Why prolapse?

[Guest matthew.winterbottom]

Since I've started self-fisting - or rather, since I've finally been able to self-fist - I've found my mind wandering during the sessions. It's oddly meditative. It occurred to me that from a pretty early point in my sexual development, I wanted to be penetrated. I'm not gay, or rather I don't identify as gay. I've had sex with men, but I've never had a non-sexual relationship with a man. But I wanted to be penetrated. I was always jealous that women could be penetrated; that they had a sex organ that was designed (not that I believe in a designer...) to be penetrated. It didn't take long for me to realise that the anus could also be penetrated and that, for a man, this was the only option. So I experimented, and it was ok. Just ok. Not great by any means. It's not that it hurt per se, more that it wasn't great. At that time - I was about 14 - I had no access to sex toys and we barely had internet. In the dark days of dial-up and as I was still new to the whole online thing, my sources for information were limited. I carried on with household items, nothing wider than an inch, and only on the rare occasions when I had the house to myself for a decent amount of time. I was not, at the time, particularly impressed with anal.

It wasn't until later, after I'd moved away from home, that my interest began to pique on a more regular basis. I'd always had an interest in body modification in general and by this time - I'd be about 20 - I'd already accumulated a handful of piercings (stretched lobes, septum, tongue, nipples) and a solitary tattoo. I also decided to invest in a starter set of butt plugs. I realised that in order to properly enjoy anal, it was necessary to develop the sexual capacity of the anus - to stretch it and to get used to the feeling of being 'stuffed'. I started using my 2.5' plug more often. I'd wear it around the house, and on short trips out to the shop. I began to collect more toys including a 3.5' butt plug that took me a long time to stretch up to. I can't recall exactly when, but at some point around this time I became aware, through porn, of prolapse. As soon as I saw it I knew that I wanted it. It was the same feeling as the first time I saw someone with stretched ear piercings and the same as the first time I saw a tattoo. I was fascinated by it and drawn to it.

To my mind, the conversion of the anus to a sexual organ is most fully realised in the development of a prolapse. Also, I would classify anal stretching and an intentional prolapse as a form of body modification. It's different, obviously, because it is also a medical condition, but I have developed mine entirely on purpose and my relationship with it is the same as it is with my piercings and tattoos. In terms of time taken, it took me a similar length of time to stretch my ear lobe piercing up to an inch as it did to stretch my anus to be able to take a fist easily. In terms of cost, if you take into account toys and lube it's probably about the same as a small-medium size tattoo. It is invisible unless I get it out which puts it level with genital piercings and non-visible tattoos. I've never had to explain it to anyone, unlike my stretched lobes, and it has no broader symbolic meaning, but I am aware that it is more often thought of as a 'condition' than it is as a modification. I guess if anyone encountered it who was not equally immersed in a sexual subculture in which it is known, they would have questions. To which I would give this account as an answer.

[jdeesohs2012]

I do it because it feels good. Anal is simply fun and can be enjoyed by anyone who opens up to it (pun intended); a rosebud is really a representation of true dedication to the play.

In some aspects, anal play and the development of the sphincter and colon muscles could also be considered a sport, not necessarily a very competitive one, but a sport nonetheless. I don't know about you, but the "Anal Olympics" definitely sounds like something I would watch.

Your approach to prolapsing is certainly different than mine, but it's a very interesting point of view for individuals who are into body modification.

I'm sure many people prolapse because it's their "dirty little secret," others do it because they're sexually submissive to someone, as well as people who do it because it just feels damned good (me).

Keep playing and have fun!

[boyevoy]

Hey Matthew, nice words about the prolapse! Me too, i am a fan of body modification and i do consider prolapse a part of it. I have, as you, stretched lobes, nipple piercing, i made a curcumcision some years ago and happily develop my prolapse. i just find my feeling of stretched and stuffed cunt very arousing for me, (although in traditional sex i am not submissive and prefer to be top or versatile). And For me prolapse is one of the most sensual and intimate thing in sex (i mean if you show somebody your prolapse and this person accept it with respect) thus multiplies the satisfaction of sexual communication.

[bud111]

Many good friends have described the state of prolapse ..... you can write a lot but for me it is an art that is something bearing completeness and pleasure ..... enjoy the trip to prolapse and then .... .
 

[Guest matthew.winterbottom]

The other thing I noticed along the way is that anal stretching has a point of no return, just like lobe stretching. If I take my tunnels out, my lobes will shrink down but they will never be the way they were and I'll likely always be able to get back to the largest size I've been (1 3/8")...

I noticed it with my asshole just after I started really trying to prolapse. I noticed that as soon as I started to pull my asshole apart and basically play with relaxing and contracting the different muscles... which led pretty quickly to daily (sometimes several times a day) self-fisting, about a week into that I noticed that if I relaxed my asshole, the lips would roll out and I could see the rosebutt just in behind waiting to pop out. I got a little nervous and stopped playing so much. I regrouped and when I went back to that method of play, it was as if I'd never stopped. I'm pretty sure my asshole will never go back to how it was and it's a bit of a mind-trip sometimes, but the best cure for that, I've found, is a swift session of fisting... so on that note, back to work!

[Red budding]

I'm glad I found this board.  There is no better feeling than playing with a prolapse.  It has an almost addictive nature and is often better than ejaculation.  I've been working on mine for almost 10 years and it's quite developed.  My only concern is that I keep trying to make it bigger, at what point is too big haha.  Good thing it takes alot of work to get truly huge.

[TinyNutsTim]

On Saturday, July 16, 2016 at 9:23 PM, Red budding said:

I'm glad I found this board.  There is no better feeling than playing with a prolapse.  It has an almost addictive nature and is often better than ejaculation.  I've been working on mine for almost 10 years and it's quite developed.  My only concern is that I keep trying to make it bigger, at what point is too big haha.  Good thing it takes alot of work to get truly huge.

I checked with a doctor in Hollywood, sees this all the time, there. He said, if your small intestine comes out with it you've gone way too far, until then, the whole colon seems to be fair game. Yes, he stretch-fucks, too. It can be manually reinserted by a helper in worst cases. Says if you see about 18 or so inches, that's about it. 18 inches on the outside, and another 18 after it folds back inside. Unless they were fakes, I've seen a couple close to that. I can confirm with an educated guess because before I stretch-fuck myself or get fisted I use a hose to wash out my guts from the inside end and I can get about 3 ft (1 mtr) in before I feel the little ball on the end bump the other end of my fuck tunnel.

So, if you can prolapse 18 or so inches you're an anal prolapse master, hands down. There's just nothing more to come out unless you're into some real damage to yourself. Hell, some may be. If you think you can get your small intestine back where it needs to be without causing too tight a bend somewhere resulting in a blockage, go for it. Just post the pictures before you try and put it back and have to seek medical help. This is something I'd want to look at as I assfuck myself to orgasm.

[Red budding]

Thanks for the info!  I'm no where close to that maybe 5-6 inches.  I am always trying for more length tho.  18 inches is insane, that's alot of work to get to that. Besides that would be too much in my opinion I guess

[Guest matthew.winterbottom]

are we totally sure we're not confusing inches with centimetres? 18cm is a substantial prolapse and would put you level with the biggest I've seen in porn etc. I'm not sure 18" is really possible while retaining the ability to get it back in again...

[jdeesohs2012]

9 hours ago, matthew.winterbottom said:

are we totally sure we're not confusing inches with centimetres? 18cm is a substantial prolapse and would put you level with the biggest I've seen in porn etc. I'm not sure 18" is really possible while retaining the ability to get it back in again...

The biggest a prolapse can get is up to the sigmoid colon and maybe like an inch or two farther. The deeper your stretch yourself, the bigger and longer the prolapse is going to be. I think @TinyNutsTim was referring to the entire length of the rectum, sigmoid, and descending colons combined, which IF you found a way to actually prolapse that far, you would need it to be surgically repaired.

Here's a few examples of how big a prolapse can safely (so to speak) get.

http://xhamster.com/movies/977294/prolapse_of_fear.html

And another

http://xhamster.com/movies/1984708/prolapse_fist_and_fuck.html

Bare in mind, these are both men, @Dirtygardengirl easily has the largest female prolapse.

You can see the sharp turn the sigmoid makes is where the prolapse stops coming out. Both of these men can easily take a fist to the elbow. DGG could probably take a woman's fist to the elbow.

[TinyNutsTim]

I have seen one video that was on eFukt.com. It's not there anymore unfortunately. The person in it was in the sitting position and he had at least a foot, (30cm) just hanging out and not engorged (inflated), he wasn't pushing. I could estimate a foot because his boyfriend was stroking it, and it was about three hand widths it length. That's about two feet of colon. He may have needed help getting it back in, it looked like the other guy would not have minded. As for me, re-ran it several times in amazement, and even though I'm straight, I didn't care, I fucking still orgasmed. Should have downloaded it, damn it.

[Guest matthew.winterbottom]

On 8/2/2016 at 9:56 PM, jdeesohs2012 said:

 

Here's a few examples of how big a prolapse can safely (so to speak) get.

http://xhamster.com/movies/977294/prolapse_of_fear.html

 

 

I've seen that before. That is the asshole I want. When I'm pushing out my (modest) rose, that's what I'm aiming for.

[jdeesohs2012]

4 hours ago, matthew.winterbottom said:

I've seen that before. That is the asshole I want. When I'm pushing out my (modest) rose, that's what I'm aiming for.

A prolapse like that does take a considerable amount of time and effort. Lots of pumping and depth training. Not to mention, I'm nearly certain this man is regularly fisted by another man elbow deep (possibly farther).

I wish you luck on your endeavors, it's my goal as well.

[babaracus]

The ass hole in prolapse of fear video is me.  I am not gay and do not take a mans hand up my anus.  Just thought I should clear the air. I just like toys.

[NeutralOmen]

4 hours ago, babaracus said:

The ass hole in prolapse of fear video is me.  I am not gay and do not take a mans hand up my anus.  Just thought I should clear the air. I just like toys.

oh wow! Why don't you make videos anymore?

[Rosebutt]

Bud man! You're back! Thought you disappeared forever. Still working on that gigantic meatloaf prolapse?

[Guest matthew.winterbottom]

On 8/22/2016 at 6:59 AM, babaracus said:

The ass hole in prolapse of fear video is me.  I am not gay and do not take a mans hand up my anus.  Just thought I should clear the air. I just like toys.

wow, you are a total hero of mine!

would you be willing to share tips/experiences etc?

I found out about this site basically by accident when I was starting to research how I might go about prolapsing my asshole. It was mentioned in the comments of an article about how awful prolapse porn is and how terrible it is that there is a site (this one) where people are learning about how to do this to themselves!

Even now, it's so hard to find quality advice on how to achieve the kind of prolapse that I want and any tips that you want to pass on would be massively appreciated. Like you, I don't identify as gay and live with my girlfriend, but I have been fisted by a handful of guys. Bigger hands = bigger stretch!

[jbrown329]

On 8/21/2016 at 10:59 PM, babaracus said:

The ass hole in prolapse of fear video is me.  I am not gay and do not take a mans hand up my anus.  Just thought I should clear the air. I just like toys.

Wow! I'm afraid to tell you how many times I've masturbated to that video.

[Rosebutt]

4 hours ago, jbrown329 said:

Wow! I'm afraid to tell you how many times I've masturbated to that video.

Considering that he says he's straight, you probably shouldn't. Lol

 

[TinyNutsTim]

Straight or not, doesn't matter. If there's meat hanging out it's hot, the farther the hotter.

[TinyNutsTim]

On Sunday, August 21, 2016 at 10:59 PM, babaracus said:

The ass hole in prolapse of fear video is me.  I am not gay and do not take a mans hand up my anus.  Just thought I should clear the air. I just like toys.

Me too. I've only had my wife and her sister in me and only ass-cunt fucked once, by her boyfriend. Was okay, but prefer large insertions, gaping and fisting by a woman.

[Hangdown]

That ass is most definitely my goal too.