What do I do now?

[Discreet227]

I'm trying to achieve a higher level of pleasure but I can only achieve that perfect orgasm once like every 20 times. Other times its a crap load of work for more pain then pleasure. I bought a pump but while it used to be pleasurable now it goes from not much pleasure to pain immediately. Its like I didn't increase my threshold at all all I did was reduce the window of pleasure before it starts hurting. Also I have to use things like fake fruit and other things that if u came across them it would not look gay so its hard to find objects only slightly bigger then the last ones. (At the most I can get a plastic pear in me at the moment.)

I know I can never have orgasms like a woman but surely I can get more then this. I'm not a fetishist but is there any thing anybody can suggest that one person can do by themselves and in secret? (I'm reaching the limits of what I can do alone) Edited August 1, 2009 by Discreet227

[allapologies]

I'm trying to achieve a higher level of pleasure but I can only achieve that perfect orgasm once like every 20 times. Other times its a crap load of work for more pain then pleasure. I bought a pump but while it used to be pleasurable now it goes from not much pleasure to pain immediately. Its like I didn't increase my threshold at all all I did was reduce the window of pleasure before it starts hurting. Also I have to use things like fake fruit and other things that if u came across them it would not look gay so its hard to find objects only slightly bigger then the last ones. (At the most I can get a plastic pear in me at the moment.)

I know I can never have orgasms like a woman but surely I can get more then this. I'm not a fetishist but is there any thing anybody can suggest that one person can do by themselves and in secret? (I'm reaching the limits of what I can do alone)

I'm guessing you live with others who you don't want them knowing your fetishes? I was never able to achieve real pleasure until I bought an actual dildo. I just hid it, its not too hard. Wrap it in a cloth and put it in a clothes drawer. Been doing it for years. IMO, you won't feel really good until you get a good sex toy made with real skin type material. Feels so good and doesn't hurt a bit!

[Discreet227]

I'm guessing you live with others who you don't want them knowing your fetishes? I was never able to achieve real pleasure until I bought an actual dildo. I just hid it, its not too hard. Wrap it in a cloth and put it in a clothes drawer. Been doing it for years. IMO, you won't feel really good until you get a good sex toy made with real skin type material. Feels so good and doesn't hurt a bit!

I've been wanting to do that but "The Red door" is the only sex shop close to us and they don't have a very good selection of width based anal toys. They only have really long dildos and tiny butt plugs. And if I ordered something online and someone else in the house opened the package well, that's it. My life would be over. Like completely. I would have the Red door order something but I'm afraid some retard from the red door would call the house all like "could you tell Discreet227 his butt plug arrived and he can pick it up at any time?"

[extremef]

Go rent a P.O. box and have it shipped there.
After hearing about it here I recently bought a Kong dog chew toy. It's actual the most comfortable big toy (3+ inch wide) I have now.

[Discreet227]

Go rent a P.O. box and have it shipped there.
After hearing about it here I recently bought a Kong dog chew toy. It's actual the most comfortable big toy (3+ inch wide) I have now.

Wow you know I actually asked about renting a PO box on this forum I think. But I ran into the same problem as before. I was worried that someone at the post office would call and be like "we have a packedge for Discreet227" and my family would be all like "why did you rent a PO box if you were not getting something fagoty or illegal?" Then I'd be screwed.

[Rosebutt]

Bro-

You're a 24 year old man. Grow a pair and buy yourself a proper toy. Why do you care what anyone else thinks?

[Dats]

I've been wanting to do that but "The Red door" is the only sex shop close to us and they don't have a very good selection of width based anal toys. They only have really long dildos and tiny butt plugs. And if I ordered something online and someone else in the house opened the package well, that's it. My life would be over. Like completely. I would have the Red door order something but I'm afraid some retard from the red door would call the house all like "could you tell Discreet227 his butt plug arrived and he can pick it up at any time?"

Sex stores are much more discreet (get it ) than that. They'll never mention the product over the phone to anyone. If you order something there, just tell them not to call you (don't give out your number to be sure someone doesn't screw up). Just say that you'll call to check if your package has arrived. They're used to situations like that, they won't make a big deal about it. If they don't want to order anything without your contact information, just pay half in advance or so. Edited August 3, 2009 by Dats

[Tangerine]

Good answers pals, sometimes it takes a long time to get what we really need while avoiding personnal problems, hope you'll get your toy soon in a safe way. How about asking a REAL friend to help you to get this package? (^ ^)

[SavageKen]

Rsebutt, Here wher I live people would never understand the fetish, If ANY of my friends Knew what I liked to do I would be friendless and probably hospitalized. I live in REDNECK OIL RIG country. I mean tatoos and body piercings are just starting to be seen ( and tose people have a hard time finding a job). asshole streching would probably would destroy ones life if the wrong person found out. there is no way the community would accept it. that is why this is the first place and the first people that I have openly discussed this with. ( Besides my wife, and we were married for ten years before she found out)!

Ken

[Tangerine]

Dig it, keep it safe , pal (^ ^)

[Discreet227]

Dig it, keep it safe , pal (^ ^)

Your all awesome! I think I will order it now. Thanks for understanding my trepidation.

[allapologies]

You know whats funny discreet? In those places you live, like uber-hetero type places, there are just as many men secretly into anal play. They either don't talk about it or might not even participate because its viewed as homosexual. I think most of us on the board understand why you would be hesitant. I live with my parents currently and have ordered 3 sex toys without them ever knowing. I usually get packages in the mail anyways though, so its a little easier for me. I just fucked myself silly with a 2" thick dildo last night and was so turned on, when I came it shot in my face. I hope you can experience something as good soon too. Good luck!

[Discreet227]

You know whats funny discreet? In those places you live, like uber-hetero type places, there are just as many men secretly into anal play. They either don't talk about it or might not even participate because its viewed as homosexual. I think most of us on the board understand why you would be hesitant. I live with my parents currently and have ordered 3 sex toys without them ever knowing. I usually get packages in the mail anyways though, so its a little easier for me. I just fucked myself silly with a 2" thick dildo last night and was so turned on, when I came it shot in my face. I hope you can experience something as good soon too. Good luck!

Oh god me too! You know I was always jealous of women because of the intensity of orgasm they can achieve. At least with anal I can feel a little more intensity.

[curiousboy]

It's nice to see our board as a place where pals share experiences and ask for advice... like in the ol good times...

Cheers buddies

cb

[Boater]

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