To Anyone Really...

[Lost Lil Boy]

Ok, i like to do play around anally, but it hurts.

It's extremely discomforting, but it's a turn on... at first...

i play around a little, and is really turned on, when i want to go bigger. i'm not turned on anymore to be motivated to see passed the discomfort to continue to do stuff, i don't even cum or anything, i feel like i'm wasting my time.

it also takes me a looong time to cum when i'm playing with it...

i don't even cum fast during sex.

any advice on how i can get through the discomfort, or is it a curse forever?

also,

any advice on how i can cum quicker... at all?

[allapologies]

As far as anal play, I would suggest you start very small and work your way up. What are you playing with now?

As for cumming faster, its all what does it for you personally. Me personally, vibrators up the butt and playing with my nipple make me cum faster. All depends on the person.