting and being fisted, but for a long time now, I have been exclusively a top. That isn’t a dominance trip; it’s simply what I prefer. For me, handball is more than just one man shoving his hands or arms into another man’s hole. It’s a lot more than that. To be safe, and in my opinion, to be fun and exciting, it requires some knowledge of what you are doing, and a lot of mutual trust and respect. Handball is all about trust, guys. I'm writing as a top, and I thank any gods who will listen that there are bottoms out there willing to play with me, but they are putting themselves in (or more literally, on) my hands, and I take that trust very seriously.
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The trust works both ways: I trust the bottom to communicate with me; tell me what feels good and what doesn't, tell me if I'm going too fast or too slow; I'm not a mind-reader. For the gods’ sake, tell me if I'm hurting you, that is not my scene. "Enhancements" (that means poppers or other drugs) are fine, in moderation, but if I have a bottom who is too drugged out to know what I am doing to him or what's happening, I will stop the scene immediately. Talk to me, look at me -- I'm not "doing" you, we're doing this together. The psychic and emotional connection is just as important as the physical, that's what makes "handball sex" more than just jamming your arm in someone's ass.

Any good top knows that the bottom is always really in control in sane, mutual scenes, no matter how kinky or rough the play might be. But the top is the one who is “running the show” during the scene, and when I’m topping, I know that I have certain responsibilities.

[sunbelly]

hei board,

sorry, i know this MUST have been talked over and over again in this board (or in former times). i ask it anyway, cause the answers have not been good enough - or lets say not explicit enough...

1.) i have seen a lot of pics or videos where a women or a man gets her whole arm into the ass of a man. even here in the board i have seen a lot of pictures from mebmers, that show arms up to the sholder in the ass of a male.

my question: how is this possible? so - is the arm really that far up? is it photoshopped? are those fists really up somewhere where other organs should be? - i mean even a mediumsized women would have her arm at the hight of a lung.... and last but not least - how does it feel - or what do you feel?

2.) why are there no women with such extreme inserts in their asses? i mean not even ty does such massive an deep insertions like some man do? is there some physical difference?
sorry - but id really like an very direct answer to this whole topic

thanks

Hi, I'd like to add my 2 cents worth about physical differences between men and women. I can vouch for that, having caused my prostate gland to bleed (pissed blood afterwards)! And the other thing is speculation : I think women have more stretchable muscles than men [it's a fact that men have more 'striated' muscle than women] and it is easier to stretch a woman's hole than a man's - generally speaking, because there are also individual tolerances.

[RSBBShadow]

Never saw Mr Fantastic fisted by the Invisible girl on YouTube? HAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Edited August 22, 2007 by RSBBShadow

[hornyporny]

so far not the answers i hoped to get

[anllover]

so far not the answers i hoped to get

being a smart ass here is the answer you are looking for;

men are filled with marshmallow and women are full of figs... easier to push through marshmallow...



but honestly i know you are looking for a direct answer and i bet many of us are but there arent that many "player" who do that and then you have to wait for them to come around to talk about it. so maybe the BS and what not will keep the topic visible untill then.

although for #2 it would be safe to assume most women get a feeling from it and get be happy while most guys are more extreme (and greedy) and always want more more more more more until you are stuck figuring our how to get that pesky shoulder in.



there are no stupid questions, just stupid answers

[hornyporny]

well to your part 2 ..

women are greedy as hell - and i guess some company would pay a ass full of money to get that on video...

[Tangerine]

THX for your quotes on Hanballing, Gershi ! (^ ^) Hornyporny your avatar gif makes my day ! Edited August 28, 2007 by Tangerine

[hornyporny]

bump!!!