How to achieve a smooth vs swollen hole?

[hiward]

One of the things that aesthetically attracted me to fisting and stretching are the occasional videos or images of someone with a wide gaping hole (or not even that wide ). If I were to verbally describe it I'd say the hole was "smooth", see attached image.

When I fist myself, pretty much 100% of the time the tissue inside my ass is, I guess, "swollen". It looks pretty awesome too with that "used" sort of appeal. But I still really like the wide open smooth look.

Is it possible (as a guy) to achieve one over the other? What's the secret?

"Swollen" (more or less, imagine the swelling more pronounced and 'thicker')

 

"Smooth"

 

[prettylewdthoughts]

Ngl ive been wondering about this too. 

I see so many girls with a smooth hole after play but mine (also a girl) just looks swollen every time

[imsnowman72]

I love them either way but have a thing for swollen.

[Jarred]

I think it has to do with the tightness of the skin of their butt. These girls probably hit the gym a lot.

[Darthvin]

To get a gape (which would be smooth i guess) I've read its all about relaxing the rectum/anus. A few forums I've read is orgasm is important - could be fiction, but also maybe about relaxing those muscles after a heavy play. I use a solid aluminium meo hollow plug large to get a 'gape feel' after taking out but my rectum always falls down no matter what muscles i tense or relax - think its mostly about individual genetics.