A Question for Starting Out

[lonely]

I've got a question: If I can stick a Crayola marker up my there, could I handle a medium butt plug without hurting anything, or should I go with a small? I'm not trying to stretch or anything, I'm just trying to get the thrill of having something up there.

Also, what is the max amount of time you'd suggest for keeping it in there?

::EDIT 10/12/07:: Please read post 13: http://www.rosebuttboard.com/index.php?sho...0&gopid=58081&#

I figured I'd reuse my thread rather than make a new one. If any of the mods think a new one would be better, I'd be more than happy to oblige. Edited October 13, 2007 by Lonely

[metallica]

I've got a question: If I can stick a Crayola marker up my there, could I handle a medium butt plug without hurting anything, or should I go with a small? I'm not trying to stretch or anything, I'm just trying to get the thrill of having something up there.

Also, what is the max amount of time you'd suggest for keeping it in there?

You should better go with the small one 1st and when you handle that one,you can go to bigger ones.
Mhm. i kept a plug in like the whole day.

[mxdil]

I think a medium plug would be ok, but be sure to use lube and take your time to insert. You can wear it about as long as it feels comfortable. And if you're planning to wear it for a longer period per day, i'd certainly recommend you to go for the medium. Maybe buy one of those anal plug starter's kits? I think they come in three different sizes in one pack.

[ktnpc]

I've got a question: If I can stick a Crayola marker up my there, could I handle a medium butt plug without hurting anything, or should I go with a small? I'm not trying to stretch or anything, I'm just trying to get the thrill of having something up there.

Also, what is the max amount of time you'd suggest for keeping it in there?

lonely, you sound like me whan i first started to "play". i enjoyed the feeling of just something being there, the biggest problem i had was getting my body just to relax and accept something going the "wrong way" but we took things slow and even now it is just nice to feel something there and other times i want more.

as for the max amount of time suggested for keeping it there, the only one that can answer that is you as you know when you have had enough and you know what you feel comfortable taking, if you are unsure take it slow and small but always listen to your body as it will tell you when you have had enough.

am i wrong guys?

mistress

[lonely]

I was thinking about a starter set. My main problem thus far is I still live with my parents (beats paying for a dorm for a college in a city I already live in) and I don't want them opening up a box full of butt plugs. I'm still not that thrilled with going into an "adult novelties" shop either, so I'm in kind of a rut.

I've thought of a PO box, but that's $50 for six months. Anyone know of cheap alternative mailing ideas?

Alright, with the time I was more worried about chapping and chafing. That kind of thing.

I've been experimenting for the past few months, (I have you give http://foone.org/7898/realli/ credit for getting me interested) and I've tried various "improvised" items. Best thing I've found is the marker like I've said before, though a vibrating razor and small bottle of shampoo went the wrong way too. Both got blood though, and neither were mine, so that's why they were a one time deal.

[ktnpc]

I was thinking about a starter set. My main problem thus far is I still live with my parents (beats paying for a dorm for a college in a city I already live in) and I don't want them opening up a box full of butt plugs. I'm still not that thrilled with going into an "adult novelties" shop either, so I'm in kind of a rut.

I've thought of a PO box, but that's $50 for six months. Anyone know of cheap alternative mailing ideas?

Alright, with the time I was more worried about chapping and chafing. That kind of thing.

I've been experimenting for the past few months, (I have you give http://foone.org/7898/realli/ credit for getting me interested) and I've tried various "improvised" items. Best thing I've found is the marker like I've said before, though a vibrating razor and small bottle of shampoo went the wrong way too. Both got blood though, and neither were mine, so that's why they were a one time deal.

lonely i understand your shyness and concerns but why are you worried about your parents opening a package of toys? its your mail. if anyone opened my mail withut my prior permission i would go crazy.

i dont know about there huni but here a lot of shops that sell lingerie also sell toys etc so it quite easy to go shopping for lingerie and just pick up a novalty or two.

you talk of chafing, i used to feel uncomfortable but i found that if i showered and used talc to make sure i was totally dry after i didnt get any problems, its only when i find myself in situations were i feel hot and clammy that i feel uncomportable and tha is mostly in the hot weather.

this may sound silly to some but if it is just the feeling for now then have you tried something that you have in the house, like carrots for instance? it will save you embarrasement as it is normal vegetable nd as long as you make sure you wash i thoroughly i wont hurt you and do be sure to throw it away after and not give it to your parents to eat after, lol

mistress Edited June 8, 2007 by kinkytrev and the mistress

[bigdil]

I guess that you want lube, that doesn't look like anal lube, and a sex toy, that doesn't look like a dildo or anal plug....

For lube, try Vaseline. It is a bit messy, but once warm it does a good job. Other people have tried margerine.

For a starter "toy" try a roll on deodorant bottle. Other "toys" could be screwdrivers, the handgrip from a bicycle.... I'm thinking here....

[mxdil]

For lube, try Vaseline. It is a bit messy, but once warm it does a good job. Other people have tried margerine.

For a starter "toy" try a roll on deodorant bottle. Other "toys" could be screwdrivers, the handgrip from a bicycle.... I'm thinking here....

When I was still living with my old folks, I tried both margerine and vaseline. Vaseline is sticky, it smells and doesn't do that great a lube job when you actually want to fuck yourself (and thus make rapid movements). Margerine is easier to use and better to 'fuck'. But, why not buy a normal water based lube? You can find it about everywhere and any understanding parent wouldn't doubt you if you said you use it to masturbate - IF they find it.

And for hiding your toys, surely you must be able to find a hiding space for as little as a few plugs/dildos? Many, many places could serve you: attach an 'envelope' to the back of a closet or the underside or backside of a drawer, behind some books on a shelf, hide them in another room than yours (basement, your sister's room , attic,...), make a hidden space in a pet toy...
Hell, I was so good at hiding things in my days that I guess people are still finding strange things in the houses I lived in in thepast!

[lonely]

lonely i understand your shyness and concerns but why are you worried about your parents opening a package of toys? its your mail. if anyone opened my mail withut my prior permission i would go crazy.

i dont know about there huni but here a lot of shops that sell lingerie also sell toys etc so it quite easy to go shopping for lingerie and just pick up a novalty or two.

you talk of chafing, i used to feel uncomfortable but i found that if i showered and used talc to make sure i was totally dry after i didnt get any problems, its only when i find myself in situations were i feel hot and clammy that i feel uncomportable and tha is mostly in the hot weather.

this may sound silly to some but if it is just the feeling for now then have you tried something that you have in the house, like carrots for instance? it will save you embarrasement as it is normal vegetable nd as long as you make sure you wash i thoroughly i wont hurt you and do be sure to throw it away after and not give it to your parents to eat after, lol

mistress

Well, considering I get about 3-5 things a month (bills and 1 magazine) a box would be rather out of place. Do you know if you can have UPS hold a package to pick up and notify via e-mail or cellphone?

Closest one (that I know of) is a half hour away, I guess it is still a possibility...

OK, I didn't know that.

I'd have to go shopping for that, (not a lot of big raw vegetable eaters here) but I could do that.

And for hiding your toys, surely you must be able to find a hiding space for as little as a few plugs/dildos? Many, many places could serve you: attach an 'envelope' to the back of a closet or the underside or backside of a drawer, behind some books on a shelf, hide them in another room than yours (basement, your sister's room , attic,...), make a hidden space in a pet toy...

I'm not too worried about the hiding once I get it, though you did give me a few better ideas than where I was going to hide them. I'm more worried about hiding them if I get them via mail.

Can a resident of a house that is not the primary resident put a hold on a single package and have them can via a phone number other than the house phone?

[calebextreme]

I didn't order my first real toy until after I moved out of my parents' house... Even then, I've been fairly terrible at hiding my toy box (or toy... tote bag, to be more accurate) from my roommates. I've once had it laying out on my floor, unzipped, and the contents thankfully obscured just enough to not invite attention while other people were in my room. So, my advice is... be more careful than I am. Lawl.

[bimboy]

Also, since you're still growing - and money IS an object.
- It doesn't HAVE to be a store-bought butt-plug.

Pretty much any rounded smooth object will do !
- fruit, plastic bottles, candles, pet's chew toys the possibilities are endless !

[alongeasy]

i think u better buy for yourself a inflatable. more better because of u can easily adjust u desired.

[lonely]

I've finally bought a butt plug. I forget which brand, but it's 1"-1.25" width diameter, about 4" long, and has a vibrator in it. It's non-jelly and they suggested System Jo latex lube with it. I like it so far, but the batteries died halfway through my first use of it. Guess I should have bought the batteries like the woman suggested.

Anyway, I have a few questions because unlike everything else made in America, this didn't come with a 10 page (6 languages) instruction manual for everything you can and can't do with it.

1.) Should it go all the way in? I always thought that the base held it at the asshole, but this thing went to about my belly button.

2.) I'm having issues with getting it out. I can get it to the curve right near the entrance (exit I guess) but the bullet in it gets stuck there and I spend 1 minutes digging it out, which is a nasty proposition. Are their easier ways?

3.) Is latex lube non-toxic? Not that the plug is ever going in my mouth, *shudders* but my hands tend to have a residue afterwards and... yeah. Also, can the lube cause the runs?

4.) Is there a cleaner way of getting it out short of an enema? Right now I have to plan on getting it out in the shower since that's the only way I can keep everything clean. I'm an evening shower person, so I don't really think I can keep it in all day just yet.


...I know I had more, but I can't think of them at the moment.

Thanks in advance for your advice. You all are the only people who I know who wouldn't be talking out of your ass. Or in Tangerine's case he'd be very knowledgeable while talking out of his ass.