Do orgasms help you stretch?

[juliegirl91]

Hi, I'm new to the board and have a question related to training to take bigger objects both vaginally and anally. My question is, does having an orgasm relax your muscles so you can take a bigger object or does it tense up the muscles and make it more difficult to open up?

I have heard both. If I'm stetching and I have an orgasm, my muscles tense up during the orgasm but I feel like they relax a few minutes after I finish my orgasm. Anyone know the answer?

Julie

[meganuke40]

[quote name='julie-girl' date='11 May 2010 - 01:04 AM' timestamp='1273539841' post='179465']
Hi, I'm new to the board and have a question related to training to take bigger objects both vaginally and anally. My question is, does having an orgasm relax your muscles so you can take a bigger object or does it tense up the muscles and make it more difficult to open up?

I have heard both. If I'm stetching and I have an orgasm, my muscles tense up during the orgasm but I feel like they relax a few minutes after I finish my orgasm. Anyone know the answer?

Julie
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I think you have it spot-on. The body's muscles do have a tendency to tense up during orgasm, but the act of stretching functions something like a "massage" for the internal muscles of the hole, so once the brief tension of the orgasm subsides, the muscle is generally nicely relaxed.

I wouldn't say the orgasm itself really makes one more or less relaxed than they were prior to the orgasm, though. What's important is that usually immediately pre-orgasm, a person's inclination is to move faster, harder, etc, so this little bit of time when you're doing that will be giving your hole an even more vigorous work-out than you had been giving it a few moments before. That may be why it seems more relaxed afterwards.

Consider trying to train yourself to push when you orgasm rather than constricting up - that seems to be what the squirting girls do (from visual observations in videos, anyway), so that might help you to not only avoid some of the tension that can happen during orgasm, but also help you to develop squirting! =)

[juliegirl91]

Thanks for the reply. Now that I think of it, I think I naturally try to push when I'm having an orgasm and trying to stretch wide open. I think this especially work if I'm playing anally. I haven't squirted yet though, just get really wet.

Julie

[alongeasy]

i found new way to push big object inside me. Play inside bathroom. When u wanna insert big object inside u, shower your head & body with cold water. your brain will let your muscle open and let the toys inside. it work.

[juliegirl91]

[quote name='alongeasy' date='14 May 2010 - 11:38 AM' timestamp='1273862317' post='179971']
i found new way to push big object inside me. Play inside bathroom. When u wanna insert big object inside u, shower your head & body with cold water. your brain will let your muscle open and let the toys inside. it work.
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I've never heard of this but I'll try it today!

J

[Rosebutt]

I know my wife opens up HUGE anally and vaginally after an orgasm. I think tensing occurs right at the moment of orgasm, but seconds after, everything opens up...

[minx]

Hi,

The problem really occurs after orgasm, depending on how hard you've been playing before and how good the climax was, and how horny you were/if you want to keep on going. I think it also changes according to whether you're playing alone or in company. Physically after orgasm it might be possible to go bigger but by the very nature of orgasm would you really want to carry on?

[juliegirl91]

[quote name='Minx' date='18 May 2010 - 02:18 PM' timestamp='1274217503' post='180480']
Hi,

The problem really occurs after orgasm, depending on how hard you've been playing before and how good the climax was, and how horny you were/if you want to keep on going. I think it also changes according to whether you're playing alone or in company. Physically after orgasm it might be possible to go bigger but by the very nature of orgasm would you really want to carry on?
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I can have multiple orgasms pretty easily if I'm turned on so wanting to carry on is not an issue. In fact, the third or fourth orgasms I have in a session tend to be the strongest for me. After that I can start getting tired but that's where a partner can help. I agree that the hornier I am, the more I'm able to stretch because everything just feels better, even a little pain.

Julie