Sphincter damaged by stretching, what to do?

[sss222]

Hi everyone,

it's my first post here

I am a beginner in stretching my ass. Some time ago, I wanted to go bigger and I made a stupid mistake, I was too fast with stretching. Now ass damaged. Which means, sphincter is permanently overstretched and it feels very bad, it feels like my ass is open the whole time. I went to a proctologist, he advised to do kegel exercises, it helped a little but not much. He doesn't want to operate because he says my sphincter is still normal for my age. But I don't agree, it feels much too wide. What to do now? Anyone have experience with this? Can width of the sphincter be reduced surgically?

If you don't want to answer here you can send me an email, too. Edited May 22, 2012 by sss222

[BodyAss]

Is there are any other particular issues other than feelings?

From my POV, it's your new ass and if there is only feelings - just get used to it and enjoy yourself. In other case - write it out here.

[sss222]

Yes there were other issues in the beginning, like minor fecal incontinence. It's not that I needed a diaper, but I could hold back only much shorter. It's definitely not enjoyable, it feels terrible. As I said the proctologist recommended to do kegel exercises, which helped a bit but the sphincter is still overstretched, I can feel it if I go in with my fingers, there is only a very weak resistance. I really wonder why the doctor said it's normal wide for my age, it's definitely not, and I want to do something about it... so I'm particularly looking for other people with this issue who had success with surgery or have any other idea what to do Edited May 22, 2012 by sss222

[BodyAss]

Well, you better listen to your doctor, man, not "the other guy".

Yes, it is harder to hold back sometimes, it feels looser when you put fingers there (because that's the way it works - you put something in and get stretched more and more, what is fun). Just get used to it, that's all

[sss222]

Well I think a little different. Yes stretching is a lot of fun, but it shouldn't go to the point where it damages your body and you have to wear diapers or something like that. I definitely can't get used to this loose feeling, almost a year has passed and I didn't do any stretching again, in fear that it may get even worse...

[Kein_Mitleid]

Hey there. Sorry to hear about that. I've never heard of a sphincter be permanently damaged... how did the overlarge object (and how large was the object that damaged you versus your regular toys/insertions?) get in there?

A sphincterectomy is quite a risky surgery, from what I can gather. Talk to a competent surgeon or proctologist about your options that don't involve surgery. Perhaps an improvement in your diet can help too.

[sss222]

It was an eggplant
It wasn't even that large, I bought the smallest I could find. It wasn't so big compared to other toys I used before. And I used a lot of lube. But I was too impatient, even when it hurt I pushed further and that was a stupid mistake.

How do you mean, sphincterectomy? That would be to remove the sphincter, of course I don't want to do that... I just want to tighten it, like it was before. But apparently it's not possible, I can't find any info on the net. Diet does not help, the biggest problem is not that I have to go to the toilet, but it simply feels very bad. It feels like my ass is gaping all the time

I told the proctologist about it, but he said he won't do anything, because my sphincter is still tight enough according to his examination. But it was much tighter before. He didn't really listen to my problem. Maybe I have to visit another one...

So I can advise everyone reading this, don't be stupid like me and stop when it's painful, and take your time!!! Edited May 22, 2012 by sss222

[misogynist]

I don't reckon this is serious. Just rest and it will get better. Sphincter is a muscle, you could have just pulled it.

[sss222]

It's now been a year since it happened and sadly it hasn't got any better. The sphincter is not just like any other muscle, because it's one of the few which you can intentionally overstretch by a huge margin and thus damage it permanently. This is not possible with other muscles.

[Rosebutt]

This is obviously a goof. Dude, you couldn't possibly be THAT misinformed, could you?

[sss222]

You mean me? If so then tell me how I am misinformed Edited May 23, 2012 by sss222

[Kein_Mitleid]

Though you're right about the etymology of sphincterectomy, most such procedures only remove a small part (think of a single slice of pizza removed from the whole, thus the sphincter's ring is reduced and hopefully, tightened).

[sss222]

That would be sphincteroplasty, yes. But this is quite radical and only useful for people with severe incontinence or even a ruptured sphincter. Mine is still intact, it's only too wide. So I'd like to know if there is any other, less aggressive method which my proctologist does not know of...

[Melvin]

Don't do surgery. After cutting your sphincter it wont become normal, it has scar tissue and it wont stretch like before, u will feel very pain ful when u do anal, nature is the best, the sphincter will goes back to normal after a month.

[misterfox]

Yeh, you're panicing mate. Surgery is totally unnecessary, get into a kegel routine if you're worried - it helps keep your dick hard and in my experience keeps your ass strong even if you are stretching.

[misogynist]

I wonder how girls like HKJ go on about shitting? Do you reckon she has problems holding it in?

[redrick]

I doubt she has any problem at all holding it.

[BodyAss]

[quote name='redrick' date='03 June 2012 - 10:13 PM' timestamp='1338750795' post='607574']
I doubt she has any problem at all holding it.
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That depends on density of "it" If it's diarrhea days, it could be wise to do some enema before leaving house. On the oher hand, any "normal" person can shit it's pants with diarrhea.