Anal Chick Needs Female Mentor

[shannaluvsit]

I've been a member of the Rosebuttboard for a number of years but have largely remained in the shadows.

I am finally posting in this manner because I am seeking out friendship, advice, mentoring, guidance, what-have-you, from other women who either classify themselves as having greater than a passing interest in anal sex. To be more direct, I guess I'm looking for women who find that anal sex hits them in places sexually that few other things seem to be able to do. For my part, I find myself completely and totally fixated on all things ass--rimming, penetration, and yes, even shit.

On the surface, I'm something of a typical good-girl, meaning that a I'm kind, caring, outgoing, down-to-Earth, law abiding citizen, etc. I'm open with friends, family, etc., about being gay, but my perpetually horned-up, queer side, basically my inner anal whore, is something I'm very discreet about. I've even been fortunate enough to meet a little more than a handful of women who've been willing to bend me over and give it to me in the ass via strap-on. However, only a few of them have really given me anything close to deep, rough, unapologetic pounding that I truly need and crave.

I look at women like DirtyGardenGirl and RoxyRaye in total amazement. While I'm pretty sure I'll never get to their level, I do aspire to be the physical actualization of my inner anal slut. Hope that makes sense. Basically, I love love love to be stretched and filled and I have purchased for myself over the past few years a few very large toys. Using them, and I've only ever used them on myself, takes a significant amount of warm-up time. Once I get into that zone, though, there are few places I'm unwilling to go. I just wish it didn't take so long for me to get there physically.

Which brings me to my original point. I really would like to speak with other women who've either been in a similar circumstance or find themselves in the same position as I am. I'm very open-minded, even just having a friend who fantasizes about such things would be nice. Definitely doesn't seem to be too many of us out there.

[Rosebutt]

You're not going to find a lot of women here, that's for sure.
I wish you luck, however.

[shannaluvsit]

[quote name='Rosebutt' date='09 June 2011 - 08:55 PM' timestamp='1307678121' post='325088']
You're not going to find a lot of women here, that's for sure.
I wish you luck, however.
[/quote]

I had a feeling. Thanks.

[peteyboy]

[quote name='shannaluvsit' date='09 June 2011 - 03:27 PM' timestamp='1307633235' post='324665']
I've been a member of the Rosebuttboard for a number of years but have largely remained in the shadows.

I am finally posting in this manner because I am seeking out friendship, advice, mentoring, guidance, what-have-you, from other women who either classify themselves as having greater than a passing interest in anal sex. To be more direct, I guess I'm looking for women who find that anal sex hits them in places sexually that few other things seem to be able to do. For my part, I find myself completely and totally fixated on all things ass--rimming, penetration, and yes, even shit.

On the surface, I'm something of a typical good-girl, meaning that a I'm kind, caring, outgoing, down-to-Earth, law abiding citizen, etc. I'm open with friends, family, etc., about being gay, but my perpetually horned-up, queer side, basically my inner anal whore, is something I'm very discreet about. I've even been fortunate enough to meet a little more than a handful of women who've been willing to bend me over and give it to me in the ass via strap-on. However, only a few of them have really given me anything close to deep, rough, unapologetic pounding that I truly need and crave.

I look at women like DirtyGardenGirl and RoxyRaye in total amazement. While I'm pretty sure I'll never get to their level, I do aspire to be the physical actualization of my inner anal slut. Hope that makes sense. Basically, I love love love to be stretched and filled and I have purchased for myself over the past few years a few very large toys. Using them, and I've only ever used them on myself, takes a significant amount of warm-up time. Once I get into that zone, though, there are few places I'm unwilling to go. I just wish it didn't take so long for me to get there physically.

Which brings me to my original point. I really would like to speak with other women who've either been in a similar circumstance or find themselves in the same position as I am. I'm very open-minded, even just having a friend who fantasizes about such things would be nice. Definitely doesn't seem to be too many of us out there.
[/quote]
I agree with the posters above, but it would be great to see pictures of what you got.....

[gninori]

[quote name='peteyboy' date='12 June 2011 - 10:26 PM' timestamp='1307906775' post='327320']
I agree with the posters above, but it would be great to see pictures of what you got.....
[/quote]
the best way to shy women away Edited June 12, 2011 by gninori

[Guest deeply]

[quote name='gninori' date='12 June 2011 - 09:23 PM' timestamp='1307910222' post='327362']
the best way to shy women away
[/quote]

She seems to be asking for attention and acceptance, so perhaps she wouldn't mind prompting.

OK... so maybe this post is a little rushed, but have yet to understand a girl, that doesn't mind penetration, but can't stand guys.

Dispositions and preferences, are different... but getting a "connection," as it were... simply requires two individuals.

Afraid of pregnancy? Afraid of involuntary domination? Or something else?

OK, so can appreciate an eye for girls. But usually, these kind of "man" issues, are caused by insecurities over one's own looks. A girl that looks at herself in a mirror, feels great, usually isn't (from experience) batting on THAT side.

Have "turned" many (whatever that means... immature to give it a name, really), and another thing, can be Father issues.

Whatever it is, don't act all "distant," like this is some kind of "identity" bullshit. If it's genetic, then it's like dyslexia: catch it early, and then it fully breaks. If it's behavioral, then it's a state of mind. Treating sexuality like a religion? Join a convent.

Pushing probably a lot of buttons, but that's this individual's style: blunt.

[puppy]

[quote name='deeply' date='12 June 2011 - 09:16 PM' timestamp='1307931397' post='327505']
She seems to be asking for attention and acceptance, so perhaps she wouldn't mind prompting.

OK... so maybe this post is a little rushed, but have yet to understand a girl, that doesn't mind penetration, but can't stand guys.

Dispositions and preferences, are different... but getting a "connection," as it were... simply requires two individuals.

Afraid of pregnancy? Afraid of involuntary domination? Or something else?

OK, so can appreciate an eye for girls. But usually, these kind of "man" issues, are caused by insecurities over one's own looks. A girl that looks at herself in a mirror, feels great, usually isn't (from experience) batting on THAT side.

Have "turned" many (whatever that means... immature to give it a name, really), and another thing, can be Father issues.

Whatever it is, don't act all "distant," like this is some kind of "identity" bullshit. If it's genetic, then it's like dyslexia: catch it early, and then it fully breaks. If it's behavioral, then it's a state of mind. Treating sexuality like a religion? Join a convent.

Pushing probably a lot of buttons, but that's this individual's style: blunt.
[/quote]

Wow, you sure do have women all figured out, don't you.

[Guest deeply]

[quote name='puppy' date='16 June 2011 - 09:31 PM' timestamp='1308256274' post='330464']
Wow, you sure do have women all figured out, don't you.
[/quote]

Don't play games, keep them keen, give them space. It's not tough.

[commoncurtise1]

[quote name='deeply' date='16 June 2011 - 04:17 PM' timestamp='1308269829' post='330582']
Don't play games, keep them keen, give them space. It's not tough.
[/quote]


We're all envious that we don't know a girl who openly expresses herself like this. Realistically, if you're a member of RBB then you only dream of meeting this girl.

Shanna, why don't you try a gay fetish personals website to hook up with a girl who shares our interests. It's much more realistic for a girl to find another girl on the internet who may be interested in exploring anal play with you than it is for a guy to find another girl.

Good luck.

[Guest deeply]

[quote name='commoncurtise1' date='17 June 2011 - 05:49 AM' timestamp='1308286191' post='330646']
We're all envious that we don't know a girl who openly expresses herself like this. Realistically, if you're a member of RBB then you only dream of meeting this girl.
[/quote]

That's subjective: many users on this board have wives or girlfriends.

Regularly coming to this board, merely means being interested in coming to this board.

It's one tab out of many.

[shannaluvsit]

[quote name='commoncurtise1' date='16 June 2011 - 09:49 PM' timestamp='1308286191' post='330646']
We're all envious that we don't know a girl who openly expresses herself like this. Realistically, if you're a member of RBB then you only dream of meeting this girl.

Shanna, why don't you try a gay fetish personals website to hook up with a girl who shares our interests. It's much more realistic for a girl to find another girl on the internet who may be interested in exploring anal play with you than it is for a guy to find another girl.

Good luck.
[/quote]

That makes a lot of sense. I've heard about both collarme and fetlife, though they're not gay/lesbian specific. Are there any others you'd recommend?

[meganuke40]

Never had any positive experiences with collarme or fetlife. Your best bet would be to use non-sexual means of meeting a possible sexual/relationship partner, and get to know them first on the basis of an individual rather than their kinks. In my experience, most people who like you a lot as a person and become involved with you in a relationship are likely to have an open mind about trying out kinks that you like if it's important to you.

Thinking about it another way - if you meet someone based on kinks, and a relationship forms, how will you know if they really like you for you, or if they only like you for your kinks? If someday you decided you weren't as excited by that kink, what happens then?

Food for thought.

[BlackrockBoss]

[quote name='deeply' date='12 June 2011 - 09:16 PM' timestamp='1307931397' post='327505']
She seems to be asking for attention and acceptance, so perhaps she wouldn't mind prompting.

OK... so maybe this post is a little rushed, but have yet to understand a girl, that doesn't mind penetration, but can't stand guys.

Dispositions and preferences, are different... but getting a "connection," as it were... simply requires two individuals.

Afraid of pregnancy? Afraid of involuntary domination? Or something else?

OK, so can appreciate an eye for girls. But usually, these kind of "man" issues, are caused by insecurities over one's own looks. A girl that looks at herself in a mirror, feels great, usually isn't (from experience) batting on THAT side.

Have "turned" many (whatever that means... immature to give it a name, really), and another thing, can be Father issues.

Whatever it is, don't act all "distant," like this is some kind of "identity" bullshit. If it's genetic, then it's like dyslexia: catch it early, and then it fully breaks. If it's behavioral, then it's a state of mind. Treating sexuality like a religion? Join a convent.

Pushing probably a lot of buttons, but that's this individual's style: blunt.
[/quote]

What a load of horseshit!

[gninori]

i wonder what happened to deeply

[t.j. the pimp]

[quote name='Rosebutt' date='09 June 2011 - 07:55 PM' timestamp='1307678121' post='325088']
[b]You're not going to find a lot of women here[/b], that's for sure.
I wish you luck, however.
[/quote]


guess then i oughta change this up then...

http://www.rosebuttboard.com/index.php?showtopic=72607